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phkka1:
Find out from the the guy if he really wants to marry you. If the answer is yes, go ahead with the relationship. On my part, I engaged my wife when I was in year four in the university. By then, I had nothing. My wife was even very happy. I married a year after my youth service though still poor. Today I am a multi millionaire. I have properties and my four children are outside Nigeria studying.

Talk2Bella:
which part?

Talk2Bella:
which part?

chiefojiji:
iwish there is E-slapping.


you guys are just dating for 4months, and he don't even have a job yet. and you are here opening the guy yansh like say d guy is cursed.

well, in any average relationship, someone will be fairly independent while the other will be dependent. you now falls within the fairly independent u con dey tell us how ur guy is so broke.

mind u, he is a medical doctor, go on ur kneel and pray for him to get a good job asap and let's see if he won't be able to give u 10 square meals.

if u can't endure, walk away! I pray u won't regret walking away when u see him in his own car soon!

frubben:
The way u using the F word it's like one babe settle down chook ur heart knife

Talk2Bella:
was referring to what my blog posts and videos are about, I don't post everything here, and yes Nairaland is a hobby to some people, reading about things is a hobby, interacting and contributing is a hobby, don't get it confused dear

Toks2008:
I like your tenacity.

Let's chat on 08023146046...I like meeting intelligent people.

DedeNkem:
If you haven't met Nigerian gold-diggers then you're a dummy in the dating game.

I've no respect for f*ucking gold-diggers and wh*ores! I tricked and f*ucked many of them. In fact, they made me a player before I met my lovely, well-behaved, classy and independent wife!

If a rich woman wants to date a rich guy, I've no f*ucking problem with that. If an educated woman wants to date an educated guy, I've no f*ucking beef with that too. But what pisses me off so much is that, most gold-diggers are f*ucking poor church rats and yet they demand expensive lifestyle on a man's money.

They feel they're entitled to that high life with your money simply because they give you pussy! As if they are doing you a favor by "giving" you p*ussy and not that they enjoy sex too! Many of them also have terrible personal hygiene!

Talk2Bella:
Paying debts incurred in school

elfmann:

TEVLI:
pls is his Kidney for sale?? I cn pay cool cash for one

chigoizie7:
And then when someone ask a question of why "women, has that mentality that they must be taken care of by a man".

All those oloshos will call him broke ass nigga.

For me, if u are not bringing anything to the table aside ur pussy, u can go to hell.

U must work, not just working, u must contribute to the upkeep of the family, even I am richer than Donald trump. I want that sense of commitment.

As for my own contributions both on our kids and u? Don't worry, our kids will always choose daddy over mummy, I know how to achieve that, I will be the best.

I am not concerned about this very story.

@least, he earns something, just that he is settling a debt he incurred while in school, probably part of his school fees, and in just 4months u can't cope?

God will not give me someone like u to marry. This very debt will not last for long b4 he settles it.

abdulkayus:
guy, most medical students on internshipp do earn close to 150k if nt more than that every month, and he cant feed himself even with that amount, habaaaa, let reason well na. No matter d debt, he shld be atleast be able to feed for himself.
And most of them even earn more durin internship than wen actually workin except if dey are lucky to get a job with FG hospital which isnt easy to come by.

laudate:
The girl herself is just a 22 year old student, for crying out loud. She is probably using the small pocket money given to her by her parents, to support the guy for 4 good months! Haba! The girl dey try now. Even the guy she is supporting has NOT brought anything to the table, despite the fact that he is working and earning a salary. His excuse is that he is paying off debts incurred in school. Does he use 100% of his salary to service debts?

The guy is not being practical, in my opinion..

michaelwestern:
Am interested in selling my kidney o. How much are you willing to pay?

chigoizie7:
No she is not.
At 22, she should be concerned about her studies , it does not in anyway make students that are into relationships are not responsible, no, nothing of such.
But in her case, it shows that she is not ready yet.
And what has she been contributing? Unless she modified her post, otherwise what she mentioned as her contributions is the same thing that she needs as a woman. Her only complains here is that she takes care of herself. And my question is, who was suppose to take care of her b4? My ass?

Talk2Bella:
Hello Bella. Pls I need ur advice am dating a medical doctor he is 32 years while am 22. although he just finished his internship about going for another internship b4 going service we av been dating for upto 4months now. D Problem is he doesn't av money for My upkeep neither his own upkeep. He is so broke. He told me he has been using his salaries from d internship to settle debt he incurred while in school.

He can't provide one square of meal. Since I met him av been providing stuffs for feeding anytime am around. Am just a final year student .Pls I don't kn if I should continuos dis relationship. Cos I don't want to spend for a guy who might end up leaving me tomorrow.

Talk2Bella

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