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Talk2Bella:
Bella please I need your honest advice on this, I am dating this guy and we love ourselves a lot it’s been going for close to five years and we are planning on settling down soon.


I don’t earn a lot and neither does he, I teach in a private primary school hoping on God to bless me with a good job soon. My fiancée on the other hand is a fashion designer who doesn’t earn much daily as work is scarce, he was learning while we started dating but he owns a shop now.


He has been discussing marriage plans with me and the possibility of having kids soon but I don’t want my children to suffer ma, how can we get married in this harsh condition? Things are bad I haven’t been paid in months and he’s designing work isn’t bringing in a lot yet please help me please I love him with my life but I am so scared things might never get better how do we even plan a wedding rent an apartment together and start raising kids I have been thinking so much of late and really need advice.




Talk2Bella.



Honey worry about the present and plan for the future, you have been with him all these while and you stayed, he’s not lazy else you would have left him, you see a bright future in him that’s why you stood by and with him all these years.


He sees your worries and knows your pains, he won’t talk about marriage if he doesn’t have future plans, things are bad now doesn’t mean it will remain that way, remember “Humble Beginnings” I admire your courage hard work and sincerity and I am praying things get better soon.


As for the wedding, court weddings aren’t expensive, it’s about love and not flamboyancy, gather a few people and bind your relationship, get a cheap and modest apartment, live within your means and be happy, with happiness and peace of mind comes opportunities you will be amazed.


Talk this through with him and hear what he has to say, congrats in advance I know things will work out well for you.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/11/hes-tailor-with-low-income-who-wants-to.html

OBTSubtle:
Make no mistake.. Women are mostly money driven..

SmellingAnus:
it was cleverly planned and exucuted bro... You guys did very well.... Bravo... I know you remember that I once said in the group. that I am scared of the whole of team Mimyy, but what I forgot to add was that I am more scared of Kashybaby th!n the whole of team Mimzy.... Thanks , I really enjoyed this stuffs...

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parables bro?


What's up?

this trolling never ends

OBTSubtle:
parables bro?


What's up?

is that parables to you? don't act as if you know nothing

Synzu:
Smellinganus, does this have anything to do with that troll behind the bush acct?

IamJix:

is that parables to you? don't act as if you know nothing

SmellingAnus:
you can say that again bro... But I don't think it will be right to wash our dirty linens in public

Synzu:
Relax bruh, I don't think he knows.


That nigga acted completely on his own accord. I warned him, buh he chose to act a fool.

SmellingAnus:
it was planned and executed with his support... And trust me.... I am riight...

SmellingAnus:
it was planned and executed with his support... And trust me.... I am riight...

OBTSubtle:
Well I don't.. It's either things are made clear to me or you keep confusing me..

stop acting . you can't fool anyone

IamJix:

stop acting . you can't fool anyone

Synzu:
Well since you're so sure.....

SmellingAnus:
99.9 percent...

Synzu:
It would interest you to know that select members of his group were not intimated. Including the ex.


Or so I was led to believe....

SmellingAnus:
Lol.... deception is also a strategy in warfare
Anyway, as a retired but not tired maf**so, I knew this day will come and I am happy I was prepared for it...

SmellingAnus:
Lol.... deception is also a strategy in warfare
Anyway, as a retired but not tired maf**so, I knew this day will come and I am happy I was prepared for it...

SmellingAnus:
Lol.... deception is also a strategy in warfare
Anyway, as a retired but not tired maf**so, I knew this day will come and I am happy I was prepared for it...

I see you've decided to ignore my replies..


Well, I'd say I respect you.. But when you come to nairaland and you quote me with weird things and you have jix believing whatever It is that's going on, I ask you about it and you decidebto type things about warfare, plan, and fear and mimzy's group and all the things you typed.. That's not reciprocating the respect I have for you..

When you decide to talk, you can quote me here or add D1BB2BA2.. Have a nice day

Synzu:
Are you sure its not your emotions speaking, bruh?
Trust me, that day will come. But this isn't that day. There's more to this.

Synzu:
Are you sure its not your emotions speaking, bruh?

Trust me, that day will come. But this isn't that day.
There's more to this.

OBTSubtle:


I see you've decided to ignore my replies..


Well, I'd say I respect you.. But when you come to nairaland and you quote me with weird things and you have jix believing whatever It is that's going on, I ask you about it and you decidebto type things about warfare, plan, and fear and mimzy's group and all the things you typed.. That's not reciprocating the respect I have for you..

When you decide to talk, you can quote me here or add D1BB2BA2.. Have a nice day