sunvick:
If you got married to make yourself and family happy.. only for someone you love to make your life miserable and unbearable? Common

Life is too short to be in a miserable marriage.

sunvick:
Why won they kill emmm.

You don't kill her she sends you to jail for the rest of your life plus paying child support from jail.
Since the women has decided to be wise, the men has resolved to be smart.

Too many fatherless boys these days in America.
#ticfortac

Stylediva:
I am also glad they would also die like their wives! At least that's the law abroad,no way to escape the punishment
Next time learn to control your temper. Even the bible said,' thou shall not kill'!
Many African women suffer more than this from their husbands and they didn't kill any one.
Useless bunch of insecure hypocritical men!

Bollinger:


Another s.tupid comment.

Chanchit:



So you job is to be judging stvpid comments on NL!? You are a real born- fool, #ashiaraba

Bollinger:

Actually when you are s.tupid and make s.tupid comments, you are only creating s.tupid problems for yourself. It dulls your brain thereby creating stupidity in your life. You need to be careful. Stupidity is a disease. Once you have it, it can never be cured.

falopey:


No. The moral of the story is don't bother to come to Nigeria to pick a wife. Pick a wife there in America.

Many Nigerian wives realize their "potential" once brought to the US. Some of them do worse thing to their husband even more than what an American woman would do. Just to prove a point to their husband that they are no more in Nigerian system where husband has upper hands. So they over do it and drive their husband crazy.

It's more hurtful to be hurt by someone deliberately hurting you to get at you than someone doing it not because she wants to get back at you for anything but just doing it because it's what entails in the system.

abike12:

Why are you calling me your mother's name?

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ItsQuinn:
.....but it's not my fault he can't provide for the family, do you expect the woman to provide for the family and do house chores at the same time? Hells na! That's slavery

cold:
Dayum! You can never read the mind's construction on the face. Reason why i've never bought into this 'come home & marry' stuff. The most unassuming lady can turn into a frankenstein on a dime.

cyrilamx:
you are being economical with the truth. Is there anywhere it was stated that the men killed their wives because the women provided for the family which he couldn't do anymore?
Did the men not know that their wives wi earn more than them before training them to be RNs?
The issue is the women exploited the pro-feminine American law to deal with three hubbys...disrespecting them cos they have fat bank account, divorcing, taking custody of the kids and owning the house he built with his earnings and throwing the men into the streets.
That height of wickedness. The men only acted out of frustration. If I were the man, I will simply return to Nigeria and consult the weirdest if witch doctors to eliminate not only her but also her family.

PulloutGameA1:
Rubbish, There are plenty RN families doing just fine here in the USA...Whomever wrote this trash or endorses it must be extremely retarded_.

What do they all have in common? Stinking Gold-Diggas...They had a plan all along, their husbands labored hard,brought them from the shìthole called Nigeria and at the end if the day, they drain him of his resources and reveal their true character, you know it can only end deadly.
I quite agree with you bro... And I understand the anger.. Was going along with you until the part where you called my country a sh*t hole. I'd love to believe you were only angry and didn't mean it..
It's nairaland. And Nigeria is where we call home.. God bless Nigeria and God bless you bro



He wants 4^ I want 69...Stupid Sensationalist Journalism but hey it's Nairaland...It's Sociology 101, These "Journalist" will be proud claiming to be a Graduate.


If you want to identify a social problem, you must present statistics, Government correspondents etc not some random cases...I hope your Blog fails as it should

Bollinger:


So, that is why you should kill them abi? Or didn't you understand the gravity of your comments when you wrote this;



Talking to Nairalanders is like talking to a wall; It makes no sense.

mnairaland:


Pls as a matter of principle and I don't ever insult people.

And if I will ever insult people it wont be because they have an opinion that differs from mine.

I learnt many years ago that the mature thingh to do is to counter,disprove,or attack people opinion and not their person in an intellectual discource or debate.

I will appreciate it if you refrain from casting aspersion at me whenerver you wish to contradict me.

It would have been better if you had left out the clause "go get a life."

The vast majority of home- based Nigerian men aspire to marry Nigerian women. They already made that decision long long before they were opportuned to go abroad.That has always been their dream.

Also, vast majority of home based Nigerian men, see it as a normal thing to improve the lot of their families by educating their children and , if neccessary, thier wives.Its a mindset.

In addition,their is a particular way,families who live in Nigeria operate.

When an home-based Nigerian goes abroad.He sees the marriage structure abroad as being aberrant,wrong and improper.

The primary reason they return home to get wives is because they want to marry a Nigerian and possibly one of the same tribe as them and they want their family to be structured the way it is structured in Nigeria.

Here in Nigeria, men rule thier homes, children and wives.

So, it is not because those men seek a cash cow that they chose to come back home to get a bride.It is because they wsnt to marry a Nigerian and especially one they can rule.

The central issue here is that the imported wife refuse to be ruled which led to the creation
of a miriad of problem.The central issue here is not cash.You will see that if you carefully read inbetween the lines.

The consequence is that home-base Nigerians who have never lived abroad ,on reading this may experience a change in mindset. This means that when such have a cause to go abroad they may decide to:

1. not take their wife with them,if married.
2. Jilt their Nigerian fiancee, on going abroad.
3. deliberately not do anything to enhance the professional growth of any woman they import or even secretly work against their growth just to have them them under control.

