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Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by damjane(op): 7:23pm On Nov 08, 2016
Moving in with your boyfriend is not an easy thing to
do especially in this part of the world. I personally
don't believe in that, but who are my to judge. Here in
Nigeria when a girl moves in with a man she is not
married to she is being seen as bad and not a good
wife material, most times the guy ends up not getting
married to her, but then again it do sent always turn
out this way, many have gone down this path and have
success stories to tell.

If you have gotten to that stage of your relationship
where you fell you need to move in with your partner,
and you feel you are ready for it ask yourself this
questions before committing

1: Are you ready to see this this face every mourning
when you wake up each day?.

2: Are you ready for the fights?, cause trust me there
is going to be lots of them.

3: Are you ready to show him that face without make
up on it?.

4: Finally, are you ready to play house with a guy you
are not yet married to?.

If you have asked yourself this questions and have
successfully answered them, and you still feel that you
want to move in with him, then go ahead.
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Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by KINGinVAHALA:
[b]I am still asking myself why Nigerians bother themselves most times with things that aren't worth it. What's the diff between supposed daters that indulges in pre-marital sex and same living together when they aren't legally married? Aren't the both sin before God?

This thing has worked out for lot of daters and still working. I know and have lot of friends, both male and females that found themselves in this situation and ended up legally getting married later in future.

Majority of today guys that will want to say the act is bad are either afraid of commitment because they indulges in cheating or aren't buoyant enough to Carter for another man's daughter. For God sake, it's free pussy anytime, everywhere, nepa or no nepal. Lol

God will punish that man or woman that will tell me not to bring home zahra buhari or Nicky minaj to come live with me even when we aren't legally married.

NB: Nobody should quote me with any Bible verse because I am not a child of God or man of God neither do I aim to be or die for your sins like Jesus did.

Hey Gf, when are you moving in to my apartment?

And to the questions asked -
1. I have seen countless female faces beside my bed after waking up in the morning and it won't be bad seeing another. I am even tired of seeing diff faces, what I desire right now is to see the same face beside me every morning.

2. Even if as a guy she isn't staying with you or as a lady you haven't moved in with him, there is always bound to be quarreling in relationships, so moving in with a guy have nothing to do with constant fighting. For me, this isn't even an issue because it's a vow never to raise my hands on a woman, so fighting will likely not happen.

3. I have hands and also good in the kitchen, I have always done most of my laundries and cooking myself, even when these gf's are around, so there is no need turning a gf or even a wife to a house help because she stays under my roof.

The only problem I think we would have is if she isn't always ready to give me front, back (backy na baba) and sideways, atleast minimum of 3-4 times a week, or even every fvcking day of the week if it pleases her. Hehehehehehe @BadBoyUnlimited[/b]
Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by midehi2(f): 7:29pm On Nov 08, 2016
i don move in already ni grin
Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by Laveda(f): 7:31pm On Nov 08, 2016
Its not even right.

_fuck the questions and whatever answer you get.
Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by kinggogo: 7:44pm On Nov 08, 2016
Anoda queshun

R u ready 4 him to b smashing it almost everyday grin undecided undecided

Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:17pm On Nov 08, 2016


I ain't gonna judge... But nah! there's no way in hell I'm Living with Any dude...

I ain't even ready to start seeing same face every fùcking day.
grin
Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by slimthugchime(m): 8:19pm On Nov 08, 2016
Estharfabian:


I ain't gonna judge... But nah! there's no way in hell I'm Living with Any dude...
you lived with your dad, brother undecided
Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 08, 2016
slimthugchime:
you lived with your dad, brother undecided


uh... When I was like 14...grin
Now, I can't even stand them....
Re: Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend by Diiverexii(f): 8:22pm On Nov 08, 2016
it isn't appropriate
u still gonna stay together for 35 Years or more, so why d rushhuh
nd on d ladys patt , It is downgrading , opening ursrlf up to someone that hadn't paid ur bride pricehuh

nah freaking way
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