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| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by KILODE1000: 5:01pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
midolian:Stay Blessed  1 Like |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
baby124:The girlfriend is not a third party...she is only in symPATHY of the unhappy, unfulfilled husband. I wish OP could send us her husband's gf nudes and hers for us to compare, then decipher what her husband's real attraction is. That way we can advise properly. |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by baby124: 5:14pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
NwamaziNwaAro:Yea. Sympathy ko, multiple party ni. How super convenient for you. I am sure if you can give this kind of advice, you don't even take your own advice. 2 Likes |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by Nobody: 5:22pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
baby124:Humans are creatures of pattern... there is an attraction certainly... it could be his girlfriends' choice of panties, her hair-do or something as mundane as presence of pubic hairs... Serial killer's victims always had something in common. So if the OP must stop her husband's cravings for his girlfriend's nudes she MUST study them while considering my last advice hypothetically. |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by lazeal: 5:26pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
The Way People Change After Marriages Still Makes Me Wonder. I can't marry whom I don't love. A lot of people go in with rush and complain later. I really don't understand but to be honest, Nigeria is fast becoming the west where their society is rife will numerous divorce cases. |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by baby124: 5:34pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
NwamaziNwaAro:An adult, a mature married adult does not need to act on every thing he sees. You make up your mind to be with someone in a monogamous relationship. You have to forgo others. If you know monogamy is not for you, and you will like to sample every girl in red thong, then marry women who are open to it. You reference serial killers, good. Serial killers are not mentally stable. So in essence you are admitting that OP's husband does lack the same impulse control and lack of empathy which is mostly associated with deranged people? Thanks for the explanation. There you have it OP. A fellow man has linked your husband's problem to psychosis. 5 Likes |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by Nobody: 5:50pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
baby124:Those are my views exactly... Marriage is a more committed relationship path with monogamy as it's only option for both parties involved. No human is created inherently polygamous... Any act of cheating is solely due to, A lack or absense of self-restraint or contentment AND the presence of a willing participant who is devoid of any empathy towards the tenets of marriage. With this said, it becomes obvious that no cheat can or will change unless they resolve to..by themselves...cheating is a conscious decision made, OP can only speeden this resolution by making the cheating option less attractive. No person walks, trips and find themselves cheating suddenly. |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by eyinjuege: 5:52pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
KILODE1000:You are a funny woman, a nut case  Meanwhile, I haven't seen your posts in a while. Welcome back on NL 2 Likes |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by KILODE1000: 5:54pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
eyinjuege: 1 Like |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by KILODE1000: 5:56pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
NwamaziNwaAro:You haven't met me. 2 Likes |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by lisa5(op): 5:58pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
NwamaziNwaAro:Hell this man has neva given me money for hairdo,he doesn't even care what I wear. A man that loves you wil care or am I missing it? 1 Like |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
lisa5:A man that loves you will make your welfare his only priority... I overlooked one point you made earlier about spending your salary on the home.. In retrospect, I understand that means you spend on the family because he will not spend on the family not because he has nothing to spend. It's sad to spell it...but you are no more appreciated, the union is now like a difficult chore he is compelled to perform and this explains his need for external excitements. Get him to talk about it, if you mutually agree you've come to a dead end, take some time apart and try to retrace the spark....if that spark is still missing....ermmm, you know the other thing...something we Africans don't believe in..it is divorce But please I repeat, suspend the quest for another child till the direction of this union is less hazy... By the way...my calculations spell that you were pregnant before the marriage...hope he does not feel like he was pressured to marry you out of pity? |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
i sell glutathione pills and injections  KILODE1000: |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by baby124: 7:15pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
NwamaziNwaAro:The thing is you think women don't have the same urges? There are many men everyday that approach them. Better looking, more intelligent than their man. Women also can have very high libidos. And we have moments in the month when our libido could be sky high. But men think that they were not built for monogamy because they somehow neeed more sex than women. Which is not true at all. If your wife is keeping to her vows, so can and should you. There is no excuse. All humans have the ability to control themselves. Except the person has very serious mental health problems as we have highlighted above. 4 Likes |
| Re: Hubby Asking Girlfriend For Nudes by sisisioge: 9:18pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Hmmmm...wetin dey happen o. Did they just drop something nasty in the water that only men react to? What the heck is their probs? BTW Op, why would you like to birth another baby before facing your issue head-on? Careful girl...road ahead is bumpy. |
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