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Good morning pals,am back again.

During COURTSHIP, the below 10 questions are to ask among others before putting it in consideration.
nothing in life happen by accident, it comes by revelation..where there is no question,no answer.
Before you say "I DO"
1. Does he/she have good relationship with God?
John 22:21.
2. Does he\she have purpose in life?
Purpose substain marriage not love. Ephesisan 5:31-32. If u don't know where u belong,ur suffering wil be long. You must be a problem solver. It is better you are called a dumi while u enjoys dominion. Bread winner(man) and bread eater(woman). Purpose-God reason for existance.
3. Does he/she has a good character?,
not every a good priest enjoys a good parish. Proverb 21:9, if u lost money, u lost nothing, if u lost health u lost something but if u lost character, u lost everything. Sarah called abraham Lord.
4.Does he/she love me,Do I love the person, can I flow?
Love does not hurt.
5. Does he/she have a job?
People can help u to marry but can't help u substain it. Until job comes,marriage flows.
6. Is he/she matured?
Reporting always,involving third party is a signal of immature. 1corithian13:11.
7. Are we compartiable?
Can we be friends! Amos 3:3.
8. Is he/she a selfish person?
Proud person dominanting to be in command.
9. Do I trust the person?
Don't say yes to the person who u trust not. Where there is no trust, no peace. Isaiah 26:3.
10. Do we share the same faith?
Don't go where u can't cope.convertion is allowed.
God will give u understaning.

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The kind of love that exist these days will never wink at this points before jumping into the moving van called marriage.people are busy getting married for the wrong reasons no wonder divorce rate keeps going up like dollar exchange in Nigeria...

talktonase:
The kind of love that exist these days will never wink at this points before jumping into the moving van called marriage.people are busy getting married for the wrong reasons no wonder divorce rate keeps going up like dollar exchange in Nigeria...

In conclusion rushing into marriage simply results in rushing out. e.t.c

talktonase:
The kind of love that exist these days will never wink at this points before jumping into the moving van called marriage.people are busy getting married for the wrong reasons no wonder divorce rate keeps going up like dollar exchange in Nigeria...

True talk