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prettysolid:
It is not as easy as you write. The heart wants what it wants. But still a good advice.

curiousmind11:
If this is true, why do most women kill (physically or otherwise ) when the relationship doesn't end at the alter?
Most guys will cry and move one. But women, even if they were the reason for the breakup will fight dirty, and may even make it a generational fight.

Some women have to learn this and learn fast!!

Flashh:
Relationship doesn't guarantee marriage, but gives room for sex.

Vendoor:
All these relationship talk don tire me sef...
.

Abeg.

bamisepeters:
still not all relationships.

goingape2:
piece of shiit!


i don't even know why i quote this jargons

Flashh:
I said "give room". I never said "always give room".

Get?

herzern:

I still don't understand what this thread seem to propaqate.....


We shouldn't feel dejected after breakup??........

Laveda:
That's to say we should all have breakup at the back of our minds while dating.

Issorait.

prettysolid:
It is not as easy as you write. The heart wants what it wants. But still a good advice.

bamisepeters:
because you dont want to keep reading, i even prefer people like you as my shit will catch your attention.

mumels:
Nice Post bro. I really love the message you are trying topass,though its not easy as you have stated it.

For example i will illustrate a scenario to you, of which am actually the person it happened to.I just finished my one year compulsory NYSC program-me. During my service year i met this very beautiful,charming and wonderful girl. She was also serving in the same PPA as my self. She is everything i could wish for in a woman, beautiful,intelligent,caring, very very good cook, submissive and religious in fact its like she has super pack bundle package from God when coming to this world. We instantly grew to love each other from day 1, we were almost inseparable as any where you see me she will be there and anywhere she is am also there and of course when it comes to sex she was wow!!!
Cut long story short i told myself have seen my wife, unfortunately there seems to be just one problem Am a Christian and She is a Muslim. On my part i have no issues with that infact i intended marrying her, its all about understanding and respect for each others believe. She felt the same way too, but her dad insisted she must marry a Muslim. She cried on diff occasion but her dad insisted.

Fast forward to today, NYSC is over. She is back at home and i am back at home too. She knows we cant marry but she always wants to hear my voice every minute while I on the other hand seems to vanish without her by my side, the more i think about her the more heart broken i feel.
Have tried to go into new relationships but i just don't get the same vibe i got from my relationship during my service, the scent of the flavor of love just seems missing anytime i try to go out with a new person.

Back to your post, trust me bro there are some relationships you can never get over with. no matter how hard you try, its one of the the reasons why each human being on earth is unique. There is something unique about each person on this planet earth that makes them diff to any other person, and such uniqueness also goes with each relationship you engage in.

Try watch this movie 'Age of Adaline' you will understand better.

bamisepeters:
What you will say within your mind immediately you see the topic of this post will be "i know already, i have seen many".

This goes beyond that as many needs to see positive reasons beyond separation or breakup.

I wouldn't like to bring destiny into my write up, but as a philosopher, even if i don't want to, i would have done it before realising i don't want to.

No matter how hard we try, some relationship will not last to reach the altar because no one can cheat destiny.

At times, we cry when someone we love dearly break our heart and to get the emotion and psychological effects back to shape takes time.

During that trial period many will say i am not sure i will do this again, meanwhile it only takes few moment and you are in another one before you know it.

It is not easy for me to say this too, but for a relationship that is at the verge of reaching the final destination which could not, lessons from the relationship can go a long way to make your next relationship a success as your last relationship has built you for the person you are now or to still be with.

If you are in any relationship now please don't feel bad about this as it is reality and i am not saying something will happen to your relationship in case you are determined to seal it with that person.

It is not easy though but the truth is, we must still forge ahead as break up is not the end of the world.

One thing i always say to those in relationship is that "if anything will lead to your break-up try not be the subject, that even if the deaf hears the reason, the other person will be blamed"...

..." and not because you are not the subject, you must now announce from house-to-house your ex caused it". Just let the sleeping dog lie and move on as a better being.

Later, that person who is at fault of the break-up will regret and learn from that mistake which will make him or her better in his/her new relationship while you are also cautious in your new relationship not to make that same mistake your ex made because it can go either ways, and this will make you better also.

And if you both separate on a mutual ground, then, the lesson you both learnt from the experiment will be too good to be neglected in your new relationship.

A bad boyfriend/girlfriend to so many people are now good husband/wife and mother to their spouse and kids now, so forget your heart was broken by someone, the fact is just that you were made to meet each other to learn for you to be the best in your real home.

I wouldn't say you should not cry in case it happens, please cry, but your errors in that past relationship should go out with the tears.

Many great homes you see today, the couple once dated someone else before meeting the one they are now calling their husband/wife and some pretty pet names you never knew existed.

