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Toks2008:
Let me come down to your age cos it is just impossible to filter out certain age groups from reading some real mature stuffs.

How many ladies have you wooed on nairaland not mentioning offline?

How many girlfriends do you have presently?

People like you who come online to yapp ends up being a big polygamous guy.

Pastors and the bible preaches about fornication yet people still indulge in it.

Irrespective of your age, you need to grow up and open your eyes to the facts I wrote.

Continue to fool yourself in order to gather likes from some gullible nland babes who are far from the reality of marriage.

Mr monogamy.

[color=#1980BC]LOL! So you think going down to insults will help you prove your points better?

You've just succeeded in embarrassing yourself further. I even gave you the respect I felt you deserved by adding "sir" in my quotes to you, but you just proved how much of an arrogant twàt you are cos you don't deserve no respect.

Age is not maturity mr toks and if at your age you cannot counter a very simple argument from someone you know is much younger than you then it's a very big disgrace on your part.

Trust me, I could have easily replied you with hail stones and finished you off, derailing your thread in that process. But I won't do that. I still give you your respect.

I'll still give you the chance to man up and face counter arguments like a matured man and not one who replies anyone who doesn't agree with his points with degrading statements thinking it would put him down.

You're welcome. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]LOL! So you think going down to insults will help you prove your points better?

You've just succeeded in embarrassing yourself further. I even gave you the respect I felt you deserved by adding "sir" in my quotes to you, but you just proved how much of an arrogant twàt you are cos you don't deserve no respect.

Age is not maturity mr toks and if at your age you cannot counter a very simple argument from someone you know is much younger than you then it's a very big disgrace on your part.

Trust me, I could have easily replied you with hail stones and finished you off, derailing your thread in that process. But I won't do that. I still give you your respect.

I'll still give you the chance to man up and face counter arguments like a matured man and not one who replies anyone who doesn't agree with his points with degrading statements thinking it would put him down.

You're welcome. [/color]

Toks2008:
I was actually hard on you and was just modifying my response before I saw this quote but the news flash is that I did not jump the gun for many reasons.

1.You did not read the contents before writing your rhetorics.

2.You still insisted on your vague points despite asking you to read through.

3. You even went ahead to say the write up you never read has a similar tone to what really?

Look here young man I'm not on nairaland to mess up myself and what I write are my opinions which is open to discussion and not baseless attacks

Let me advice you, go on and curse me if you want..this is a faceless platform but I put it to you again that you should imbibe the culture of reading before commenting.

You keep yapping about discouraging polygamy when my disclaimer clearly pointed to that but you are just too lazy to read.

[color=#1980BC]LOL! Mr.man I read your points very well and I reasoned them too. Those points do not outweigh the disadvantage of polygamy and its effect on us especially right now.

That's my opinion on it.

Let the moderators move the thread to front page so we can see what others have to say about your thread.

Have a blissful night rest. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]LOL! Mr.man I read your points very well and I reasoned them too. Those points do not outweigh the disadvantage of polygamy and its effect on us especially right now.

That's my opinion on it.

Let the moderators move the thread to front page so we can see what others have to say about your thread.

Have a blissful night rest. [/color]

Toks2008:
I guess I need to clear the air on some issues.

I don't know the age group target Seun had in mind when he created nairaland but I joined in 2007 when I was 9 years younger meaning their is a level of maturity that I have now which usually comes with age progression and that needs to be reflected in what I write and how I comport myself even on a faceless forum.

Seun,lalasticlala or any other mods must understand that not all of us who write stuffs here are freak of frontpage but the truth is that there are cliches of people with different interests in terms of fpage topics.

I write stuffs here cos I enjoy doing that at my free time and what I write is not for everyone but unfortunately it is impossible to filter out responses.

My write up here usually appears on many blogs even before they make front page and some get discussed on media which goes to show that some people don't need front page acceptance to know good stuffs.

Every thread on romance created on nland by me are tagged controversial but a closer look will make the message clear.

This particular piece is for a particular people who also visit nairaland and as I wrote, I do not expect a thumbs up from anyone neither do I expect any vulgar or baseless attacks from anyone.

The disclaimer on nairaland has
exulnerated Seun meaning we are free to air our views so If my threads smells like pooh to you please ignore it rather than troll yourself on it.

Anytime I see boobs bearing or curves flaunting threads on front page I usually look away cos those do not appeal to me so please I implore people to maintain a status quo on an online social platform where everyone has right to freedom of expression.Enough said

[color=#1980BC]YAWN!

Please take your boring epistles to the next person. [/color]

Richiy:
You sound someone is arguing with your masculinity. Your post reek of the kind of insecurity that comes with the experience of polygamy. You clearly have unresolved issues with polygamy.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]YAWN!

Please take your boring epistles to the next person. [/color]

Toks2008:
Ok because of people like you who only read topics and hastily make comments, i have modified the topic so that lazy people who can't read will keep mum.

HARDDON:
As d saying goes: for lack of cogent point, d tortoise attacks d personality of his Chi!

