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Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Kgdavid(m): 11:17am On Oct 23, 2016 |
OmaHomes: Have you read your New Testament very well? Have you read 1 Corinthians 7? Don't be hasty to speak, and forget that you do not know all. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:19am On Oct 23, 2016 |
I believe the dowry was not paid the same day or the same time, so the woman whose dowry was paid first is the wife to stay the other woman is to go. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by ochuciano(m): 11:20am On Oct 23, 2016 |
deeway200: Please explain further cuz am confuse here |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by k10: 11:20am On Oct 23, 2016 |
I believe 1 Corinthians 7:12 - 17 applies here To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:21am On Oct 23, 2016 |
calliope: I'm not spewing "crap" sister, you're female too, speak like one. that's my opinion! when I say original I mean since she was the first then she should stay, just feels logical to me that's all. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by ochuciano(m): 11:23am On Oct 23, 2016 |
BlessedHay: I don't think is sin, God is d same yesterday, today and forever. One man, one wife is a simple family that is y it is encourage |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:23am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Chudichu: He wants to make a choice right? someone has to go and I chose the first, if not the second wife then it would be the first wife, right? if u were a child of the first wife, what would you say of your father? |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by pfesw(m): 11:24am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Husband, I can help U to take one wife an her children if U pay me, lol. Listen, it is only a sin if U fail ur responsibility on both wifes. Pray for God help 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Student125(m): 11:24am On Oct 23, 2016 |
I thank God am nt a Christian, and I pray if it remains just a second to convert to Christianity God shld take my soul. Eventhough am nt a practicing Muslim but if ds s wat d bible preach den ur so called God is wicked cuz d God I believe in is not. I some questions for those ready to quote me, ur God forbid furnication right, (1) what will u term all d sexual act btw secnd wife nd d man in d past. and those of u advising divorcing d secnd wife, just put ursef in d lads shoe or probably imagine she s ur daughter. (2) do u knw d world male and female populations? who will marry d excess females or dey shld just go ahead to fornicate or decide within them be a reverend sister. 2 Likes |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by tohact(m): 11:24am On Oct 23, 2016 |
if it is a minute to go, the truth shall reign. marry... just don't marry than 4 |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 23, 2016 |
OmaHomes:hmmm |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:25am On Oct 23, 2016 |
uboma:That's his cross to bear I guess! I don't know really. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by ochuciano(m): 11:25am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Kulas: I don't think so, for me the ticket to heaven is love of God and man |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by nagoma(m): 11:26am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Many of the Nigerian Pastors are polygamous and the bible tells us that Solomon had hundreds of wives. 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by shehuolayinka(m): 11:26am On Oct 23, 2016 |
So because you don know God abi na becoming a born again Christian, you think the next thing to do is to away with one of your bed warmers. But seriously, I wonder how some people think? And comments by some here, really shows stupidity 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:27am On Oct 23, 2016 |
notoriousbabe: I am not a woman because I have a contrary opinion or my opinion doesn't fit a "womanish" standard? and yea I am not God, just a mere mortal trying to be logical and that's my mortal mind speaking. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by ochuciano(m): 11:28am On Oct 23, 2016 |
DeHEIGHTS: Evader suspected |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Jokerman(m): 11:31am On Oct 23, 2016 |
God's original plan was one man and one woman... The Lord Jesus corroborated this in Matt 19:4..." for this purpose shall a man leave his parents, and shall cling unto his WIFE, and dey twain shall be one flesh..." Man and his WIFE.... NOT... Man and his wives...... He has to do restitution, and settle the 2nd wife as a Christian he is.. Wat God has joined together, let no man, woman, thing etc..put asunder. . My opinion 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Rapuru14: 11:32am On Oct 23, 2016 |
OmaHomes:My sister, without any intention of sounding derogatory, you seem confused. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Rapuru14: 11:33am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Jokerman: LIEEEE, please repent 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by oglalasioux(m): 11:33am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Topgainer: That western culture you are referring to as secondary supercedes your Igbo tradition in a law court. Ask a lawyer; a common magistrate court can overrule a customary court on issues with marriage and paternity. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Zedoo(m): 11:34am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Eyekandi: Feminine...view... There is NOTHING like "original" wife.... Your first choice could have been a desperate one....and then you meet the person you are "actually" meant to be with and then get married again.... Dissatisfaction and the crave for "more" leads to polygamy.... There is nothing like what you just said 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by wiseoneking: 11:34am On Oct 23, 2016 |
