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4. MONEY...Money problems can start even before vows were exchanged. They can build up from the expenses of courtship or high cost of wedding.Money can stand between marriages and relationships for no just reason and things will not most definetely goes well with the couples.
SOLUTIONS
1.Be honest about your financial status.
2.understand that one partner might be a spender while the other a saver.
3.never hide income or debt. bring financial documents to the table and try to solve together
4. Do not blame
5.let each person to have
independence by setting aside money to be spend at his or her discretion.
6.Decides who pays some bills at the end of the month
7.Talk about your aged parents and try to set aside money for their up
keeps.


5. HOME CHORES;Most partners work from time to time and most time do more than one job or hours spent are longer.
so it is important to divide on who does this and who does that.
SOLUTIONS
1.Be clear on your respective job at home write it down so that there wont be resentments.
2.Be open to each others and find solutions together.


6. NOT MAKING YOUR UNION A PRIORITY. If you want to make your marriage a good one and make the love life going well,you should not end when you say i do so make yours a priority. You have to find it,keep it and make it last.
SOLUTIONS
1.Do things you do when you are dating,give compliments ,appreciate each other,
and show how much you care.
2.Plan dates,make sure you take her out ,to the mall,cafe,cinemas and so on,rekindle the union/
3. Respect one another,say thank you and show appreciation, it makes your partner knows they really matter/


7. CONFLICTS..Conflicts is part of life and they should be occasional,you should know how to handle situation,do
not give rooms for blames cos it worsens the conflicts,.

SOLUTIONS
1.Understand you are not a victim,its ones choice whether to react or how to react.
2.Be honest,d onot let your comments trigger the anger of your partner when you are trying to resolve issues and do not look for payback times.
3.Change your views,do not react to every thing or what has brought unhappiness in the marriage.
4.Give little and get more.. apologise when you wrong though its hard but it can make things work out fine.

KissChrix:
On Money, make your financial situation clear from the start.

Don't form rich boy when you're broke in reality

Us wey broke both online and reality, how do we cope??

KissChrix:
On Money, make your financial situation clear from the start.

Don't form rich boy when you're broke in reality

even me dey do that one ooooo

Kingjude1:
even me dey do that one ooooo

The girl go con dey make demands wey you no fit reach


You go con dey find money about?

you dont have to my brother just be the real you. thats why you shouldnt lie about your financial status.

KissChrix:
The girl go con dey make demands wey you no fit reach


You go con dey find money about?

love isnt about money though, but you still need money to keep it going and moreover you dont have to be a bill gate No,when you make your financial status known to the woman she tends to understand where you are coming from and where you are going to..

KissChrix:
If the girl no fit manage you, She can get the fvck off