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I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:08am On Nov 14, 2016 |
Hello Bella. Pls I need ur advice am dating a medical doctor he is 32 years while am 22. although he just finished his internship about going for another internship b4 going service we av been dating for upto 4months now. D Problem is he doesn't av money for My upkeep neither his own upkeep. He is so broke. He told me he has been using his salaries from d internship to settle debt he incurred while in school. He can't provide one square of meal. Since I met him av been providing stuffs for feeding anytime am around. Am just a final year student .Pls I don't kn if I should continuos dis relationship. Cos I don't want to spend for a guy who might end up leaving me tomorrow. Talk2Bella Hello dear, if you have been reading my blog you would know I am a strong advocacy of genuine love and sacrifice. Whatever you do in a relationship you should see as an investment, it can either yield good returns or bad returns, it is a risk we take not knowing the outcome and the minute we start pushing towards a particular outcome we might be disappointed at the end. Whatever you do for him now shouldn’t be because you’re in a relationship with him, it should be because you see a bright future in him and he’s someone you can depend on as a friend, who would do same for you in your time of need. I know what incurring debts in school is like, I incurred debts myself and a stranger I didn’t know helped me out, you might be the helping hand God has sent to help out that man, don’t do it expecting returns. You’re still very young and he’s matured so I don’t think he would want to play any games with you, invest more than money into your relationship and don’t also forget to plan your own future while at it. I know it’s just four months, but have you asked him his plans for the both of you? Are you sure there’s no one else? Have you carried out a proper investigation into his life? Being 22 and heartbroken is a bad precipitant for future relationships. Read my blog posts and watch my YouTube videos on money not being a criterion for a healthy relationship, he can’t take care of you now doesn’t mean he won’t be able to later, like you said he’s on a career part and very soon his hard work and efforts will pay off, all you need is a little more patience, trust, respect and understanding and he would be the man for you most women will dream of. Enjoy your relationship dear and help him whenever you can, but remember whatever you do for him should be erased from your memories, see it as a good gesture and not a leash to hold onto him. http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/11/i-am-dating-medical-doctor-who-cant.html 31 Likes
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:09am On Nov 14, 2016 |
she is back bella all these your advices do you have personal experience on everything, rules dont work every time, on ground experience matters, his reason might not be mine, people react differently to things and take actions differently, why i dey talk self how much you pay me? 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by herzern1(m): 11:10am On Nov 14, 2016 |
How do I believe this?? 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by kinggogo: 11:12am On Nov 14, 2016 |
She dn cum bak again 52 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 14, 2016 |
kinggogo: 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:17am On Nov 14, 2016 |
kinggogo: 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by greatwhite(m): 11:17am On Nov 14, 2016 |
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:17am On Nov 14, 2016 |
herzern1: which part? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:18am On Nov 14, 2016 |
You're just 22 It's not too much if you give Him two years to sort Himself? Where've you been since? 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:19am On Nov 14, 2016 |
KissChrix: pursuing other things, this is just a hobby 1 Like |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:24am On Nov 14, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:Chai! See what Nairaland has been reduced to 'Just a hobby' 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:24am On Nov 14, 2016 |
Kingjude1: I don't have experience on everything but I have on most things, yes I know rules don't work all the time but it doesn't mean we wont try, the young man is struggling to make ends meet, and she on the other hand seems capable to take care of some bills, this is what relationships should be like, the man shouldn't do all the spending it should go both ways. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:26am On Nov 14, 2016 |
KissChrix: was referring to what my blog posts and videos are about, I don't post everything here, and yes Nairaland is a hobby to some people, reading about things is a hobby, interacting and contributing is a hobby, don't get it confused dear 10 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 14, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:29am On Nov 14, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: i hear you as long as you considered my tots in your decision making process, we no get problem, where your boo lalasticala |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:30am On Nov 14, 2016 |
welcome back
i missed ur stories |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:31am On Nov 14, 2016 |
Kingjude1: Here in bed with me 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:32am On Nov 14, 2016 |
sekxy: Thanks |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 14, 2016 |
pls is his Kidney for sale?? I cn pay cool cash for one |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by kermitDfrog: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2016 |
A doctor that cant feed himself and you are still there with him, wetin concern me self 14 Likes
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 11:56am On Nov 14, 2016 |
kermitDfrog: Paying debts incurred in school 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by chigoizie7(m): 11:58am On Nov 14, 2016 |
And then when someone ask a question of why "women, has that mentality that they must be taken care of by a man". All those oloshos will call him broke ass nigga. For me, if u are not bringing anything to the table aside ur pussy, u can go to hell. U must work, not just working, u must contribute to the upkeep of the family, even I am richer than Donald trump. I want that sense of commitment. As for my own contributions both on our kids and u? Don't worry, our kids will always choose daddy over mummy, I know how to achieve that, I will be the best. I am not concerned about this very story. @least, he earns something, just that he is settling a debt he incurred while in school, probably part of his school fees, and in just 4months u can't cope? God will not give me someone like u to marry. This very debt will not last for long b4 he settles it. 19 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
chigoizie7: Thanks for contributing |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by kermitDfrog: 12:06pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:so what is he looking for inside a hole when he is already inside a hole? 21 Likes
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 12:07pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
kermitDfrog: One hole is sweeter than the other I suppose 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by kermitDfrog: 12:10pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:were does he work again? can you pls direct me 9 Likes
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 12:14pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
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Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by 9jaBloke: 12:26pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Keep this up bella. You've got loads of good sense. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by slimthugchimee(m): 12:30pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
then date an illiterate who can afford 3square meal 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 12:30pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by 9jaBloke: 12:37pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: That's good to know and iv been meaning to tell you. I visit ur blog and I read ur replies to mails. Amazing job you are doing. More power to ur elbow. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Dating A Medical Doctor Who Can’t Afford 1 Square Meal. by Talk2Bella(f): 12:40pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
9jaBloke: Thanks 2 Likes |
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