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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Girlbestfriend(f): 12:52am On Nov 26, 2016
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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 12:54am On Nov 26, 2016
mrsfavour:
my hubby and i use each other's phone. once he is back from work i will browse till we both sleep off... i dont think its a big deal. where there is strong love,not point keeping extra affair outside.

Excellent. Compatibility is possible even in these difficult times. This is the most positive post so far

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by phameous: 12:55am On Nov 26, 2016
tgmservice:
shut up u cant hack facebook

U like to give it a try?

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Girlbestfriend(f): 1:01am On Nov 26, 2016
ThePlumbers:


Go to www.web.whatsapp.com on your laptop, take her phone and go to menu on her whatsapp, click on "whatsapp web" scan the back code from web.whatsapp.com with her phone, it will connect. Even if she is in Australia and you are in Mars you can read her chats live. It works with only internet. So long her phone has internet and you have internet on your phone, just carry go. I use it personally for my convinience. And it doesnt log out except you log out yourself.

Come back here later to share your story from the hospital bed after the doctor must have diagnosed you of heart attack.



OmO guy that your last statement no jel at all, Gosh!!!!!!!! can't stop laughing gringringringringrin

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by ThePlumbers(m): 1:05am On Nov 26, 2016
Girlbestfriend:




OmO guy that your last statement no jel at all, Gosh!!!!!!!! can't stop laughing gringringringringrin

Na true I talk o bros. The guy go hear am..

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by AreaFada2: 1:06am On Nov 26, 2016
Chai, I know two people who did!

The guy decided to check on her fiancee before going further.
Ol' boy, the guy nearly para o.

This guy has a good job & supported this babe at school. The guy was professing his love for her all over social media.

Very fine babe like this. Maybe too fine to be faithful if not strongwilled. But she was a proper runs babe. Men left, right & centre. cheesy grin A very innocent & outwardly religious babe.

The guy broke up the engagement sharp sharp. Very heartbroken till today.

Another one checked on his wife's account. After her incessant late night chats. Hmmmm.

Nor be small thing o. I hope the guy has done paternity test on their child sha. cool shocked

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:11am On Nov 26, 2016
AreaFada2:
Chai, I know two people who did!

The guy decided to check on her fiancee before going further.
Ol' boy, the guy nearly para o.

This guy has a good job & supported this babe at school. The guy was professing his love for her all over social media.

Very fine babe like this. Maybe too fine to be faithful if not strongwilled. But she was a proper runs babe. Men left, right & centre. cheesy grin A very innocent & outwardly religious babe.

The guy broke up the engagement sharp sharp. Very heartbroken till today.

Another one checked on his wife's account. After her incessant late night chats. Hmmmm.

Nor be small thing o. I hope the guy has done paternity test on their child sha. cool shocked


Na wa o. lipsrsealed
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:11am On Nov 26, 2016
I dont but once I stretched my neck and saw what God wanted me to see

Pained me no be small but he obviously wanted me to see

Glad I went to the experience though helped me understand really with love you really don't have to question it

it's evident in actions

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:14am On Nov 26, 2016
I don't think I would want to do that.

Even though I wouldn't be able to help it.

I have some married women that still chat me up, and from the way they chat, it is obvious they want something from me. I wonder how the husbands would be looking at them, all faithful et al.

One even told me that she would only be messaging me on IMO whenever her husband is out. She would video call, and sometimes almost get nasty. I would wish her husband goes through her phone.


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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:15am On Nov 26, 2016
solasoulmusic:
I dont but once I stretched my neck and saw what God wanted me to see

Pained me no be small but he obviously wanted me to see

Glad I went to the experience though helped me understand really with love you really don't have to question it

it's evident in actions

Lol, what did you see na?
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:16am On Nov 26, 2016
InvertedHammer:
/
Instal keylogger in her phone background and read remotely.

