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Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by OOAS(op): 5:01pm On Oct 06, 2016
I believe in gender equality but I just want to ask how do you feel when you go out on a date and you both "Go dutch" (each person pays half of the expenses). I believe men are naturally made to give and women are naturally made to receive.
#No offense to anyone
#I respect your opinions
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Oct 06, 2016
Is this question debatable?, guys pay for the bills o!, you earn more respect while doing so.

Just be a man.

And don't mention me if you find my opinion offensive.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 06, 2016
I wonder why the world started paying attention to this sex crap..

Sexist, gender equality, feminism, loads of Arab bullcrap
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Oct 06, 2016
It's better when the guy pays the bills.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by ElsonMorali: 5:19pm On Oct 06, 2016
Lol. Who else is expected to pay the bills if not the guy.

You take a girl out on a date you pay the bills. That's how it works everywhere.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Vinshu(f): 5:53pm On Oct 06, 2016
You took her out. She didn't take you out.

So you pay the bills.

Broke ass fvck
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Oct 06, 2016
Demigods666:
It's better when the guy pays the bills.
If you bring your friends along or you eat more than what your stomach can accommodate you will pay the bills.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 06, 2016
Ladies do have a negative mindset when she go out on a date with a guy.She want to wreck him.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Oct 06, 2016
Vinshu:
You took her out. She didn't take you out.

So you pay the bills.

Broke ass fvck
liability.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Oct 06, 2016
Benita27:
Is this question debatable?, guys pay for the bills o!, you earn more respect while doing so.

Just be a man.

And don't mention me if you find my opinion offensive.
PayPal ni
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Oct 06, 2016
Vinshu:
You took her out. She didn't take you out.
So you pay the bills.
Broke ass fvck
she be my pikin? ..we went out together
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Oct 06, 2016
ElsonMorali:
Lol. Who else is expected to pay the bills if not the guy.

You take a girl out on a date you pay the bills. That's how it works everywhere.
shut up
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by iRepNaija1: 7:14pm On Oct 06, 2016
OOAS:
I believe in gender equality but I just want to ask how do you feel when you go out on a date and you both "Go dutch" (each person pays half of the expenses). I believe men are naturally made to give and women are naturally made to receive.
#No offense to anyone
#I respect your opinions
The person who asks the other on the date should pay, man or woman.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Oct 06, 2016
Love Machine:
Ladies do have a negative mindset when she go out on a date with a guy.She want to wreck him.
[color=#0099ff]Man!! Let me reach you somethin'!!
take her someplace she can't
the movies .
The concession stand don't cost much.
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You gotta be slick though so she won't label you cheap
Take her on "romantic" picnics where you made the food yerself
Or
Take her out just for a ice cream date and keep the date short.
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Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff]Man!! Let me reach you somethin'!!
take her someplace she can't
the movies .
The concession stand don't cost much.
~~
You gotta be slick though so she won't label you cheap
Take her on "romantic" picnics where you made the food yerself
Or
Take her out just for a ice cream date and keep the date short.
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They prefer a fast food or shoprite more.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Oct 06, 2016
Love Machine:
They prefer a fast food or shoprite more.
[color=#ff66ff]haha grin you tryna be difficult.
You know no womanwants that!! undecided
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Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Oct 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff]Man!! Let me reach you somethin'!!
take her someplace she can't
the movies .
The concession stand don't cost much.
~~
You gotta be slick though so she won't label you cheap
Take her on "romantic" picnics where you made the food yerself
Or
Take her out just for a ice cream date and keep the date short.
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lol. dis na naija valerie. its not in our culture to even have picnics, or go camping like u people. carry naija babe go eatery ur wallet go wreck.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Oct 06, 2016
WindUpMerchant:
lol. dis na naija valerie. its not in our culture to even have picnics, or go camping like u people. carry naija babe go eatery ur wallet go wreck.
[color=#00cccc]then you introduce her 2 somethin' new undecided
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Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Oct 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#00cccc]then you introduce her 2 somethin' new undecided
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no dear. they'll see u ass odd. the American/European will smile cry and gush over flowers. wich naija babe go collect flower? dem go follow u go only cinema or eatery, where dem go chop all ur money. u can't change dia orientation hare.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 06, 2016
WindUpMerchant:
no dear. they'll see u ass odd. the American/European will smile cry and gush over flowers. wich naija babe go collect flower? dem go follow u go only cinema or eatery, where dem go chop all ur money. u can't change dia orientation hare.
[color=#2ecc71]I think ya'll make them out 2 be worse than they are.
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Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by omega25red(m): 7:59pm On Oct 06, 2016
whom ever sets up the date pays. if you get to the date and figure out that the person is not who you want, make them pay half (Go dutch) grin
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Vinshu(f): 8:33pm On Oct 06, 2016
NgcoboP:
she be my pikin? ..we went out together
You asked her to go out with you.

Get a life boy
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#2ecc71]I think ya'll make them out 2 be worse than they are.
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lol dear. no be so. but na we dey suffer am. I speak from experience.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 2:19am On Oct 07, 2016
Vinshu:
You asked her to go out with you.

Get a life boy
lol... marriage certificate must mean a meal ticket to you! in fact it must mean a business transaction to end the pervasive poverty..
get a life and stop being a liability
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Nobody: 2:47am On Oct 07, 2016
It depends on the situation. If I ask a lady out on a date, I'll insist on paying for both of us. But if she insists on going Dutch, I won't mind either.

She can also decide to pay for both of us on some subsequent dates, and I'll be cool with it.

But if she decides to bring a friend along (on a romantic date), that friend is on her own
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Olasco93: 3:07am On Oct 07, 2016
Federeal Government should pay from the looted funds recovered, since it's Our money.
A man's money is Our money.
A woman's money is MY Money.
Re: Who Should Pay When Having a "Date"? by Liability(m): 5:43am On Oct 07, 2016
Love Machine:
liability.
oga what is this na?
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