classicB:No man in the new testament christian era with two wives. Read your bible again. I think he should seek Gods counsel and prayer at this time. These are issues that you just handle with one hand because there are some men that can stand it because of their sensitive conscience that will always condemn them. The second one should also seek God's face and know what God is telling, removing every sentiments away. I know i second wife who genuinely repented, after a long time of seeking God's face of what to do next, he later approach the husband and told him about her changed life. She told him that she is ready to remarry again after having some kids for him. She said that it would very irresponsible for her now to pack out and live with her children alone as single mother without a father figure. She begged her husband to allow to remain in the house to take care of her kids but one thing that will never happen between them again is S E X. They maintained that after many years. Thank God for her understanding hubby. The woman sacrificed. But it stinks to have two wives as a true believer. I pray that God will guide Op better. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:35am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Topgainer: In summary you are saying if he intends being a bishop or pastor at his current church, it won't work so therefore he'd have to leave that "holier than thou" church and look for another that would accept him based on his present merits! cool. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by atoleybaba(m): 11:38am On Oct 23, 2016 |
JackBizzle:a man replying like this? Reason why Africans have problem in progressing |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:39am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Zedoo: Dissatisfaction wasn't the reason he married the second wife, he just wanted more I guess! If he was dissatisfied, he'd have divorced her. 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Rapuru14: 11:41am On Oct 23, 2016 |
BlessedHay:Some believe that the Old Testament of the Holy Bible is less of the holy scriptures. But could you please state where the word of God stated that any man that has two wives has already been issued with Hell certificate, or Are you just envying their supposed two wives "" BlessedHay: how many men in the new testament married more dan a wife? All the names given where in the old testament some even married more dan one wife after the commandments have been given but they atone for their sins by making sacrifices in which jesus was sent in the new testament to abolish such acts, so any man marrying more than a wife in this modern times, he would have to be prayerful because it is a grievous sin. I wish the man all the best Some believe that the Old Testament of the Holy Bible is less of the holy scriptures. But could you please state where the word of God stated that any man that has two wives has already been issued with Hell certificate, or Are you just envying their supposed two wives "" BlessedHay:Some believe that the Old Testament of the Holy Bible is less of the holy scriptures. But could you please state where the word of God stated that any man that has two wives has already been issued with Hell fire certificate, or Are you just envying their supposed two wives "enjoyment". No, come out plain let's know how to help you. 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by ozimec(m): 11:44am On Oct 23, 2016 |
evansjeff: Brother settle with the second wife and discharge her and maintain your first wife. That's what you need to do as a matter of restitution. Matt. 19 vs4. ...it stated that the two shall be one flesh..never three anything contrary is disobedience and can hinder your heavenly race. You can as well seek for more counseling from any of the Bible believing churches Thank me later |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by gebest: 11:44am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Those men u people are talking about are in the old testament, Jesus said in the begining he created them "male and female" not 'men and women' i rest my case |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by oluwaahmed: 11:46am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Pls can sme1 shw me wer in d bible it explicitly states dat it's a sin 2 hav more dan 1 wife? |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Zedoo(m): 11:47am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Eyekandi: think about it, the obligation of kids nko? Plus the first might have some virtues but lack some the second has in abundance... Plus you just said he wanted "more"....dissatisfaction... |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by emmcrown(m): 11:48am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Well, I think you should rent an apartment for the second wife and make sure you perform your duties as the husband and father of your(her) children. |
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