Get ready for the heartbreak.
\


I have been waiting to see this. Why collect her phone when the phone is yours already "remotely"?
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 1:16am On Nov 26, 2016
EdDave:
I haven't gone out with a girl that hasnt "freed" her phone for me.
Why one earth will I marry a wife who hides her phone?
And you wonder why marriages are crashing left and right. undecided

Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Menzy86(m): 1:16am On Nov 26, 2016
The once I checked my ex's phone during our 3yr rship it was right in front of her n she wasnt expecting it one bit. I really cannot call it 'spying' because I didn't hide to do it but it was d beginning of d end of d rship. Truth is I don't even knw whether it is better not to find out dat ur long term gf is screwing anoda guy sef.

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:16am On Nov 26, 2016
ollah1:



I have been waiting to see this. Why collect her phone when the phone is yours already "remotely"?

Please, how does this work?
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:19am On Nov 26, 2016
Menzy86:
The once I checked my ex's phone during our 3yr rship it was right in front of her n she wasnt expecting it one bit. I really cannot call it 'spying' because I didn't hide to do it but it was d beginning of d end of d rship. Truth is I don't even knw whether it is better not to find out dat ur long term gf is screwing anoda guy sef.

Oga, please it is better to find out oh! I rather not get married at all, than put up with someone I can't trust to an extent.

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 1:25am On Nov 26, 2016
ekanDamie:

oga, a chaste woman. a responsible woman should be able to tell any guy off
thats if she values her relationship.

no one can stop guys from making advances,but d way she replies will tell u how much respect she has for u.

you would send some ladies messgae, dey wunt reply to u to 5days later. or dey reply u k
I don't always blame dem. all I do is move away.
so if I toast a lady n she's flirting back and she's in a relationship that maybe her toaster does not even know. dats not d kinda woman a guy wanna get married to.

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:27am On Nov 26, 2016
photoshoot:


Lol, what did you see na?
lmao I saw a burning Bush

ruined my night lmao i went into funeral mode after he was like what's wrong even opening the phone more grin grin

experience is Good....

I will wait for the one who respects my presence as a woman

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 1:27am On Nov 26, 2016
willibounce1:
Phuck trust. Man must spy on her phone once in a while to avoid stories that touch. Else you'll just be taking care of other people's children thinking they are yours. The way girls of these days Phuck around ehn, man must be very kanakushious....

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 1:29am On Nov 26, 2016
kinibigdeal:
I had to be spying on Aminat508 phone because of some Nairalander's but have never been disappointed sha, because is full of Aregbe projects


you haven't checked the other phone yet! grin grin grin
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by KingRex1(m): 1:30am On Nov 26, 2016
solasoulmusic:

lmao I saw a burning Bush

ruined my night lmao i went into funeral mode after he was like what's wrong even opening the phone more

experience is Good....
shocked
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by DedeNkem: 1:30am On Nov 26, 2016
bamisepeters:
It might sound somehow though, but let's face reality because this is very common among us. Not just the married ones, those courting are often caught in the act.

Even if you claim you are not a jealous type you still do this once in a while either by error or willingly.

I remembered the day i did this, i was fingling with her phone, trying to set some applications she needed and then a whatsapp chat came in which i couldn't understand.

I don't want to be left in the dark, i had to open and see what had been said to understand, but thank God it is not the one that gives heart attack because that is what you can possibly get from spying into your spouse's chat.

I don't think it is doubt of trust to do this but not advisable.

It is not just men that do this, women fall prey too, i don't want to say women do more, yet, they claim they will never touch your phone without your permission.

But immediately you come out of bathroom you will notice change of position of your device while the men will pray you get something to do in the kitchen and you forget your phone behind.

It is human, trust is not the issue but curiosity. We want to know what they are doing behind us to be sure if we are safe, yet, we know it is not right as it can cause HBP, unsettled argument and others of there kinds.

The question is ; have you ever spied on your spouse's phone? Why?

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/moment-of-truth-have-you-ever-spied-on.html

If you trust your partner and don't have any legitimate reason to snoop through his or her phone, then don't.

