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Was having this discussion with some guys the other day. Ladies/Women, let's feel your pulse.


You are married, There is a disagreement between you and your hubby. It became a big issue, What would you want him to do?

1. Shout at you and probably hitting you(Thats the end of it) Issue get settled and the family is in peace afterwards

2. He picks his shirt and leaves the house(Stays away for abt 2-3 days)
Danger here is he might meet anoda lady that might calm him down and things takes anoda dimension.

As a wife, Which would you prefer?
Cc: RoyalRoy Lalasticlala

Not married but I concur with the FTC

I prefer number 2 anytime, anyday.....I don't want my pretty face and body to turn to a punching bag ....say no to violence

What about option C
Behaving like a rational human being by sitting down and talking out your problems.

TheArchangel:
What about option C
Behaving like a rational human being by sitting down and talking out your problems.

Obviously not an option

PaperLace:
So you and your friends sat down, and these are the only means of conflict resolution y'all could come up with?
I hope you guys are not married. I also hope you guys broaden your conflict resolution tactics before you get married.
'cos if na this one dey una head, I await your wives thread on NL.

Like seriously.

There is no big issue or small issue.

None of the two options listed above will work for me so here is my number 3 (AS THE WOMAN)

3. One the argument becomes heated, cool down, hug him tight(he is gonna resist but make sure you hold on tighter ). Tell him you love him and you are sorry for exchanging words with him (remember that men are egocentric in nature, he will love this and his head will swell ). Plant a deep kiss(very very french kiss oo) on his lips, then take him to the other room and remind him(not in words,but in actions ) that you remain his personal porn star .

When he wakes up in the morning, apologize again, then calmly tell him what he said/did to piss you off the night before, he will apologize (might not be in words, some men do not know how to say sorry, yes it's bad but that is just how they are wired but he will show remorse somehow). #CaseClosed

Mimzyy:
There is no big issue or small issue.

None of the two options listed above will work for me so here is my number 3 (AS THE WOMAN)

3. One the argument becomes heated, cool down, hug him tight(he is gonna resist but make sure you hold on tighter ). Tell him you love him and you are sorry for exchanging words with him (remember that men are egocentric in nature, he will love this and his head will swell ). Plant a deep kiss(very very french kiss oo) on his lips, then take him to the other room and remind him(not in words.but in actions ) that you remain his personal porn star .

When he wakes up in the morning, apologize again, then calmly tell him what he said/did to piss you off the night before, he will apologize (might not be in words, some men do not know how to say sorry, yes it's bad but that is just how they are wired but he will show remorse somehow). #CaseClosed

is this for real? or normal romantic story

tugar:
is this for real? or normal romantic story

PaperLace:
So you and your friends sat down, and these are the only means of conflict resolution y'all could come up with?
I hope you guys are not married. I also hope you guys broaden your conflict resolution tactics before you get married.
'cos if na this one dey una head, I await your wives thread on NL.

Okay na.
I go for the lesser evil


Yimu...no be only danger, na manger_ meet another lady indeed. Una done see us wey no dey meet homeboys.

@bolded, has it gotten to this?

Nawa o

Mimzyy:
There is no big issue or small issue.

None of the two options listed above will work for me so here is my number 3 (AS THE WOMAN)

3. One the argument becomes heated, cool down, hug him tight(he is gonna resist but make sure you hold on tighter ). Tell him you love him and you are sorry for exchanging words with him (remember that men are egocentric in nature, he will love this and his head will swell ). Plant a deep kiss(very very french kiss oo) on his lips, then take him to the other room and remind him(not in words,but in actions ) that you remain his personal porn star .

When he wakes up in the morning, apologize again, then calmly tell him what he said/did to piss you off the night before, he will apologize (might not be in words, some men do not know how to say sorry, yes it's bad but that is just how they are wired but he will show remorse somehow). #CaseClosed

Seems like a movie script. Lol

ItsQuinn:
I prefer number 2 anytime, anyday.....I don't want my pretty face and body to turn to a punching bag ....say no to violence

U r indeed pretty

U face look SIMILAR to som1 i knw, i cnt remember

TheArchangel:
What about option C
Behaving like a rational human being by sitting down and talking out your problems.

Option C no dey, which will u go for?

Mimzyy:
There is no big issue or small issue.