The op may not affect Nigerian women who are born abroad or who went abroad on their own; but it definitely affect those that are still at home in Nigeria.

Now, no thanks to the op, the eyes of home-bases Nigerian men has been opened without having gone abroad.

CFCman:

Entry-level RN's make around $25/hr; while the LVNs ("auxiliary nurse) earns between $15-$18/hr.

In fact, an entry-level RN can earn $60,000 or more here in the US.

Bollinger:


This is not what you said initially. What has your comment above have in common with what you said below?

JeffreyJamez:
So you are trying to tell me now that these men killed their wives because the wives made more money than them? ....that is what you are trying to make me believe?

cyrilamx:
this kind of mindset u exhibiting is synonymous with that of the women. Who told you Nigerian men inherit their wives property in eventuality if divorce? A fellow lady like u, An RN in state of Texas condemned what these Nigerian ladies are doing and u here talking about insecurity. Continue, you may share similar fate if your hubby sponsor u to the US, and u decide to toil the same path of the women....Gid helping you.

cyrilamx:
did you comprehend what you read? Did you read where it was stated that after divorce, the men are thrown into the street and the wives inherits their lives savings? The men didn't just plan the murder cos the women earns more than them...after all they knew nurses earn higher before they sponsored their wives to become RNs.
It is the impunity and pro-feminists American laws which the women seize upon to oppress their hubbies.how can you be deprived of your life savings only for a woman who oppress u psychologically to earn all. Worst still you lose custody of the kids. Though I never condone the murder...it is the last resort of an already battered man.

Chanchit:



What would make you reply a stvpid person if you are not stvpid, it shows you are as stvpid as a masquerade chasing a mad man.

kings09:
Women shaaa. Little wonder guyz choose d whiteys. Wen 9ja women think they r in a 'gender-equal' environment, they begin to misbehave.

Missonas:


Ogbeni go back and read my comment. Divorce, disrespect, murder and all can be avoided. You are right its not cos of the money infact money is the least of their problems. All im saying is that most of these things happen cos the men allow it. You dont need to sink before learning to stay afloat. Take a stand before you take a stand at the box...

OlajumokeBread:
Another rubbish

Who is the MOD that pushed this stinky shiit to front page ??


You said Nigerian men living in the USA that killed their imported wives and you just mentioned only 4 people

Mention another 4 Nigerian men that killed their "imported wives" and i will deactivate my account


And why wouldn't a man kill his wife when the American government favors women, if you divorce a woman, she takes everything you hand you also pay her every month

seXytOhbAd:
What a damn shame!!! . I know of many women who come to the states, beg their husbands to sponsor their dreams. Mind you, these men have been in the States since, work very hard, and saved up to buy their houses and still spend their savings on these women. The cause for the violence is that, when a man sacrifices for you, and you cannot respect his sacrifice, then you must be mad! These men were pushed psychologically by a system that is partial to women, and our naija wives sharp mouth. Imagine not being allowed to sleep in your own home after a fight. Lol. Women will say men are animals, but women are Devils. What's your life and profession worth when you're staring into the barrel of a gun being held by a psychopath you created. Sigh. Sorry for the rant, I've had a long day.

tonio2wo:
There was a reason God put the man as the head of the family.

I blame the dead wives.

princeonx:
I honestly don't understand why some of you guys are justifying the reason or making excuses for somebody to kill another person.
Tha ratio of world population (don't quote me, na so they talk) is 11 to13 women to 1 man. If the situation gets to where you can't fix or deal with it any more, get a divorce and move on. Why will you rot in jail because of a woman? The moment you get in the back seat of the police cruiser your eyes go open and reality will set in and your kids automatically become orphans! Both that money, house, power, name, and respect you killed for will be taken away from you. You will now be known by an inmate number (not ur name anymore), your house will turn to 6ft by 4ft! Wtf?
Imo these are selfish, illitrates, wicked, and lazy men!
I was at a child dedication last Sunday and similar topic came up about respect, nurse, brought you to America, paid tuition and all that, 2 bosses in the house, bla bla bla!! Why is this bs only when the lady is a nurse? There are other fields out there that the women make way more money and they still live in happy homes. To answer that, it's because there are too many da.mn Nigerian/African nurses in the same place at the same da.mn time working crazy hours, gossiping, sharing ideas mostly bad ones and all that!
Guys if you don't have/make enough income pls get a second job if you have to. NEVER EVER share bills with your wife except you're also ready to share the domestic work in the house and that includes doing dishes and laundry, etc (I don't see anything in doing it anyway) but if you're too proud or too african/Nigerian to do dishes, buy disposable plate/spoons.
What pisses me Off the most is that some of these our Rambo brothers were married to Americans, kissed their a$$es, cooked for them, did their laundry, eat to.to during $e* (mmmm lawd have mercy lol) and even help raise kids from their baby daddy but when it come to Nigerian woman they automatically remember they had one useless title back home and can't do certain things! They will now differentiate male and female work in the house which they don't when the check come in!!
And what kind of stu.pid love is that for a 24yrs old girl to follow a 50-60yrs old man all because he live in America? Are you mad? Then after paying your way through school you will remember that he's an old man, doesn't have a good job or just a taxi driver, or security man and all that!

atikuman:
Na wao..i have sister who lives in the US...SHE owns her firm n her husband takes of it.. n theres no trouble.i think if we put our trust n hope in God...things would get better..