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Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:19pm On Nov 22, 2016
I personally don't think its good due to things I've witnessed and personal experiences, i think it reduces thier value, I've seen alot of girls who became full time housewives, did the cleaning, cooking, washing, as an everyday routine but they didn't get the ring.

I was dating this girl, at first it was cool, i loved seeing her, and i always anticipate our next meeting, because she was schooling and am busy most times, her parents are strict people, so our meetings were always a secret, only one of her sibling knows about us, he's the one i usually send to call her back then, but my entire family knew her,

It continued like that until she wrote jamb and got admission, she became a free bird, we started seeing each other everyday,

i thought it was gonna draw us closer, but i was wrong, i started realizing alot of things i dont like, like her hygiene, manner, she's kinda treacherous too, my feelings for her grew less and less, we often argue, we became too familiar that she stopped respecting me like she used to, she never nags at me but later started, i got bored of her, her value reduced drastically and we called it quits.
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
I personally don't think its good due to things I've witnessed and personal experiences, i think it reduces thier value, I've seen alot of girls who became full time housewives, did the cleaning, cooking, washing, as an everyday routine but they didn't get the ring.

I was dating this girl, at first it was cool, i loved seeing her, and i always anticipate our next meeting, because she was schooling and am busy most times, her parents are strict people, so our meetings were always a secret, only one of her sibling knows about us, he's the one i usually send to call her back then, but my entire family knew her,

It continued like that until she wrote jamb and got admission, she became a free bird, we started seeing each other everyday,

i thought it was gonna draw us closer, but i was wrong, i started realizing alot of things i dont like, like her hygiene, manner, she's kinda treacherous too, my feelings for her grew less and less, we often argue, we became too familiar that she stopped respecting me like she used to, she never nags at me but later started, i got bored of her, her value reduced drastically and we called it quits.
No you shouldn't wink
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by ButterFrost212(f): 12:30pm On Nov 22, 2016
Well what can I say, to each his own. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. For me though, I won't want you in my face every minute.
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:32pm On Nov 22, 2016
ButterFrost212:
Well what can I say, to each his own. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. For me though, I won't want you in my face every minute.
exactly my point, why would you be all over someone every time, i get bored easily
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:32pm On Nov 22, 2016
RoyWealth:
No you shouldn't wink
why the wink bro
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
why the wink bro
I just like it wink
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:36pm On Nov 22, 2016
RoyWealth:
I just like it wink
stop it, I'm very homophobic
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by EternalTruth: 12:36pm On Nov 22, 2016
ButterFrost212:
Well what can I say, to each his own. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. For me though, I won't want you in my face every minute.
what if he's cute, hot and sexy?? wouldn't you want to be seeing him every seconds?
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by kinggogo: 12:37pm On Nov 22, 2016
Y huh

Say she no get a lyf or whah
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by Naijaboiy1: 12:39pm On Nov 22, 2016
[color=#1980BC]I think it's very important people in a relationship give themselves an amount of space so they can concentrate on other aspects of their lives.

Partners shouldn't always be together all the time,that's why I strongly speak against co-habitation on campuses.

When you give each other space, there would be an opportunity for you to miss each other and want to see each other and the quarrels will reduce.

Sometimes all you just need to do is call her and speak with her on phone or send a text.[/color]
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:41pm On Nov 22, 2016
Naijaboiy1:
[color=#1980BC]I think it's very important people in a relationship give themselves an amount of space so they can concentrate on other aspects of their lives.

Partners shouldn't always be together all the time,that's why I strongly speak against co-habitation on campuses.

When you give each other space, there would be an opportunity for you to miss each other and want to see each other and the quarrels will reduce.

