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Gennyike:
If I hear! shebi dey make us believe the real Jesus na oyibo,not a blackman.

Gennyike:
You may be right...just some people will make you think you are about to hit menopause at 26 if you don't settle down.

firstking01:
Dnt wait to know a man too well before you marry cos you can never ever know a man too well even your father trust me...it's even worst with we the men sef, you know, you women pretend alot??, so, trying to know a woman is a total waste of time...my usual advice to everybody dampling into marriage is, know the person's family backgroung and his/her relationship with their parents...if the person has a good record and rapour with his/her family and have something decent doing then give it a try....

But note this...

Always know that you are coming to spend the rest of your life with a total stranger, expect uncertainties cos they are certainly gonna emerge so you'd know how to handle it
Don't just marry for love, marry because you are compatible in all ramifications

My dear, i still have alot to type but no strength...better of on whatsapp so i'd counsel you properly...

Lastly, have the mindset that you gonna make your marriage work no matter what...

Ok, maybe later or wharsapp?, your choice tho.

senibo1:
na waiting I hear too, and the devil na black man from Africa/Nigeria

murphyibiam15:
At the emboldened...click 'LIKE' if you think this guy is on a hot chase for a kitty cat

firstking01:
Dnt wait to know a man too well before you marry cos you can never ever know a man too well even your father trust me...it's even worst with we the men sef, you know, you women pretend alot??, so, trying to know a woman is a total waste of time...my usual advice to everybody dampling into marriage is, know the person's family backgroung and his/her relationship with their parents...if the person has a good record and rapour with his/her family and have something decent doing then give it a try....

But note this...

Always know that you are coming to spend the rest of your life with a total stranger, expect uncertainties cos they are certainly gonna emerge so you'd know how to handle it
Don't just marry for love, marry because you are compatible in all ramifications

My dear, i still have alot to type but no strength...better of on whatsapp so i'd counsel you properly...

Lastly, have the mindset that you gonna make your marriage work no matter what...

Ok, maybe later or wharsapp?, your choice tho.

Gennyike:
What a wonderful piece you have here. I do at times with the picture of the bright sides but i don't at times when i begin to imagine all the possible things i never had in my plans that may come up. People change or show their true colors after many or couple of years of pretense.

Gennyike:
Murphy maka why na? He is only trying to render helpful service. Good intention.

Gennyike:
ok,thank you. your contribution is quite helpful.

murphyibiam15:
Abi ooo....my own advice to you is : please don't marry
You know marriage will make u to be under a man and u won't have your freedom to achieve your goals
Marriage will make u lesser and would you like to be under the control of any man??
I saw were you wrote that u wanna have your own kid a single mum...abeg whatsapp me too make I do the work free of charge for you..lol

murphyibiam15:
At the emboldened...click 'LIKE' if you think this guy is on a hot chase for a kitty cat

Gennyike:
Hahahahaha lol.....we never accredit any good thing to ourselves. Why can't devil be a white man? well, we accepted the image with both arms open.

Well....don't worry, we are not afraid of relationship because the escape door is very wide but in marriage.....very tinny .

senibo1:
what about the legal means of dissolution of marriage? (divorce) tho isn't a good idea


things about marriage depend solely on you not the person you getting married to, why not stay single forever if you don't wanna tie a knot with someome?


have a positive thinking not a negative one, stay cool

Gennyike:
Experts doesn't know how to handle their own issues but they can pretty much tell you how to handle yours effectively. that is their pathetic secret .

It wasn't the same story as a teenager, as i use to imagine the kind of wonderful man and family I would love to have some day but the whole thing changed without me even me knowing how it started.

Mum and Dad are good as each respects each other opinion but i don't know why I always have reasons to run when i see things getting serious. At times,i don't want to be in a relationship as i function best without relationship attachments; once in relationship it drags me down.

I have this feeling and scared of getting married one day and i may not be able to achieve my dreams as i will be tied down to who hubby wants to be or family stuffs. I'm scared of loosing my Independence and of the unknown. mum won't stop reminding me i'm 26 as i waste no time going radical and telling her we are up to 4 girls,that i'm not to old and want to be happy when i marry and not just because the man is qualified. I will always look for a way to scare the man or kill the relationship once its obvious he really meant it.

I've never been into relationships much as i feel it drags me back . I still have my dreams to achieve, that i cant imagine giving up on them. My life as a sacrifice and what to live it doing that.

