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Re: . by Nobody: 2:12pm On Oct 06, 2016

Dyt:
It's not easy but you have to let it go
How long do you wanna keep your sober self
Pls get it over already
You have your daughter to care for
That should even be your worry
Take care of yourself and stop worrying about a man

When you are happy
Make yourself happy
Do the things that makes you happy
Then the world will be under you

Well said. I've visited this thread twice and was just blank.
Jumaii, You will be okay.

Re: . by Nobody: 2:25pm On Oct 06, 2016

VikingsOO7:
Well said. I've visited this thread twice and was just blank.
Jum.aii, You will be okay.

It's all gonna be ok.. if it's not ok, then it's not the end. Aint giving up just yet. This too shall pass wink

Thanks Vikings

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Re: . by Nobody: 2:26pm On Oct 06, 2016

Dyt:
It's not easy but you have to let it go
How long do you wanna keep your sober self
Pls get it over already
You have your daughter to care for
That should even be your worry
Take care of yourself and stop worrying about a man

When you are happy
Make yourself happy
Do the things that makes you happy
Then the world will be under you

Thank you sis. God bless you

Re: . by Nobody: 2:31pm On Oct 06, 2016

thorpido:
Once you give yourself time to heal and your heart is ready,you should move on.
You say he has moved on already so stop trying to pull him back in your heart.
Don't rush into a relationship just yet or you might get hurt more.Just leave yourself room to be approachable,be happy.Let anyone you meet who shows interest know you have a child.

I appreciate. thanks a lot f or your contribution. I'll pay heed.

Re: . by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 11, 2016*

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Re: . by Nobody: 9:28am On Oct 11, 2016

Jumaii:
VikingsOO7/

Done.

Re: . by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 11, 2016*

Re: . by thorpido(m): 1:39pm On Oct 11, 2016

Jumaii:
Good afternoon. Please what is the effect of long term family planning? Say for a duration of 5 years?

Usually when you go off family planning contraceptives,it will take some time for your normal cycle to return.
Also depending on what method you are using,there are some side effects like weight gain,slight increase in blood pressure and discomforts/mild pain in the body.
I hope I answered your question.

Re: . by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 11, 2016*

Re: . by thorpido(m): 2:17pm On Oct 11, 2016

Jumaii:
Yes, thanks a lot doc. One more question. How do i determine which one is right for me?

Usually,when you visit a family planning clinic,they will ask you some questions.
*Age
*Weight
*History of health issues
*Family history of health issues
*How many kids you have
*Long term goals e.g do you still want more kids,the years in-between etc

All these help to determine which is best for you.

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Re: . by Nobody: 2:30pm On Oct 11, 2016*

Re: . by thorpido(m): 2:36pm On Oct 11, 2016

Jumaii:
I am grateful Sir. Thanks for the enlightenment ,

You're welcome.

Be strong about your situation.Be positive.
It will turn out well.

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Re: . by newgodoluwa: 7:52pm On Oct 11, 2016

VikingsOO7:
Done.

ogbeni check ur whatzapp

Re: . by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 11, 2016

newgodoluwa:
ogbeni check ur whatzapp

Ok sah.

Re: . by Onegai(f): 2:16pm On Oct 12, 2016

Jumaii, just have fun for now. Don't put pressure on yourself and start asking "will he love my child, is this the one?". Just go on dates but try not to end up in bed, so you don't mentally wake up one day, on a bad day and think you're a slut. Because it is very easy to blame yourself for a lot of things. If this guy ends up being the one, great! If not, you had fun and to feel like a woman and not just a mum. kk?

Re: . by Nobody: 2:28pm On Oct 12, 2016*

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