wedeonline:
This has to be the best post from a feminist i have read in a long while..As a successful woman knowing how ro find the balance is key when relating to men.. Make them feel like the head and respected at the end its a win win for you. If she lives just as she as wrote she is definetely a 21st century wife material.

Who is the feminist here? Afipko chick that was deported from the US for running a prostitution ring abi? This woman is the igbo version of Kemi Olunloyo.

Beamborla:


Read my reply over again. You might get it this time.

Before some vultures however see this as an opportunity to tear me apart, yes I'm not rich YET. I have my two hands, my legs and my brain and most importantly, I have God...I'm not shooting for riches, I'm shooting for smth greater and better

If a rich guy tells me I'm not his standard cos I'm not rich, I won't blame him or become bitter. He has the right to choose. Poor is not attractive to even the poor not to talk of the rich.

I'M NOT OUT FOR A RICH GUY. I PREFER STARTING OUT FROM THE SCRATCH WITH WHOSOEVER I WOULD BE GETTING MARRIED TO.

I love all your submissions.

I wonder why men get all touchy when women state their standards. Inferiority complex maybe? And then the next thing is to start threatening with menopause, etc . Same people will gladly criticise you if you rush in and out of marriage out of societal pressure. This lady has worked her ass off whether legally or illegaly to get to where she is. She has every right to 'choose'.. Heck every human being has every right to his or her choice of partner.
By the wa with the insecurity displayed by Nigerian men, I don't even think she can have it peaceful with a poor /lazy man. Few months into the Marriage, he'll probably be on twitter accusing Linda of sleeping around or her mum of using his head..

warmachine:


I smell lack of wisdom...mtchww...u are one of those crazy women hu thinks a man is another woman...well...I don't blame you...its obvious u don't understand marriage... Thank God it was a woman that gave her that advice...you too...learn and be wise

Na so the thing pain you reach?

Are you a poor man?

Onyiridike:

You are crazy and arrogant as well. If your mother and other mothers had refused to marry, where will the daughters come from? Out of wedlock? Obviously, you are not a true christian?

I am pitying any man that will marry your type. Even if you have a boyfriend, the boy should have his head examined.

Chronic feminist... Innit

Onyiridike:

You are crazy and arrogant as well. If your mother and other mothers had refused to marry, where will the daughters come from? Out of wedlock? Obviously, you are not a true christian?

I am pitying any man that will marry your type. Even if you have a boyfriend, the boy should have his head examined.

That's harsh.
Let her be,everybody is entitled to his /her own believe and thoughts.
E don do,I beg

miss linder ikeji is not looking for hubby, she is looking for who to employ

magicminister:



Na so the thing pain you reach?

Are you a poor man?

Nope...but that doesn't mean we should misplace priorities

Ok I'm go'nn do something I don't usually do, which is single out a lady for public appreciation, I more often than not do the opposite.
Much unlike me, I followed this thread all through the comments, needed to feel the pulse on this matter.
In summary, PeridotBelle is bae.

igboboy3:
Rubbish

This lawmaker had better hope she wins re-election, otherwise by 2019, she'll go back to penury.


Better to be single than to be in a bad marriage

She don't need to be a politician to be rich.
Mrs Maria Ude Nwachi has done many social project single handed without waiting for government. So weather she wins 2019 or not she is a rich happily married philanthropist with children

Beamborla:
She said she can't marry a poor man, let her be. She is successful and have the right to turn down a poor guy.

When men talk about the standard they want, they don't get hushed up.

Hmmm,
One flew over the cuckoo's nest.

martyns303:
She don't have to lower her standards, if she eventually didn't get married, its her decision.

Hmmm,
Another one flew over the cuckoo's nest.

igboboy3:
Rubbish

This lawmaker had better hope she wins re-election, otherwise by 2019, she'll go back to penury.


Better to be single than to be in a bad marriage

Be relative.

PureWays:
I want to be the richest man in the world.