I don't know if this fear will ever go away,if i will ever welcome the idea with my whole heart or is it that i'm too ambitious,yet to see someone i can settle for?

pretty scared of marriage and its unknown.
I'm not sure my type of bride wouldn't run away from the church on my wedding day.

Gennyike:
You are right but have you been in a relationship all plays out fine at the first and second phase, only for you to find out at the 3rd phase the first two are fake.

Things are beautiful when we pretend who we are not, only to get nasty when we get tired of holding on to pretense. I'm afraid of wasting time doting on what is not what it looks like.

Why pretend in the 1st place?



That's the problem with most relationships, people be pretending upandan.

firstking01:
I 've modified my queen

firstking01:
I 've modified my queen

Gennyike:
yes....guess i have to face things squarely . Life is about taking a step, taking risk and facing our challenges or fear of the unknown will keep us his prisoner forever.

krissconnect:
Please Help. I Got A Problem. I'm 22 Years Old. I Have Never Had Any Period Up Until Now. My Younger Sister Is 17 And Has Had Her Period, Or Does It Take Longer When You're A Boy?

senibo1:


exactly! whatever its, just believe in yourself you can make it. if our parents are still in love with each other till now, why not us? why can't we be better than them? why can't we strive to make the diff...... hey! everything you want depend on you


my worst fear is to be scared of something, "something" to me, means nothing!

not even death

Xensity:
You are a human. You live on planet earth with other humans who you interact with on a daily basis. Some components of this interaction include having friends, classmates, business associates and work colleagues. And all these components I mentioned are integral to the various enterprises that they represent; the friendships you form with people, your academics, your business and your job. These four enterprises are indispensable to your survival on planet earth, and the maximization of your flourishing as a human being depends on them. If one of these enterprises crumble, your life would be negatively affected, whether mildly or extremely.

Now, you know that people make up these enterprises and you interact with them on a daily basis. But you also know that these same people could be pretenders, and they could change and show their true colours in the future. There is always this possibility. But does the acknowledgement of this possiblity stop you from interacting with people, and building your life around them? Would you resign from your job, because you are afraid that your co-workers could change and turn on you in the future?

You met most of these people under circumstances you didn't have power over. You got into these enterprises with them, without knowing them first, or evaluating their behaviors, but yet, you still take the risk of building your life around them.

Now compare this with someone who you want to marry. Just like in these other enterprises I mentioned, you are still taking a risk, but a different kind of risk. Here, you have the chance to critically examine this person, and evaluate the degree of compatibility between you and this person, and from your observation, make the decision to or to not get married to him.

Think about this.

Mrbigman1:
Been single is a good life and achieving ur dream re superb life expectations till u clock 40 and lack companionship and ur regrets might be higher.
People achieve dia dreams under th. e roof of a husband. Plus marriage is a sacrifice someone has to make, two imperfect beings coming together.

Dese re one aspect of life huddle one needs to cross to be a better human. Plus dat ur dream if heard might be wack. Lol

Gennyike:
This una love no be here o....

pay before i go give una platform, abi una never understand recession?

Gennyike:
lol....are you not an F? can't afford prison o.

Gennyike:
You are right....but I'm afraid you can never know a man too well to know who is rightfully.

Gennyike:
Experts doesn't know how to handle their own issues but they can pretty much tell you how to handle yours effectively. that is their pathetic secret .

It wasn't the same story as a teenager, as i use to imagine the kind of wonderful man and family I would love to have some day but the whole thing changed without me even me knowing how it started.

Mum and Dad are good as each respects each other opinion but i don't know why I always have reasons to run when i see things getting serious. At times,i don't want to be in a relationship as i function best without relationship attachments; once in relationship it drags me down.

I have this feeling and scared of getting married one day and i may not be able to achieve my dreams as i will be tied down to who hubby wants to be or family stuffs. I'm scared of loosing my Independence and of the unknown. mum won't stop reminding me i'm 26 as i waste no time going radical and telling her we are up to 4 girls,that i'm not to old and want to be happy when i marry and not just because the man is qualified. I will always look for a way to scare the man or kill the relationship once its obvious he really meant it.

I've never been into relationships much as i feel it drags me back . I still have my dreams to achieve, that i cant imagine giving up on them. My life as a sacrifice and what to live it doing that.

I don't know if this fear will ever go away,if i will ever welcome the idea with my whole heart or is it that i'm too ambitious,yet to see someone i can settle for?

pretty scared of marriage and its unknown.
I'm not sure my type of bride wouldn't run away from the church on my wedding day.

Gennyike:
I know your problem-na recession