ThePlumbers:


My case exactly. I hacked her whatsapp onto my laptop and I couldnt believe how faithful my bae is. We are still waxing stronger

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Eeyah, I believe as human, we must all have flaws. But when that flaw is what would break my heart or marriage, I prefer to run.

You would find a better one, truss me

All you need is a time machine to go back in time. Cause the current ones we have eh...

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Lol @burning bush.

Pele, I am sure you didn't stay "hoping" that the person would change?

Cause, really, I don't think anyone who is meant for me would cheat on me. I rather move on.

ednut1:
does not Worth it. reminds me of when i hacked my babes facebook. most of d so called disturbers and toasters were actually fucking her too. ah nearly faint

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The bold aptly explains it all.
And besides this one you are saying God wanted you to check eh

ThePlumbers:


Go to www.web.whatsapp.com on your laptop, take her phone and go to menu on her whatsapp, click on "whatsapp web" scan the back code from web.whatsapp.com with her phone, it will connect. Even if she is in Australia and you are in Mars you can read her chats live. It works with only internet. So long her phone has internet and you have internet on your phone, just carry go. I use it personally for my convinience. And it doesnt log out except you log out yourself.

Come back here later to share your story from the hospital bed after the doctor must have diagnosed you of heart attack.

Menzy86:
Omoh bro ehn....one year later, I still haven't met anythn worth my time. Matters worse, I lost my first and best Girlfriend ever (mum) just a month ago. It has completely changed everythn sef and time isn't on boiz side. Wat is keeping u up at 1;45am? Me thr is a church holding a vigil wit external speakers ryt behind my house and Im suppose to b at wk by 6am. See wahala?

ItsQuinn:
Yes and I saw my ex contact on his phone
I sharply deleted it
Up till today I'm sure he's still wondering how my ex contact suddenly disappeared from his phone ....it must be a ghost
I just had to save him the stress

solasoulmusic:


I stayed o because for the first time I was willing to trust willing to build willing to hope but I learned quick its more complicated than that

Was raised around my grandparents so naturally forgiveness and tolerance I learned early

it's better to grow a friendship into a loving relationship that will lead to Marraige

solasoulmusic:


Yes because if I didn't I wont have faced the truth and seen that everything I was going through was because of it


The World is open someone I dont know hacked my Facebook and put their number in it changed the password changed my number problem solved

anyone can stalk you but know when to draw the line

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Hmm,that would have been a tough one to handle. Obviously the way you viewed him would change as well?

@bold, at the expense of your heart??

solasoulmusic:


Never that's the whole point anyone who has no problem hurting you deliberately to gain the upper hand has no business loving you because they don't ...

These experiences shape us to do better

It changed because he changed

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You are right about that, to know when to draw the line is important. But am I willing to draw the line when my heart convinces me that you aren't loyal.
Ish!
Relationship can be complicated.. I tell you

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...and they would never love you.
Well, its good it changed. One would be more cautious in situations Like that to come.

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Eeyah, sorry about that bro.
Churches and this loud speaker thing even at night. Una no fit report the church?
Well, am up, because... errr... I guess I can't just sleep. Tomorrow is Saturday, so I could sleep all day long.

solasoulmusic:

Let me give you an example ...

guy is toasting me
I say I'm in love with someone else
while just on a casual trip I encounter them they tell me to come by they have a pool I decline next thing they verbally accuse me of thinking everyone is out to date me and that he just wanted to talk as a friend and that he's a Christian etc


you can still be faithful and lose the one you love because to block their own realizations about their own actions and consequences you have to be the casualty

I encounter them they tell me to come by they have a pool I decline next thing they verbally accuse me of thinking everyone is out to date me and that he just wanted to talk as a friend and that he's a Christian etc

solasoulmusic:


You dont have to tell me I am right where I am loved and appreciated and trust me anyone who wakes up and doesn't even greet you before insulting you

is not worth my love today tomorrow or the next

there are good men around

Asey:
i used to spy on my husbands phone a lot. To tell u the truth,i had to stop because it was vausing problems in our young marriage. ot was not like i suspected him.of cheating or anything of that sort.

the whatsapp messages coming from his mother to his phone about me and my family was nothing to write home about. she was actually teaching her son how to run our home and infact telling him not to spend any dime on me.

it ended up.in a very nasty argument. i am not even in good terms with MIL and i am very happy wiit it.

I VE PROMISED MYSELF TO STOP DIGGING INTO HUBBYS FON TO AVOID ANY FUTURE PROBLEMS

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Well, that's something. If he is toasting you, would he still say he wants to talk as a friend? I believe as a lady within the first week of communication with a new guy friend, you should be able to note if he is coming in as a friend or numerous toasters. That way, you know how to wade such person off before it becomes:



The bolded is very true!

solasoulmusic:

That's my point the mention of the pool was a bit forward and a put off so I declined the offer

But what I didn't understand was the mini rage afterwards a woman has a right to say no

Men really take a lot for granted their without a foundation in Christ

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Yes, good men abound just like women.
We all have flaws, a cheating partner is the worst one can ever try to put up with. It "may" never work.

solasoulmusic:


it will never work and the price which is usually a death sentence is paid by all and none are spared

I feel like self control is really something you learn as you live. I am human I've made mistakes but The body really is a temple

Alariwo2:


I'm happy for you.. the fact that your husband is smart and has respect for you regardless of whatever he does secretly is commendable
I'm not saying he is cheating o.. there's a probability he might

I remember a guy who brought his kids to a joint I was some months back, his wife came to pick the kids while he left to get some items. you need to see the love, the air of comfort and their lovely boys.. very nice family

fast forward to like 2 hours later, I met this same guy at a mall with his side babe cuddling and all..
then I gave up

progress69:


The guys still making this mistake in this century though, i tire ffor them. My friend was doing the good boy thing too, the annoying thing was the gf was still in school sef. He was working. He never checked her phone but that is what she does first when she comes around. The babe started disturbing him to come and do intro, so when she came around, something just told him to snoop on the phone, to be sure of who he is about making decision to settle with. Lo and behold, if it was just chat, it is better, he found voice notes of his babe describing how she gave another guy mouth action, and another voice note asking the guy if he enjoyed it. He almost ran mad. He kept saying this na babe wey dey do all good girl with me. Always forming saint.
We didn't even know on time, he opened up when he couldn't keep it again.

bamisepeters:
It might sound somehow though, but let's face reality because this is very common among us. Not just the married ones, those courting are often caught in the act.

Even if you claim you are not a jealous type you still do this once in a while either by error or willingly.

I remembered the day i did this, i was fingling with her phone, trying to set some applications she needed and then a whatsapp chat came in which i couldn't understand.

I don't want to be left in the dark, i had to open and see what had been said to understand, but thank God it is not the one that gives heart attack because that is what you can possibly get from spying into your spouse's chat.

I don't think it is doubt of trust to do this but not advisable.

It is not just men that do this, women fall prey too, i don't want to say women do more, yet, they claim they will never touch your phone without your permission.

But immediately you come out of bathroom you will notice change of position of your device while the men will pray you get something to do in the kitchen and you forget your phone behind.

It is human, trust is not the issue but curiosity. We want to know what they are doing behind us to be sure if we are safe, yet, we know it is not right as it can cause HBP, unsettled argument and others of there kinds.

The question is ; have you ever spied on your spouse's phone? Why?


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/moment-of-truth-have-you-ever-spied-on.html

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I have been waiting to see this. Why collect her phone when the phone is yours already "remotely"?