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Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Diamonddris(op): 5:27am On Oct 13, 2016
I think I am rili in this shoes, and I also think that more experienced and more matured guys are here too..

I love a girl,and I think she loves me too,but she's telling me that she's not ready for a relationship ..

Any advice will be greatly appreciated..
Thanks!
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by acenazt: 5:30am On Oct 13, 2016
Just smile and walk away or smile and tell her you don't care about what she wants. You want to date her n dats final. Don't be too serious oh Mk it like u r joking but you actually mean it. Sometimes being cocky helps.
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Diamonddris(op): 5:38am On Oct 13, 2016
acenazt:
Just smile and walk away or smile and tell her you don't care about what she wants. You want to date her n dats final. Don't be too serious oh Mk it like u r joking but you actually mean it. Sometimes being cocky helps.
Wow! That's sounds rili great....but I think its rili hard to do that when u love the person,
what if the girl now thinks that u were not serious?
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Nobody: 5:42am On Oct 13, 2016
never forced anyone to agree with u….if she said she's not ready then respect it…give her a space..we girls thinks a lot grin
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Godfullsam(m): 6:06am On Oct 13, 2016
just walk away na ..

there are many fishes in the river. If she is not ready, others are ready.

don't make any girl feel there is no one like her, except if u want her to take you for granted.
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by saintdennis(m): 6:26am On Oct 13, 2016
Godfullsam:
just walk away na ..
there are many fishes in the river. If she is not ready, others are ready.
don't make any girl feel there is no one like her, except if u want her to take you for granted.
OP this dude has summarised it.

Besides it's 2016 you don't ask a girl to be ur babe , you start by innocuous flirting, touching, kissing then ultimately knacking(all these within a month n half)

observe her actions are they consistent with someone who likes u or someone who doesn't?

If her actions portray she likes u then 'be a man and woo her better or walk away.

I don't know anyone who has landed punna by taking things seriously.
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by RichieDaVinci01(m): 6:26am On Oct 13, 2016
Girls are always ready for relationships either she doesn't like you or she already in a relationship with someone else

So bruh just let this one go,you lose this time
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Nobody: 6:31am On Oct 13, 2016
Brilliant answers
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Tallesty1(m): 6:42am On Oct 13, 2016
If she's not ready then help her get ready.









Every girl is ready for a relationship, I am not ready is just a polite way to reject your ass.
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by knight05(m): 6:43am On Oct 13, 2016
TrapQueen77:
never forced anyone to agree with u….if she said she's not ready then respect it…give her a space..we girls thinks a lot grin
I no wan talk until trapqueen77 talk we girls wen we all know its a guy behind the moniker cheesy grin. .you think you are doing us,you are doing yaself


I just dey look you in HD
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Nobody: 6:44am On Oct 13, 2016
Dont worry there is hope, just wait for her... I once had dis girl whom i asked out and she said same, i knew she loves me so i waited but other girls wey i won date full ground so i dated alot of girl in one month... GOD FORGIVE ME
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by acenazt: 7:02am On Oct 13, 2016
Diamonddris:
Wow! That's sounds rili great....but I think its rili hard to do that when u love the person,
what if the girl now thinks that u were not serious?
giver her space then. Don't let her think you are worried. But tell her you will be back for her.
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Diamonddris(op): 7:22am On Oct 13, 2016
acenazt:
giver her space then. Don't let her think you are worried. But tell her you will be back for her.
Sounds great....lemme see
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by krak101(m): 8:02am On Oct 13, 2016
Girls actually don't know what they really want, from experience with some. What are her reasonshuh If there's nothing sinister then you can give it a little more push but don't sweat it...least you freak her out. On the joke side of life... A convincing knacking can change her mind. You never know. Thank me later
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by Idnoblez(m): 8:10am On Oct 13, 2016
Honestly just give her space
Re: Guys,how Do You Handle 'I am Not Ready For A Relationship' From A Girl U Love? by VampireeM(f): 8:40am On Oct 13, 2016
Diamonddris:
I think I am rili in this shoes, and I also think that more experienced and more matured guys are here too..

I love a girl,and I think she loves me too,but she's telling me that she's not ready for a relationship ..

Any advice will be greatly appreciated..
Thanks!
Pls better move on else you dont mind being friendzoned..
Thats the excuse most gals give when they like you but dont want to date you which means she cant date you. She wants to be just friends with you. I'm telling you when that gal meets a guy she would want to date, she wont hesitate to say yes
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