It's possible, if I can work by the "principles" that will make that happen.

You may also want to be the President of Nigeria someday, it's possible if you have what it takes to be it.

We all have right to wish and demand/expect something out of life. The big question is: are we capable and ready to sacrifice what it takes?

To me: Linda is just wishing, I don't think she's gotten the characteristics and behaviour to score the type of man she desires.

Successful men are wise men. I'm not talking about those that got their money through illicit means.

Well, she can always marry a white man.

A white man is unwise though successful?

porshuch:
maria cultured? Check her name on google and you will see that she is a retired pro,back then in America, she was into money laundering back then, she is still wanted in america. How she won the state assembly na because most ebonyi pple are not informed, but one thing I liked about her, was that she brought electricity into afikpo.

An so whethers she is into money laundery or not who cares. What the people want is a representative that has the progress of the people in mind. How many of those nigeria policians invested or developed there home town.

sapiosexual1:
Ok I'm go'nn do something I don't usually do, which is single out a lady for public appreciation, I more often than not do the opposite.
Much unlike me, I followed this thread all through the comments, needed to feel the pulse on this matter.
In summary, PeridotBelle is bae.

Oh my! Thanks so much, I really appreciate this

Beamborla:

Can you save all these sermon and subtle insults for someone else? Thanchuu

This woman wey dey make all this noise wey come resembu alatika for pinshure lolzzzz. na rasaki the bricklayer go marry you last last

Madam Linda if u like marry...it does not improve nor affect naija....nah ur palava b that. This is what happens when money controls u. I am very sure if u where not financially OK....I bet u will do every positive and negative acts to marry a rich man.

Sometimes u celebrities keeps giving us more reasons to see it a curse been a celebrity in this world. Thank God for those that have made us seen it as not cursed b a celebrity.

I wish u all the best always.

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Linda said she wants a man who sabi chop groceries wella....

Well, if i fit all her elevate criteria, I wont want die by suffocation from d smell of that her phussy talk less of putting my nose there

Beamborla:


That's the problem. Quit threatening women with menopause... It's better to be happily single than tearfully married.

Marriage or childbearing is not the peak or the purpose of a woman's existence. It's time mothers start teaching their girl child that becoming a Mrs. is not what your life is all about.

If it happens beautifully, fine! The male spicie is not doing us any favour by marrying us.

my dear ure right but linda is still showing her interest in marriage but now going against the rule of getting a good home.
if she one remain single let her open up instead of mocking herself upandan....to b sincere if i as a man have that same quality shes looking for i ll never meet nor approach her coz shes not showing any green light of submissive woman and thats part of what a man cherish in woman life.
i never go against making her good choice known but her tongue is chasing potential man silently

Beamborla:

Linda is rich and can't marry a poor guy, she has the right. It's way different from rich ladies shouldn't marry a poor guy.

The lady counsellor is rich and is okay with a poor guy, it's her choice and she's entiltted to it

Wizkid is rich and can't marry a poor girl, he shouldn't.

That simple

I am not against your opinion on a lady having her choice in a partner, cz I understood what you meant.
What others have been trying to make you understand is more about humility in a woman looking to become a wife.

What got me a little bit worried was the bolded statement you made...that mindset of you forcing your view on someone who hasn't said such would leave someone with the impression that this is how you think.

When you look down on others as less fortunate, that doesn't make you better than them.

Poor is not attractive to even the poor not to talk of the rich.

I'M NOT OUT FOR A RICH GUY. I PREFER STARTING OUT FROM THE SCRATCH WITH WHOSOEVER I WOULD BE GETTING MARRIED TO.

@ bolded...I dunno why you keep saying this.
I am trying to get ur idea on this, but is that a general thought you have when it comes to marriage?

In a person, one should be looking out for the personality/character and how the person builds and complements you.
Rich or poor, no one knows who God has destined to be their partner. We just have to open our eyes and heart to see that diamond in the rough. That poor person might be the one that lifts you up beyond your imagination...it might not be the person's billion dollar idea, but maybe the peace the person brings to the home.