I don't expect u to fathom d above.


A lil question though: must u display ur ineptitude every time?
All your listless points were all bull n to caP it all up, u myopically quoted a bible verse to butteress ur ailing lines.

So every one that commented on dis thread didn't read it huh?
Poc, we all cudnt be as lazy as u r.

N for ur info, spilling pseudo points to paint Polygamy in d right light is nothing but telling some1 to enjoy d world n gladly lose his SOUL! Just terribly wrong! N i wudnt have shown up if u didnt quote that bible verse out of context

#herebyignored here on

HARDDON:
As d saying goes: for lack of cogent point, d tortoise attacks d personality of his Chi!

I don't expect u to fathom d above.


A lil question though: must u display ur ineptitude every time?
All your listless points were all bull n to caP it all up, u myopically quoted a bible verse to butteress ur ailing lines.

So every one that commented on dis thread didn't read it huh?
Poc, we all cudnt be as lazy as u r.

N for ur info, spilling pseudo points to paint Polygamy in d right light is nothing but telling some1 to enjoy d world n gladly lose his SOUL! Just terribly wrong! N i wudnt have shown up if u didnt quote that bible verse out of context

#herebyignored here on

Rukkydelta:
Hahaha

This thread is so funny. girlhaley come and see another nl comedy

Toks2008:
Too funny and real....If only lalasticlala can understand the importance of this piece he will do the needful.

The world deserves to know the idiosyncrasies behind polygamy and stop the hypocrisy.

A world where a lady can date a married man but claims to hate polygamy.

A world where a lady will leave her husband due to adultery just to end up as a second wife to another.

A world where a lady discourages polygamy just for her to end up as a mistress or a second wife to another married man if by fate she loses her husband.

The question is "who is fooling who"

I'm not supporting or against polygamy..I wrote those vivid points for people to agree or disagree.

LilTroy:
OP i want 2 know ur father & mother so dat i giv dem kudos 4 ur very decent upbringing Wallahi.... Dis ur thread make sense die....

Toks2008:
The hypocrisy of humans and the immaturity of some nairalanders have made me look like someone from mars simply because I write in a no holds bar manner.

Everyone who lambasted me purposely looked away from the subject matter but gladly attacked me baselessly ....what a shame...

Toks2008:
Please try and make sense.

Toks2008:
The hypocrisy of humans and the immaturity of some nairalanders have made me look like someone from mars simply because i think outside the box and I write in a no holds bar manner.

Everyone who lambasted me purposely looked away from the subject matter but gladly attacked me baselessly ....what a shame...

Fkhalifa:
I don't know how the op expect majority even on Front page to agree with you on this polygamy issue..
Not t even the Muslim sisters want it, but the reality is polygamy has come to stay, the men of God in the bible knew more than one woman legally or not and yet God didn't condemn or destroy them..

The problem is not t polygamy in itself, rather the individuals in it from the husbands to the wives and children involved..

Men who have no or little ingredients of a good and quality husband going into polygamy are the ones soiling and spoiling the society

Most women out there have no fear of God, hence the bad wives and children in polygyny

The hypocrisy there is we have more than one girl friend while still single, we have mistress outside marriage, ladies snatch or share married men and yet we condemn polygamy who is fooling who?

I'm of the opinion that if you are fit as a man, not only financially though, no problem in delving into it if you WISH.

Toks2008:
Young lady please take a cold glass of water and a chill pill then answer this question in all sincerity.

If a 40 year old single mum or widow friend of yours comes to you to advice her if she should marry a married man who is asking for her hand in marriage...would you ask her not to?

If you have a never married 42 year old lady friend intending to marry a married man would you ask her not to but wait more for a single never married guy?

Waiting for your answer and how I wish Seun or lalasticlala can also answer this simple question.

Richiy:
Oh, you are still talking? As per your last mention thay I was trolling, I decided to shut your shrill voice out. Anyways, as per your question, I would never advise someone else to marry an already married and still married man. A lifetime of unrest and unhappiness follows which simply is not worth the hassle. Can you now stop talking? This thread is definately NOT frontpage nound.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]LOL! So you think going down to insults will help you prove your points better?

You've just succeeded in embarrassing yourself further. I even gave you the respect I felt you deserved by adding "sir" in my quotes to you, but you just proved how much of an arrogant twàt you are cos you don't deserve no respect.

Age is not maturity mr toks and if at your age you cannot counter a very simple argument from someone you know is much younger than you then it's a very big disgrace on your part.

Trust me, I could have easily replied you with hail stones and finished you off, derailing your thread in that process. But I won't do that. I still give you your respect.

I'll still give you the chance to man up and face counter arguments like a matured man and not one who replies anyone who doesn't agree with his points with degrading statements thinking it would put him down.

You're welcome. [/color]

ItsQuinn:
I disagree with the Op because the world is way too overpopulated for polygamous marriage, we should be focusing on reducing the population, not increasing it

ItsQuinn:
I thought it was just me that had this problem ....now I know I'm not the only one that feels this way