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darvic1515:
OMG, best advice ever. Kudos.

Eddodoh:
It happened that we met this evening and she reminded me of the phone repair. I decided that we should go to the Engineer to see the him.
While on our way to see the Engineer, another guy in my locality whom I know the lady through him because he's dating her sister saw us and whispered to me in another language to be careful with the lady and If possible, I should be fast to chop her and run. I told him that I heard him and we left.

The Engineer happen to be someone I know that reside in my area.
We talked about the phone and how much it's the total cost of the repair. The guy said that everything will cost not less than 10k but he advised that instead of fixing the phone we can get another phone. He brought out a phone and show her If she likes it but she insisted she want to get the HTC fixed. I asked how much she has, she said that it's 3k. I said fine, let's go and see what will happen within the week.

Later, the guy dating her sister called my line. He said that he does not know where we were going to earlier but I should not waste my time with the lady.

Actually, I can give her the money and decide to get her laid and dump her but It's something I have done over the years, I could get her new phone & spoil her really good but I am tired of playing games. I have learnt that by doing so, I am not only breaking her heart but also breaking my own heart. I am not only wasting her time but also wasting my time and resources that I should have spent on a purposeful relationship with a responsible lady. 2016 is gone and If I engage in playing games with her, I will be wasting the few days I have this year to start a purposeful relationship and next year that I am suppose to consolidate my r/ship, I will have to start all over. I don't have the time.

Thanks to y'all!!!

sapiosexual1:
By asking us what she means, is that an admission of you being a learner?
Wait bros, you met a girl a week ago and professed your love to her, dude like seriously? You did that?

Doctorfitz:
Lol. Smh.
Ur village people are doing this to you

Eddodoh:
It happened that we met this evening and she reminded me of the phone repair. I decided that we should go and see the Engineer.
While on our way, another guy in my locality whom I know the lady through him because he's dating her sister saw us and whispered to me in another language to be careful with the lady and If possible, I should be fast to chop her and run. I told him that I heard him and we left.

The Engineer happen to be someone I know that reside in my area.
We talked about the phone and how much it's the total cost of the repair. The guy said that everything will cost not less than 10k but he advised that instead of fixing the phone we can get another phone. He brought out a phone and show her If she likes it but she insisted she want to get the HTC fixed. I asked how much she has, she said that it's 3k. I said fine, let's go and see what will happen within the week.

Later, the guy dating her sister called my line. He said that he does not know where we were going to earlier but I should not waste my time with the lady.

Actually, I can give her the money and decide to get her laid and dump her but It's something I have done over the years, I could get her new phone & spoil her really good but I am tired of playing games. I have learnt that by doing so, I am not only breaking her heart but also breaking my own heart. I am not only wasting her time but also wasting my time and resources that I should have spent on a purposeful relationship with a responsible lady. 2016 is gone and If I engage in playing games with her, I will be wasting the few days I have this year to start a purposeful relationship and next year that I am suppose to consolidate my r/ship, I will have to start all over. I don't have the time to waste with her.

Thanks to y'all!!!

Eddodoh:
I don't get it. Do you expect me to continue with her?

Doctorfitz:
U like her obviously... If not u won't be here asking all these... U will continue with her regardless of what anyone tells you here or in ur area... But just be smart about it cos obviously she's miles ahead of you in this game........ No guyman wey never face such antics,buh don't be the sureboy/fall guy to her....

Eldee54321:
. So what are u gonna do? Dump her or start a new relationship with her

Eddodoh:
Bro, I understand you perfectly. My resolved to go and hear from the Engineer does not make me a fall guy. It has helped me to have a better grasp of the situation and draw a conclusion.

Doctorfitz:
I understand u Buh she could have easily bargained with the engineer ........

Buh since u like her then please her.. Buh if you were my brother or Friend I'll advise you to either free her or be smart with ur dealings....

Frankraj:
I don't know if we still need a prophet to tell us that all Nigerian girls/lady are all prostitutes.they are all after money . I pity any guy that's still calling a Nigerian girl his girlfriend or fiance. You as a guy is just deceiving yourself

bezimo:
This statement. How true? What extent.I am sure not 100% valid.

HungerBAD:
Lol.

Rule 101.

Date only working class ladies.

herzernIsHere:
Go buy food items for your Mum.....

Eddodoh:
5k minus battery replacement and workmanship. That's more than 5k

It's not even the money that is the problem. I don't subscribe to ladies taking someone for a Maga or some kind of fool.

If I am dealing with a prostitute, let me know. I will know that I should pay for her service.

omocheche:
Now you want the whole world to help out just because a woman is indirectly asking for your help? But you won't mind to ask her for sex the very 1st day you met her O! Abi? See ya life

omocheche:
Now you want the whole world to help out just because a woman is indirectly asking for your help? But you won't mind to ask her for sex the very 1st day you met her O! Abi? See ya life

HungerBAD:
Lol.
Rule 101.
Date only working class ladies.

jennifer22:
So the non working class ladies should go hungry right?.

herzernIsHere:
Go buy food items for your Mum.....

HungerBAD:
Lol.

Rule 101.

Date only working class ladies.

herzernIsHere:
Go buy food items for your Mum.....

herzernIsHere:
hahaha bruh....

CuteHectöör no be mumu quy oooh....

Why yhu talk ham sev...??

butanep:
Most of them have covered the shame with make-up....


The rate at which most ladies beg nowadays, you will be surprised... Asking a girl out for date now is terrible. She will just show how hungry and immature she is...


I took a lady out last month. We eat and talked about ourselves. After everything, she went downstairs, collected two big cakes, a large size bread, and chin-chin say it's for her people at home. I just nodded my head and pay for the items. Even the lady selling was just shaking her head as she was forcing it in her bag. As we came out of the place, she said no money on her, that I should give her money for transport fee. I was just like... God what kind of low-life did I associate myself with at the first place. I left her there and went home.


Didn't call her again then after two weeks she called to inquired what happened I never asked after her anymore. Most ladies are not cultured on dating etiquette.

gemale:
So $£x wt a woman is nw a commodity 2 b traded wt abi? SMH later it's still u dt wld carry ur mouth & say men dnt respect u. Y wld a man respect u when u tnk dt 4 sleeping wt him, u deserve compensation? Somtn d both of u wld still enjoy (if he does it ryt)? Any woman who has an atom of self worth & respect shld as much as she can avoid asking a man 4 money. If d man decides on his own 2 gv her, she can accept. Even if she has 2 ask, she shld make sure she pays him back (wt money nt $£x). Anytn short of dt makes d woman an olosho IMO