₦airaland Forum

Nutase:
not at all Because I have a very thick skin and secondly I don't even care about what anyone says or thinks.. ..period

oh well..., i admire your type of mind set. I luv independent ladies. BUT... most of them eventually end up becoming lesbians either due to the way they were treated by men in the past or due to the feeling of being equal to men. Most of such ladies are usually the most educated ones. They've read so many books and have travelled far and wide.

Gofwane:
oh well..., i admire your type of mind set. I luv independent ladies. BUT... most of them eventually end up becoming lesbians either due to the way they were treated by men in the past or due to the feeling of being equal to men. Most of such ladies are usually the most educated ones. They've read so many books and have travelled far and wide.

that's actually a choice which everyone is entitled to make if their conscience permits it.

They are obeying the law of chivalry

Nutase:
that's actually a choice which everyone is entitled to make if their conscience permits it.

are you nigerian?

Gofwane:
are you nigerian?

does it matter?

TheHeadBoy:
I pity you. Follow your tradition and lose your precious jewel When you travel, I pray you spank a lil white kid for not prostrating to greet you... your guess is as good as mine.

One culture slave spotted. Mental slavery is the worst form of disease to afflict a race. Sadly, many Africans are suffering from this malady. Why should he knee to propose to a lady when it is contrary to his culture? That is western, not African. It is a shame we fellow western ways without knowing our boundaries. No matter how long our pretense is, we are Africans not westerners. The bad news is the westerners don't give a damn about who we are, I wonder we are so obsessed with their ways. We should be serious with ourselves, and respect African cultures that does no harm to our people.

kinggogo:
It's kinda weird, buh it's d ryt tin to do. It's also done as a sign of respect to d female gender

Oga, how is it right? Who made it right, you? Kneeling to propose is not compulsory, and it is not African. So, I am of the view that the guy should choose any form of proposal that suits him best.

Nutase:
Because they are slaves to us and forever will be without ever realizing it. Bunch of weaklings.

Although you made little sense - in equilibrium to your pea-sized brain - but the situation you refer to happens more in the west than in Africa. In Africa, it is a man's world, over there is the west, women exhibit all manners of nasty behaviour to project their independence. For me, it is unnecessary to knee while proposing. What happens to gender equality?

Yeah u ryt, it's not a mst to kneel down. U cn also stand.

Buh d respect pt is cuz u wnt her to b permanent in ur lyf, u asking to spend d rest of her lyf with u. So u jst av to gv her dah courtesy (respect) by kneeling down. Jst saying

@poster: you are a sexist if you treat a woman the way you won't treat your fellow man. Are women not men-made(made from man). Why treat some human being as if they better or divine. Stop following those stupid rules made by stupid humanity. You are doing her a favour by marrying her. Remember her biological clock is ticking away. Maybe you are emotionally attached to her like a little boy to his mommy.

@nutase: I like women that stand out and tell the truth to men. Women indeed are portrayed weak, helpless and what have you which is wrong and a lie. Even though you are Nigerian but that mindset is out of this continent. You are my new friend for today. See you