None of the two options listed above will work for me so here is my number 3 (AS THE WOMAN)

3. One the argument becomes heated, cool down, hug him tight(he is gonna resist but make sure you hold on tighter ). Tell him you love him and you are sorry for exchanging words with him (remember that men are egocentric in nature, he will love this and his head will swell ). Plant a deep kiss(very very french kiss oo) on his lips, then take him to the other room and remind him(not in words,but in actions ) that you remain his personal porn star .

When he wakes up in the morning, apologize again, then calmly tell him what he said/did to piss you off the night before, he will apologize (might not be in words, some men do not know how to say sorry, yes it's bad but that is just how they are wired but he will show remorse somehow). #CaseClosed

This nollywood blockbuster should be titled SETTLED IN THE OTHER ROOM

But seriously, dis option no dey, so wat would u choose?

missjo:
Seems like a movie script. Lol

Aftereffect of Nollywood addiction i guess

Mcayofficial:
This nollywood blockbuster should be titled SETTLED IN THE OTHER ROOM

But seriously, dis option no dey, so wat would u choose?

If the available options aint feasible, you create your own. I just did

Mimzyy:
If the available options aint feasible, you create your own. I just did

Lmao... .. Nice 1

Mcayofficial:
Option C no dey, which will u go for?

I am not married to an slowpoke sir. The kind that has only two juvenile options. I'd take option C always.

Mimzyy:
There is no big issue or small issue.

None of the two options listed above will work for me so here is my number 3 (AS THE WOMAN)

3. One the argument becomes heated, cool down, hug him tight(he is gonna resist but make sure you hold on tighter ). Tell him you love him and you are sorry for exchanging words with him (remember that men are egocentric in nature, he will love this and his head will swell ). Plant a deep kiss(very very french kiss oo) on his lips, then take him to the other room and remind him(not in words,but in actions ) that you remain his personal porn star .

When he wakes up in the morning, apologize again, then calmly tell him what he said/did to piss you off the night before, he will apologize (might not be in words, some men do not know how to say sorry, yes it's bad but that is just how they are wired but he will show remorse somehow). #CaseClosed

If all women did this all men would lie submissive at their feet.

Mcayofficial:
U r indeed pretty

U face look SIMILAR to som1 i knw, i cnt remember

Rhianna?

5minsmadness:
If all women did this all men would lie submissive at their feet.

I know right

Hahaha.....Thank you .....btw how do you know, have we met?

Mcayofficial:
U r indeed pretty

U face look SIMILAR to som1 i knw, i cnt remember

abdeiz:
Not married but I concur with the FTC

Concur with what now?number 1 or number 2

Ozavize88:
Concur with what now?number 1 or number 2

Lol that they have to improve their conflict resolution tactics. The two options above doesn't sit well with me. It can lead to a worse situation. They need more sensible options.

Na which kind silly question you dey ask so? If options are limited within these two let him pick his darrn shirt and head out...one day one day, he would learn to handle conflicts like an adult.

Hit kor...smash ni. Iranu abacha.

Wife abusers alert!!!
I wonder what was/is going through you and your friends' to come up with such options.

Mcayofficial:
U r indeed pretty

U face look SIMILAR to som1 i knw, i cnt remember

That is Rihanna and not a nairalander, watch Cable watch cable you will not gree

Option Z.....
Me: Are you still angry
Him: #Wicked look#
Me: Wait oh is it this small issue that is making you angry
Him: Looks at me with disgust
Me: So because of this big issue you want to kill everybody
Him: Looks at me like I am stupid..
Me: Okay no vex I am very sorry now... I promise this will not happen again, maybe another one will

PaperLace:
So you and your friends sat down, and these are the only means of conflict resolution y'all could come up with?
I hope you guys are not married. I also hope you guys broaden your conflict resolution tactics before you get married.
'cos if na this one dey una head, I await your wives thread on NL.

Okay na.
I go for the lesser evil


Yimu...no be only danger, na manger_ meet another lady indeed. Una done see us wey no dey meet homeboys.

couldnt have said it better

TheArchangel:
I am not married to an slowpoke sir. The kind that has only two juvenile options. I'd take option C always.

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DuBLINGreenb:
That is Rihanna and not a nairalander, watch Cable watch cable you will not gree

I used the word SIMILAR instead of familiar so that u guys can understand am being Sarcastic