Weird enough, I have heard ladies make your last statement over and over, and many opting out cz they want a life of comfort...but only few good ones see the grace behind a hardworking man trying to make things better for his family.

Beamborla:

Oh puhleeze! Spare me that.

Because she's a woman she's not free to have standard? Because she's a woman she should settle for anything. When your spicie rant about what they want, it's perfectly okay, isn't? But a woman is suppose to lower her standard.

There are better way to pass across your message without resulting to insult. You however, do not even have a message to pass across.

She has earned the right to reject a poor guy. And yes, she won't be the last woman to have standards. If it was a rich dude who made such statement, you lot would come up with a zillion reasons to affirm his claim.

Suck it up... Poor is not attractive especially to the rich even to the poor.

The owner of this comment no get one Single sense. I doubt if u are married or would ever have a man over ur head in life. You are yet to understand how life roll. Nonsense comment from a stinking gibberish fellow.

Beamborla:

Oh puhleeze! Spare me that.

Because she's a woman she's not free to have standard? Because she's a woman she should settle for anything. When your spicie rant about what they want, it's perfectly okay, isn't? But a woman is suppose to lower her standard.

There are better way to pass across your message without resulting to insult. You however, do not even have a message to pass across.

She has earned the right to reject a poor guy. And yes, she won't be the last woman to have standards. If it was a rich dude who made such statement, you lot would come up with a zillion reasons to affirm his claim.

Suck it up... Poor is not attractive especially to the rich even to the poor.

But no be today rich guys don dey marry broke and poor ladies.

Chai..men don suffer.. We just dey marry and date broke ladies any how.

Oya..it is time to begin our own...if we start eh...that means more than 50% of naija ladies no go see bf get not to talk of getting married..

creamylicious:
all these epistle for one Linda ??! this speaker is a proof that we need part time legislature ..... her full time job ain't full time at all

Confirm many guys like myself who have BVI and EPC"s ... we are not looking for rich women/girls but girls who have rich fathers or brothers.

Old money is hundred times better than new money. What is the guarantee that Linda will be 10 times richer than she in 10 years.

Nothing bro ... wise and successful Nigerian men who want to marry successful women marry girls whose generation have been rich not a poor lil rich chick like Linda, who has barely gotten used to being wealthy.

If u hit 1 million before 25 raise ur hands up.

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Beamborla:
She said she can't marry a poor man, let her be. She is successful and have the right to turn down a poor guy.

When men talk about the standard they want, they don't get hushed up.

yes we do. Who no wan marry Beyonce. But we are reasonable. When we know we can't get a 10 we manage a 3 if we have to.

martyns303:
She don't have to lower her standards, if she eventually didn't get married, its her decision.

I disagree with u dear...... Linda not getting married can never be her decision because we all knw how anxious she has been about d marriage bla bla bla.........

PureWays:
I want to be the richest man in the world.

It's possible, if I can work by the "principles" that will make that happen.

You may also want to be the President of Nigeria someday, it's possible if you have what it takes to be it.

We all have right to wish and demand/expect something out of life. The big question is: are we capable and ready to sacrifice what it takes?

To me: Linda is just wishing, I don't think she's gotten the characteristics and behaviour to score the type of man she desires.

Successful men are wise men. I'm not talking about those that got their money through illicit means.

Well, she can always marry a white man.

same Noni, an alpha pretender cannot tolerate a beta

Beamborla:
She said she can't marry a poor man, let her be. She is successful and have the right to turn down a poor guy.

When men talk about the standard they want, they don't get hushed up.

She's just giving her opinion and not forcing it down her throat . The lady speaking is also successful even if she might not be as successful as Linda which I'm not certain about

Beamborla:
She said she can't marry a poor man, let her be. She is successful and have the right to turn down a poor guy.

When men talk about the standard they want, they don't get hushed up.

where is ur brain young lady?