UK based Nigerian medical doctor and humanist Ijabla Raymond, is really angry with Nigerians over their reactions to the recent leaked sextape of Miss Anambra, Chidinma Okeke's sextape. Read the eye-opening write up...

one of those moments I feel ashamed to be a Nigerian. I don't understand why there is so much hysteria about the leaked sex video of a private citizen. In my opinion, this should not make the news. There are far too many sanctimonious and judgmental people who take it upon themselves to be morality police in this country. They pontificate on how sinful sex is yet they seek out the leaked sex video and all forms of porn on the internet.

The morality police turn a blind eye when prepubescent girls are given out in marriage to men old enough to be their grandfathers but as soon as consenting adults engage in premarital or gay sex they start twitching. How is it anybody's business what two or more consenting adults choose to do with their bodies if they are not hurting a third party or forcing you to have sex with them?

Do you want something really worthwhile to talk about? Do you want to talk about something that every decent person should be angry about? I will give you it. Only this month, the Emir of Katsina reportedly married a fourteen-year-old girl, assaulting her dignity and innocence in the process but our society hardly took notice. Child-bride marriage is so common in northern Nigeria that it is considered a normal way of life.

This is a matter that has serious consequences for the lives of young people. It should concern every citizen because it destroys the lives of our children. It stops girls from going to school to get an education, which in turn affects their prospects of getting good jobs and becoming financially independent later in life. These girls are more likely to develop abnormal connections between their vagina, bladder, and rectum during childbirth, which then causes them to become incontinent of feces and urine. The resultant malodor very often leads to isolation and social ostracism or even divorce by their husbands who simply marry the next child-bride. It is a lot of psychological trauma for anybody to deal with let alone a teenage mother. These young mothers end up begging on the streets when their elderly husbands divorce them. Sadly, their children are left to the mercies of hostile step-mothers and may end up as street beggars just like their unfortunate mothers.

The evidence shows that children born to educated mothers have better outcomes than those born to teenage mothers with no education or job. When you educate a woman you empower the whole family and by extension the society. Look around, and you will notice that the most progressive and affluent societies in the world are the ones that have educated and empowered their women. It seems to me that the Nigerian society is confused and has its priorities the wrong way round. Why are we angry when adults (married or not, gay or straight) engage in consensual sex but turn a blind eye when children are raped by adults in the name of tradition?

As a secular humanist, I do not look to any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense, judgment, and empathy in decision-making. If two or more adults engage in consensual sex and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my business. Period! I think our self-righteousness and propensity to be judgemental come from religion. Islam and Christianity condemn homosexuality and consensual sex between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia. Catholic priests have gained an ugly notoriety for sexually molesting young boys all over the world. The prophet of Islam married a prepubescent girl when he was in his fifties and many Muslims cannot be persuaded to abandon this practice. Despite unparalleled religiosity, our society is one of the most decadent in the world - we are almost always near the top of the list of the most corrupt countries in the world. Many Nigerian children endure years of sexual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins, house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is nauseating and outrightly hypocritical.

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/10/miss-anambra-sex-video-medical-doctor.html

If he has an opinion; he should shut up already cos Nigerians have theirs too.

Liberal world aint it?

Hmmm.

I don't like this one bit


Chidinma has given voice to the voiceless, let this die already.

Totally agree with him.

I still fail to understand what the fuss is about with the whole issue. People are calling for her to be jailed, yet the video is being streamed by the second.

Nigerians I hail una. Keep focusing on irrelevant issues.

Kolababe:


As a secular humanist, I do not look to any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense, judgment, and empathy in decision-making. If two or more adults engage in consensual sex and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my business. Period!

'Nuff said.

That Doctor should be investigated

Rly have nothing to say. Just minding my own business

If u defend her, people will call u names, lemme mind my business, no one is gonna pay me for the insult i will recieve if i defend her, u people condemning her can equally pray so that God will kill her so that she can go to hell and u people go to heaven, stupid people with no sense

Modified am not supporting any of this am only saying this girl is still a child, please lets forgive her, she has gone through alot, she wanted money and fame by all mean and she have seen the result, we should have the heart to forgive her and forget all this

This issue has been too over flogged, if they wanna purnish her they should do so accordingly and if they dnt wanna purnish her they should let the poor girl be...who is without sin??

He spoke the absolute truth.

The doctor should shut up already. When she decided to do porn what was she expecting? A pat on the back or a national award? It's a shame that our generation is so useless that rather than condemn her actions, some morons are trying to defend her. Same sex union is highly prohibited in this part of the world. When you're in Rome behave like the Romans. What she did was wrong and must be condemned. I'm still surprised the police are still quiet when it is obvious she was the one. She should be cooling off in kirikiri as well speak.

QueenthDee:
I don't like this one bit


Chidinma has given voice to the voiceless, let this die already.

I just dey laff una.

Africans eh. Kwenu

Neo-colonialism

afanide:
That Doctor should be investigated

my thought exactly. He could be a closet gay.

Just the truth, the country is _fucked up!
Its funny how people are comparing a case of rape and this one, shows how delusional some people can be, smh!

Aswear the matter don tire me.

LuvU2:
If he has an opinion; he should shut up already cos Nigerians have theirs too.

Liberal world aint it?

He has his opinion and yet you tell him to shut up.

Are we still on this cucumber issue?

Is he a supplier of cucumber?

Just asking

"... Many Nigerian children endure years of sexual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins, house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is nauseating and outrightly hypocritical... "


The above from the doctor settles it all.

Let us forget about this issue jor, does it Affect our naira?

I totally agree with the doctor
The issue has gone on long enough, let's face something else... Funny enough some people vehemently criticizing the girl are the same ones that patronize lesbian põrn

Ori boda Raymond o pe ni.... Like seriously? Everybody just dey put mouth for this matter dem wan shine by force..

just here to read comments and shine teeth

I agree with this doctor one hundred percent.
awon judginus be judging yet their closets be filled with poo.
let him without sin be the first to throw stones.

You're on point. Every one knows Nigerians and hypocrisy are 5 and 6

This sh!t is stale already abeg

mulattoclaroo:
The doctor should shut up already. When she decided to do porn what was she expecting? A pat on the back or a national award? It's a shame that our generation is so useless that rather than condemn her actions, some morons are trying to defend her. Same sex union is highly prohibited in this part of the world. When you're in Rome behave like the Romans. What she did was wrong and must be condemned. I'm still surprised the police are still quiet when it is obvious she was the one. She should be cooling off in kirikiri as well speak.

And of all the things he wrote, this is the best line of argument you can come up with?
The Doctor is right afterall.
Or do us one better by being the police and the judge and just go arrest and sentence her to prison already.

1 agree with him 100 percent

LESBIANISM = MADNESS!

GOD MADE MALE & FEMALE TO MAKE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE ENJOYABLE ALSO TO BRINGS ABOUT REPRODUCTION!

NO MATTER HOW BIG OR SMOOTH CUCUMBER LOOKS, IT CAN NEVER PERFORM THE ROLE OF DICK!

USING CUCUMBER/Love Machine OR ANY OTHER OBJECT TO SATISFY YOUR SEXUAL URGE IS MADNESS & ABUSE TO MEN!

LADIES SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT GOD MADE US(MEN) TO MARRY YOU/FEED BOTH YOUR UP + HALF BODY HOLE!

SAY NO TO CUCUMBATION!!!