Good evening you all. Please I'd be needing sincere and helpful advices on here.

I have this girl I'm getting close to and she's everything I want in a woman(calm, loving and reserved). I am 24, running my Msc. Programme and she's 18, seeking admission into the University. We have been talking for over 3 months now and we've met twice. I know she feels same about me.

Before we started talking, while still getting to know her, I asked her if she's got a bf, she said yes that she's got a guy and that they're not really close and that he doesn't call her that much. She also told me they live about 1.45hrs apart.

During the course of our friendship, we've gotten really close, talked about everything, shared experiences. Most times if we don't chat for some days owing to my busy schedule in sch, she will send me a msg that she misses me and all that. I've also told her severally that I like her a lot.


Now, the issue is: this afternoon while we were talking, some things led to the other and we came to a point where I asked her why she's been rejecting guys ( cos she had earlier told me about some guys that approached her in the past and she rejected them all), she replied , " I rejected them cos I already have a bf"

That statement hurt me a lot, pls house, should I continue talking to her and make my intentions known cos I've truly fallen in love with this girl or should I just leave it as just friends?

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Just stay away from people that are in a relationship coz u might get hurt on the long run.

♤Seems RELATIONSHIP is

♤more important than CAREER these days

guy free dat gal asap, at 18 she has a bf, at Wat age did she start dating den, teenagers ar nt suppose to b doing anything wt relationships.

She's in a relationship and you want to shook your head inside..
Well you can be friends with her, but please don't bring this relationship issue to her, if you keep persuading her, you might end up as the side Guy and you'll be hurt.

RoyalBlak007:
♤Seems RELATIONSHIP is

♤more important than CAREER these days

Lol. Spot on

RoyalBlak007:
♤Seems RELATIONSHIP is

♤more important than CAREER these days

I have a career bro, I'm a visiting lecturer in a University. I'm currently running my M.sc. Thanks for dropping by anyway.

sinaj:
Just stay away from people that are in a relationship coz u might get hurt on the long run.

I have fallen for this girl.

Cloggym:


I have fallen for this girl.

No wound sha

Cloggym:


I have a career bro, I'm a visiting lecturer in a University. I'm currently running my M.sc. Thanks for dropping by anyway.

♤ Read carefully next time, Didn't say you have no career..

♤Its obvious this RELATIONSHIP is more important to you....to the extent...you had to open a thread for it....to get loads of advice...ask yourself...be honest....which one is more important now?

Please find another person to love, just accept the truth that she's another relationship. She knows and understand your motive but sees you as a friend. Don't be the cause why she would break up with her boyfriend.

Continue with her, you will lift the trophy.

sinaj:
Just stay away from people that are in a relationship coz u might get hurt on the long run.

how Far Na Madam.... I Still De Reason Your Matter o... How E Go Be Na




Btw... I duff my Hat For The Numbers Of Likes On Your Profile... What Is The Name Of The Babalawo?

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take your hook and go get another fish bruv

Khutie:
•••Hope yhu've gotten ya timetable for ya exams Gonna be a tough one bruh!

Lol, we dey push am bro. almost done tho.

sinaj:
No wound sha

Sure!

RoyalBlak007:


♤ Read carefully next time, Didn't say you have no career..

♤Its obvious this RELATIONSHIP is more important to you....to the extent...you had to open a thread for it....to get loads of advice...ask yourself...be honest....which one is more important now?

alright, thanks bro

Dextology:
Please find another person to love, just accept the truth that she's another relationship. She knows and understand your motive but sees you as a friend. Don't be the cause why she would break up with her boyfriend.

I'll do just that. thanks for dropping by, I appreciate.

madridguy:
Continue with her, you will lift the trophy.

Do you think so?

indodon:
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take your hook and go get another fish bruv

I'll try to get over the feelings. I wouldn't want to be the cause of someone else's wrecked rship

Lol ask her out bro. Tell her how you really feel, don't hold anything back, and when she turns you down like I suspect she will (you know girls and their rubbish na), just take it like the big boy that you are and deploy the next step which is to start making yourself SCARCE in her life. Act like you don't know what you're doing o, and when she asks you what's wrong tell her you're busy with work. Na she go begin dey beg you to meet up and 'talk' things over. When this happens you can pm me or mention me on here if you'd like. She's a very small girl so it should be easy to turn her brain to pudding. You've already done more than 60% of the work so all these ones na play.

Thank me later.

Meanwhile, why are all of you discouraging the poor bloke? Is your brain paining you people?

sinaj:
Just stay away from people that are in a relationship coz u might get hurt on the long run.

Op, you better listen to this advice...

[center] Assistant boyfriend well-done.[/center]

she told u she rejected guys in d past, doesn't mean she will reject u too. Oga man up and tell d girl ur mind its only going to be a win situation 4 u nothing to lose, if she refuses its to ur own gud cus u can now invest ur time into sumtin beta, if she accepts its to ur gain. lastly, don't ever get scared wooing a girl cus she has a guy not all girls r happy in their rships.

Bros....i know they say age is nothing but a number...and also..... maturity is not necessarily about age......but at age 18...most ladies are confused and don't know what they want.....
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My opinion though... don't fall in love with an 18 year old

Yes bro. She has given you the yellow light according to your write up so am sure with little time full green light will surface.

Cloggym:


Do you think so?

Cloggym:
Good evening you all. Please I'd be needing sincere and helpful advices on here.

I have this girl I'm getting close to and she's everything I want in a woman(calm, loving and reserved). I am 24, running my Msc. Programme and she's 18, seeking admission into the University. We have been talking for over 3 months now and we've met twice. I know she feels same about me.

Before we started talking, while still getting to know her, I asked her if she's got a bf, she said yes that she's got a guy and that they're not really close and that he doesn't call her that much. She also told me they live about 1.45hrs apart.

During the course of our friendship, we've gotten really close, talked about everything, shared experiences. Most times if we don't chat for some days owing to my busy schedule in sch, she will send me a msg that she misses me and all that. I've also told her severally that I like her a lot.


Now, the issue is: this afternoon while we were talking, some things led to the other and we came to a point where I asked her why she's been rejecting guys ( cos she had earlier told me about some guys that approached her in the past and she rejected them all), she replied , " I rejected them cos I already have a bf"

That statement hurt me a lot, pls house, should I continue talking to her and make my intentions known cos I've truly fallen in love with this girl or should I just leave it as just friends?

Free the babe.... Do you think you'll wait till she finishes her Bsc... Moreso, she's yet to explore her world... After ending up being an assistant boyfriend... You'll be an 'agbaya' too. .

just Bleep her n let her enjoy hr relationship wit hr bf

Bibi294:

Free the babe.... Do you think you'll wait till she finishes her Bsc... Moreso, she's yet to explore her world... After ending up being an assistant boyfriend... You'll be an 'agbaya' too. .

Do you think I should leave the whole relationship on a platonic level and let go of the feelings I'm nurturing?