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Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by lalasticlala(m): 8:56pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
I got this mail from a Nairalander. Please read and advise him accordingly. Thanks. The unedited mail: This is a true life story, but, i'll use a different name wit it. & i'll cut it short, for now.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by ShakurM(m): 8:57pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Don't you know misery loves company, your brother wan chop where e no sow, e no even dig ground sef , your dad naming you as next of kin no be play, he knows his children. Forgive and Forget is what they say but I'm telling you Forgive but don't forget! The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.If he needs your assistance, do what you can but keep him at arms length for its better that way. Don't harbour hate in your heart, one life man! What I like about hard times, you would know the true character of people. Focus on your shitt and make history!!! 93 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Jackeeh(m): 8:57pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
OP the best punishment for your brother's crime is FORGIVENESS. I know its going to be very difficult. but Forgive him. Initial gra gra is allowed. Torment him for a while. Thereafter, forgive;for your sake. Not his. I only hope he's genuinely sorry and not just coming around for personal gains. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by HelenBee(f): 9:00pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
He has pushed you to the point where you don't care anymore. Forget all he did and forgive him...no matter what he is still your blood. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Young03(m): 9:01pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
na oga lalaclaticlala thread oo front page loading 75% still reading Bro...just come to book space on time ok am back...Bro dump him , he is wicked like my uncle...he should bear his cross....he is coming to u with obedience complex when he gets part of the share from ur dads will, he will do worst advise no be curse...for those dat will quote me... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by SlimBrawnie(f): 9:01pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nothing gives me joy more than helping out in my family. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by corisande: 9:06pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
I smell fp Sincerely forgiving him is hard but please do. Your guys have just each other (I hope I'm correct) 1 Like |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by ikbnice(m): 9:07pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
he has shown him his true color. If he decides to forgive him he shouldn't be surprised if he lets him down along the line especially during hard times. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by daniska3yaro(m): 9:08pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self- centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway. The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway. People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway. What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway. People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway. Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway. Seriously just forgive him n let it go,love is greater than hate,make ur parent proud by showing love to ur senior bro,revenge everything that he did to u with love n nt hatred. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by ikbnice(m): 9:09pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
be careful 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Okpeyemi125: 9:11pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Wow amazing |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by viviangist6: 9:11pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Good |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Upnepaa(m): 9:12pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by jorlons(m): 9:18pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
just free yourself of that anger and forgive your brother. Believe me, it will take the grace of God for him to live through life with the guilt already tormenting him. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by blessedfavoured: 9:22pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Lol these ones are just booking space. Just negodu |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by thorpido(m): 9:31pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
He should forgive even though it's hard. Reminds me of the story of Joseph.His brothers hated him and eventually sold him as a slave.Tables turned later in life and the very person they sold was the one who became their saviour later. Joseph said,you meant evil against me but God has turned it for good that He might save many people. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by boolet: 9:36pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Forgive him and pray to God to give you the strength to get it off your mind. Forgiveness is a theory, but forgetting and erasing the injury is where the work is. I wish you well! 6 Likes |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by iamodenigbo1(m): 9:36pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Eyaa |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by handie(m): 9:38pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Forgiveness is a sin! If u accept the dumbo back, he won't hesitate too kill u and take the funds ur dad left for you as the next of kin. Find something good to do, get ur own family and move on with life. To you, he's dead. 6 Likes |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by adedam007(m): 9:39pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Emmmmmmm this is serious *Drinkinq Tapwater* |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by menix(m): 9:42pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Just forgive but don't forget... Keep them at arms length to ensure they re not coming back because of goodies u re inheriting.. I like ur person, we go a long way to carry the cross of the family on our shoulder, we re rare breeds.. My personal view.. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by dasanchez1(m): 9:52pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
handie: how is forgiveness a sin? please explain to me bro |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by salaboiz(m): 10:02pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Life is just like a video...... i also have a brother who only give me 3000 thousand per month. but i thank GOD, am in my final year. |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by adonbilivit: 10:03pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
No don't forgive him, bomb him. if I slap u eh, u will forgive him...abi u wan go hellfire? |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by allanphash7(m): 10:03pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
I dont interfere in another family's business 1 Share
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Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Yes |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by kelvs21: 10:05pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Sure |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by yomalex(m): 10:05pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Hmm |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by ebubey(f): 10:06pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
forgive BUT when they're tryin to convince you they're chilling with you...pay very close attention... |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by canalily(m): 10:09pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
If u cnt forgive him then stop praying to God! |
Re: Should He Forgive His Brother Who Abandoned Them After He Got A Job? by Afam4eva(m): 10:09pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
This your story even pain me lass you sef. Usually, I will forgive people like that from a distance. SOmeone who would do something like that can kill. Just be careful. 4 Likes |
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