Break-up is not easy, and to get over it might be an herculean task, however, while in a relationship do have it at the back of your mind that not all relationship ends in marriage, but you have to see the positives in the break-up which should help your future relationship instead of dwelling on the past and expect the restoration miracle.

Life is a lesson, the more you live the more you learn and the wiser you become.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/not-all-relationships-end-in-marriage.html

vislabraye:
. What's the point of this write up ?

creamylicious:
if i try not to be the subject of d break up n he tries.... what , who will be the subject of d break up am not understanding

Buking1:
Hahsh
I hv dated up-to 5 gals and sepreted from them but not in hash way even till now all still wish we could be together but I converted all of them to be my best friends

I never wish to hurt anyone mostly ladies.. So I hv my way of given then a reasonable reason to be off
It depends how u lay your foundation from the start.
Honest is d key for soft-landing.
If you find it hard to get your dream girl halla @ me let me give you what made me every ladies boy..
Like TB J not to keep u in suspense it's not juju oo but simple what u will say ND do u will get any girl u dream
Quot me and I will give u my social ID

KardinalZik:
Morale of the story:

Don't carry any relationship on your head. Even your husband/wife, na shoulder you suppose carry him/her mata put.

This will save your head/neck from calamity.

Don't allow Philippines movies deceive you

Buking1:
Hahsh
I hv dated up-to 5 gals and sepreted from them but not in hash way even till now all still wish we could be together but I converted all of them to be my best friends

I never wish to hurt anyone mostly ladies.. So I hv my way of given then a reasonable reason to be off
It depends how u lay your foundation from the start.
Honest is d key for soft-landing.
If you find it hard to get your dream girl halla @ me let me give you what made me every ladies boy..
Like TB J not to keep u in suspense it's not juju oo but simple what u will say ND do u will get any girl u dream
Quot me and I will give u my social ID

bamisepeters:
What you will say within your mind immediately you see the topic of this post will be "i know already, i have seen many".

This goes beyond that as many needs to see positive reasons beyond separation or breakup.

I wouldn't like to bring destiny into my write up, but as a philosopher, even if i don't want to, i would have done it before realising i don't want to.

No matter how hard we try, some relationship will not last to reach the altar because no one can cheat destiny.

At times, we cry when someone we love dearly break our heart and to get the emotion and psychological effects back to shape takes time.

During that trial period many will say i am not sure i will do this again, meanwhile it only takes few moment and you are in another one before you know it.

It is not easy for me to say this too, but for a relationship that is at the verge of reaching the final destination which could not, lessons from the relationship can go a long way to make your next relationship a success as your last relationship has built you for the person you are now or to still be with.

If you are in any relationship now please don't feel bad about this as it is reality and i am not saying something will happen to your relationship in case you are determined to seal it with that person.

It is not easy though but the truth is, we must still forge ahead as break up is not the end of the world.

One thing i always say to those in relationship is that "if anything will lead to your break-up try not be the subject, that even if the deaf hears the reason, the other person will be blamed"...

..." and not because you are not the subject, you must now announce from house-to-house your ex caused it". Just let the sleeping dog lie and move on as a better being.

Later, that person who is at fault of the break-up will regret and learn from that mistake which will make him or her better in his/her new relationship while you are also cautious in your new relationship not to make that same mistake your ex made because it can go either ways, and this will make you better also.

And if you both separate on a mutual ground, then, the lesson you both learnt from the experiment will be too good to be neglected in your new relationship.

A bad boyfriend/girlfriend to so many people are now good husband/wife and mother to their spouse and kids now, so forget your heart was broken by someone, the fact is just that you were made to meet each other to learn for you to be the best in your real home.

I wouldn't say you should not cry in case it happens, please cry, but your errors in that past relationship should go out with the tears.

Many great homes you see today, the couple once dated someone else before meeting the one they are now calling their husband/wife and some pretty pet names you never knew existed.

Break-up is not easy, and to get over it might be an herculean task, however, while in a relationship do have it at the back of your mind that not all relationship ends in marriage, but you have to see the positives in the break-up which should help your future relationship instead of dwelling on the past and expect the restoration miracle.

Life is a lesson, the more you live the more you learn and the wiser you become.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/not-all-relationships-end-in-marriage.html

Buking1:
Send ur whatsapp on this mail nigeriastandup@gmail.com

Buking1:
Hahsh
I hv dated up-to 5 gals and sepreted from them but not in hash way even till now all still wish we could be together but I converted all of them to be my best friends

I never wish to hurt anyone mostly ladies.. So I hv my way of given then a reasonable reason to be off
It depends how u lay your foundation from the start.
Honest is d key for soft-landing.
If you find it hard to get your dream girl halla @ me let me give you what made me every ladies boy..
Like TB J not to keep u in suspense it's not juju oo but simple what u will say ND do u will get any girl u dream
Quot me and I will give u my social ID