Sometimes all you just need to do is call her and speak with her on phone or send a text.[/color]
i dont know you have something upstairs, you just earned my respect bro
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by ButterFrost212(f): 12:43pm On Nov 22, 2016
EternalTruth:
what if he's cute, hot and sexy?? wouldn't you want to be seeing him every seconds?
Physical beauty isn't what makes me want to be with you all the time. What if you're beautiful outside and down right ugly inside, ofcourse I won't want to be with you all the time. I love my alone time alot so there's no way I would want to be with you all the time,cute or not
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by Kalatium(m): 12:44pm On Nov 22, 2016
EternalTruth:
what if he's cute, hot and sexy?? wouldn't you want to be seeing him every seconds?
Every seconds ke!
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
stop it, I'm very homophobic
tongue
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by seunny4lif(m): 12:45pm On Nov 22, 2016
I'm not understanding grin grin grin
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:46pm On Nov 22, 2016
seunny4lif:
I'm not understanding grin grin grin
why not
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by EternalTruth: 12:47pm On Nov 22, 2016
ButterFrost212:
Physical beauty isn't what makes me want to be with you all the time. What if you're beautiful outside and down right ugly inside, ofcourse I won't want to be with you all the time. I love my alone time alot so there's no way I would want to be with you all the time,cute or not
u sound so different from the rest of your female fellows. your reasoning is superb... guess you're 27+ up right?
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:48pm On Nov 22, 2016
EternalTruth:
u sound so different from the rest of your female fellows. your reasoning is superb... guess you're 27+ up right?
am i sensing some kind of steamy budding romance here? undecided
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by makydebbie(f):
At the beginning, you'll love it. Can't get enough of your partner,blah blah.


But as time goes on,you'll eventually get bored. Sometimes we just need that space alone.
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:53pm On Nov 22, 2016
grin


I wud love to see the love of my life everyday.. Even juz for 10-20mins... That wud make my day..
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Nov 22, 2016
Nah.... It's not healthy
You'll bore yourselves eventually
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 12:59pm On Nov 22, 2016
QueenSuccubus:
grin


I wud love to see the love of my life everyday.. Even juz for 10-20mins... That wud make my day..
but you won't love to be seeing him continuously for almost 12hrs everyday
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:03pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
but you won't love to be seeing him continuously for almost 12hrs everyday
Ooh dear I wud love too but only if I am free or on holiday..

Unless we're living in one roof togeda.. wink
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 1:04pm On Nov 22, 2016
QueenSuccubus:
Ooh dear I wud love too but only if I am free or on holiday..

Unless we're living in one roof togeda.. wink
oh God, its gonna be hot at first then the boredom sets in
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by seunny4lif(m): 1:04pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
why not
The only relationship, I know is my family ooooh grin grin
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by seunny4lif(m): 1:06pm On Nov 22, 2016
grin grin
Haba
ButterFrost212:
Physical beauty isn't what makes me want to be with you all the time. What if you're beautiful outside and down right ugly inside, ofcourse I won't want to be with you all the time. I love my alone time alot so there's no way I would want to be with you all the time,cute or not
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 1:08pm On Nov 22, 2016
seunny4lif:
The only relationship, I know is my family ooooh grin grin
you'll marry your sister shey
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by seunny4lif(m): 1:10pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
you'll marry your sister shey
I'm gay cool cool cool
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by dauntless15(op): 1:11pm On Nov 22, 2016
seunny4lif:
I'm gay cool cool cool
hahahahaha
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by SeyonP: 1:14pm On Nov 22, 2016
[quote author=Naijaboiy1 post=51265488][color=#1980BC]I think it's very important people in a relationship give themselves an amount of space so they can concentrate on other aspects of their lives.

Partners shouldn't always be together all the time,that's why I strongly speak against co-habitation on campuses.

When you give each other space, there would be an opportunity for you to miss each other and want to see each other and the quarrels will reduce.

Sometimes all you just need to do is call her and speak with her on phone or send a text.[/color]
[gbam]
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by ButterFrost212(f): 1:18pm On Nov 22, 2016
EternalTruth:
u sound so different from the rest of your female fellows. your reasoning is superb... guess you're 27+ up right?
grin I sound wise right cheesy.no I'm not 27+ and age has nothing to do with reasoning.
Re: Opinion: Should You Be Seeing Your Partner Every Day? by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:21pm On Nov 22, 2016
dauntless15:
oh God, its gonna be hot at first then the boredom sets in
Any relationship is gonna be boring if the other party stopped giving a fvck... I believe that relationship really works if both of u really helped each other to attain something that is more fruitful and not scared to try new things togeda... wink
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