But you if you suspect anything, then investigate. You've right to do so.
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Menzy86(m): 1:31am On Nov 26, 2016
photoshoot:


Oga, please it is better to find out oh! I rather not get married at all, than put up with someone I can't trust to an extent.
U know d weirdest thn my friend, though we broke up like a yr ago, I must confess dat lady is d best I ever met. I dont have feelings for her anymore (she still begging for a comeback till date) but som truths r difficult to suppress. Dats actually her ONLY weakness as a woman (though a huge one for me) but she absolutely ticks all d oda boxes excellently. Very hardworking, HUMBLE, BEAUTIFUL, intelligent and homely. Indeed noone is perfect but some imperfections are quite intolerable.

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Goldienana(f): 1:32am On Nov 26, 2016
U will live long.

Mine was discussing me with his brother i took like father and other shits. The brother will tell me do dis hes changing hes frnds dis n dt den tells Bobo shes mad, she thinks shes smart act like dis like dt.

He started checking my phone got tired certain point den I learned too n couldn't stop because I was seeing nonstop poo n moved from level to level pick his call join.


Lol.



zeb04:
lol
i spied on my Ex phone and it ended the relationship. till today, every chance i get i still kneel down to thank God i spied on that phone.
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 1:33am On Nov 26, 2016
kinibigdeal:
I understand your cry, when a guy is too faithful and you not, you cry

Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by dfrost: 1:34am On Nov 26, 2016
VickyRotex:


lol. Oh Yea! Been a while. I'm good. Thank You!

Yourself?

Not doing badly either. Waiting for the new release of Vince Flynn's new novel - The Survivor
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 1:35am On Nov 26, 2016
Girlbestfriend:


y did flourish leave the group


cos I can see [Flourish left][/b]

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:37am On Nov 26, 2016
photoshoot:


Oga, please it is better to find out oh! I rather not get married at all, than put up with someone I can't trust to an extent.
Exactly it's not like I'm there sitting and planning how to spy

I just happened to hear that voice that said look left ...and gbam

theres a difference between a sign from God and deliberately checking on your spouse

I wont deliberately check their phone when they are sleeping


I think most of us just wanna be careful
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:38am On Nov 26, 2016
Menzy86:
U know d weirdest thn my friend, though we broke up like a yr ago, I must confess dat lady is d best I ever met. I dont have feelings for her anymore (she still begging for a comeback till date) but som truths r difficult to suppress. Dats actually her ONLY weakness as a woman (though a huge one for me) but she absolutely ticks all d oda boxes excellently. Very hardworking, HUMBLE, BEAUTIFUL, intelligent and homely. Indeed noone is perfect but some imperfections are quite intolerable.


Eeyah, I believe as human, we must all have flaws. But when that flaw is what would break my heart or marriage, I prefer to run.

You would find a better one, truss me grin

All you need is a time machine to go back in time. Cause the current ones we have eh... lipsrsealed

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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:41am On Nov 26, 2016
solasoulmusic:

lmao I saw a burning Bush

ruined my night lmao i went into funeral mode after he was like what's wrong even opening the phone more grin grin

experience is Good....

I will wait for the one who respects my presence as a woman

Lol @burning bush.

Pele, I am sure you didn't stay "hoping" that the person would change?

Cause, really, I don't think anyone who is meant for me would cheat on me. I rather move on.
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Lumpyy(f): 1:42am On Nov 26, 2016
I dont call it spying,we share everything including the fones....!
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:43am On Nov 26, 2016
solasoulmusic:

Exactly it's not like I'm there sitting and planning how to spy

I just happened to hear that voice that said look left ...and gbam
theres a difference between a sign from God and deliberately checking on your spouse

I wont deliberately check their phone when they are sleeping

I think most of us just wanna be careful


The bold aptly explains it all.
And besides this one you are saying God wanted you to check eh lipsrsealed

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