Estharfabian:

If she feels terrible each time They had sex... Then, He probably sucks in bed..


Coz I don't see Why someone would feel terrible after having Like 3-Mind blowing Orgasms!!


About the Consistent demanding for sex thingy... Eh, My advice... break up with him. He probably sucks innit too.. I think sex should be a symbiosis thingy.. both parties should Benefit...So, I think if he doesn't give a ratass about your own desires, he isn't worth It... Husband material or Nah!

alexiej:
Both of them aren't married. It may seem normal nowadays but dear, sex before marriage is totally wrong. Society has changed the name from 'fornication' to 'making love'. Either ways, its still a sin.

If that's what the girl has realized, then its a good thing. She needs to break up with him. They're obviously not on the same page anymore. Soon enough, ull realize he'll move on to another girl that wuld satisfy his lust.

Tell her to be wise dear. Jesus cares.

Doxie69:
Why always my friend? When will u be bold to tell us the real story and not mentioning your friend as a cover up.
She said she's a student but can't reason with her brain. If she knows she always go back to break the vow she had with her creator what's stopping her from taking a walk from d relationship.
People always know what to do but will still sit around doing nothing.

plavic:
What is 'she' waiting for?

First, he sees her as means of satisfaction, always demanding for sex.

Second, he chykes other girls when he already has which means he's an unfaithful man.

Third, he lies to her and his ways are shady.

But for some infactuatious feelings for him, the girl decides to continue with the relationship.

The solution is simple. She should discuss with him about his behaviour but if that doesn't work, I'd advise she quit the relationship.

She discussed with him and he told her that he is a man and a man has needs bla bla bla bla ...tnx

This why you should date a godly man.

You say you're in Love, meanwhile God is Love. How can you be in Love when you're not in God?

thorpido:
You should break up with him,Op.You say he gives you cold treatment because you refuse him sex.He makes you do what you don't want,so what are you waiting for?

Take your time to build the relationship with God as you say.

Snowangel4:


Tnx for your contribution and I think she is feeling terrible after d sex because according to her she wants to amend and build her relationship with God.

automatix:


I am going to be a friend in my submission.

having seen your pic before, I can imagine your friend is same age as yourself.

Firstly, she is way too young(not sure she is even 20 or 21) and how many guys will she sleep with before the husband that will sweat under the sun to keep her for the rest of his life come along? This is why most guys are already advocating the abolishing of "bride price" because what's the pride compared to olden days when people were marrying virgins?

Secondly, the boy does not love her.

What's the aim and purpose of the relationship to begin with? What plans are on ground?

Does he have his own apartment? Works or still sponging on brother, sister or parents?

See, there are ways to even make that guy run. Tell him you want a seriously relationship and one in which he will come and see your parents so they know whom she is dating

The guy go run cos I know he is still being fed by his parents.

Snowangel4:


She is older than me with two years and tnx. She will read this later and do the needful.

plavic:
What is 'she' waiting for?

First, he sees her as means of satisfaction, always demanding for sex.

Second, he chykes other girls when he already has which means he's an unfaithful man.

Third, he lies to her and his ways are shady.

But for some infactuatious feelings for him, the girl decides to continue with the relationship.

The solution is simple. She should discuss with him about his behaviour but if that doesn't work, I'd advise she quit the relationship.

This why you should date a godly man.

You say you're in Love, meanwhile God is Love. How can you be in Love when you're not in God?

bitchcrafts:
I can hang her up with someone that can make her love n want sex the more and then go back to her bf in a new her. It will cost her litu changi o

Snowangel4:


She is older than me with two years and tnx. She will read this later and do the needful.

automatix:
something just came to my mind and if truly she will be reading this, I felt should chip this in.

There is nothing wrong for her to date. What she needs to do is date someone with ambition and this current guy does not look like one who has started making good plans.

You and your friend should gauge a guy's ambition by what he says and how he answers your question. He does not necessarily need to be rich, broke dude with a promising ambition is worth the gamble IMHO.

Do not be like those idiotic female counterparts who prefer noise makers to quiet guys, cos the latter are often like gold buried deep in the ground. They often term them boring, especially the introverts.

Unknown to them, introverts are the BEST to date as long as you are transparent, no lies, no games. Introverts are not good at forgiving when their heart are broken or trust betrayed. They are intelligent and smarter.

Find out ways to know his desires by asking IMPORTANT questions. I said IMPORTANT questions. Read that again and again.

Do not be like stupid girls (too many of them litter the whole Nigeria in the south) whose ONLY satisfaction are derived from sex and outing and fun.

If a guy isn't talking about how he wants to acquire one land or build one house or buy one car or invest in one sector or do one business, or pass one exam (not necessarily by mere saying o but with exerted efforts, even if the efforts isn't bringing any results, but as long as he is acting and showing signs of independency) my sister you are wasting your precious time, which as a woman you do not have much of it.

Also do not be like those non-entity girls who gauge a guy just by his appearance, not every guy is a fashionista. Get to KNOW WHO he is, the content of his character which should give you a bird's eye view of his overall disposition.

A lot girls make mistakes by choices of guys they prefer and your friend has apparently landed in one. I know most ladies are wired to like BAD boys, but for once try to break off that status quo to see what it is like to date another kind of guy whom most ladies term as being boring, weakling.

Estharfabian:

If she feels terrible each time They had sex... Then, He probably sucks in bed..


Coz I don't see Why someone would feel terrible after having Like 3-Mind blowing Orgasms!!


About the Consistent demanding for sex


thingy... Eh, My advice... break up with him. He probably sucks innit too.. I think sex should be a symbiosis thingy.. both parties should Benefit...So, I think if he doesn't give a ratass about your own desires, he isn't worth It... Husband material or Nah!

automatix:
good. People still get shocked when I tell them I didn't near any girl till I was 23 and a guy for that matter.

Well, that's life.

luminouz:

Ur own small! I never came close to any girl till I was 40!