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=} Girls stopped asking guys for money but just give them a cue when they are genuinely in need or don't mind being helped

Like this

Girl: Oh my BIS just expired, i am so sorry I'll get back to you later

Instead of

My BIS just expired, can you help me subscribe so we can continue our chat?


or....

Girl: Lol my hair has gotten old and ugly, will have to visit the salon one of these days

Instead of

I am broke. And need to do my hair

( and what if...)

=} Guys stopped asking for sex in return for their favours. And just help like they would help a friend in need.
And what's more; What if guys paid attention to cues.

She gave a cue that her bis is exhausted.

You can choose to ignore it or take it from there. She may not really need your help but may just want to know if you are a man who must be told point-blank what to do first before he acts.

And if you pretend not to see it, she will conclude afterwards that you may not really help her when she can't even help herself.

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Girls pls stop asking guys for money. It reduces you. It makes us see you as cheap and make us wonder how you conduct yourself before other guys.

Its the fact. Give the damn cue and pretend you never gave it. It gives us a good impression about you. Instead of giving us reasons to diss women, it does the reverse. It will make guys with biased mind keep a neutral mind instead of thinking you all are silly and leeches.

A guy for you will not ignore. A guy for you will always want to help out. Don't spoil his mind with your demands.

And guys we can still help even when there is nothing in for us. But be wise, don't help parasites, because you wont stop helping them.

Oh.. I love how you conveniently proffered a solution to their problem while ignoring ours.



Bravo.

REIIGN:
Oh.. I love how you conveniently proffered a solution to their problem while ignoring ours.



Bravo.

how bruh. Pls expatiate

Slaveman343:
how bruh. Pls expatiate

You adviced us to be smart enough and rise up to the challenge without being told directly, we respect that.


So, how do we get fücked without spending?

REIIGN:
Oh.. I love how you conveniently proffered a solution to their problem while ignoring ours.



Bravo.

U de mind her?

REIIGN:
You adviced us to be smart enough and rise up to the challenge without being told directly, we respect that.


So, how do we get fücked without spending?

hahahaha Do you get fücked by spending or flirting?

If you've been paying to get fücked then you've been fücking prostitutes. Prostitutes ask for doughs before sex, ladies ask for romance and care to be/remain in a relationship and they are not bound to give sex.

Now don't tell me you don't enjoy anything in women apart from sex?

Slaveman343:
=}
Its the fact. Give the damn cue and pretend you never gave it. It gives us a good impression about you.

Any good girl who treats her bf right wouldn't need to result to such covert tactics. Nothing wrong in ladies demanding stuffs from their men; so long as she's deserving of it, and the said guy can afford it.

CorGier:
Any good girl who treats her bf right wouldn't need to result to such covert tactics. Nothing wrong in ladies demanding stuffs from their men; so long as she's deserving of it, and the said guy can afford it.

Sometimes things shouldn't always be straight forward especially when it comes to something as sensitive as this.

There are times i would be in serious finance ish but won't share with my gf cos she may not understand.

I'd prefer she gives cues than just bounce at me directly.

Slaveman343:
Sometimes things shouldn't always be straight forward especially when it comes to something as sensitive as this.
There are times i would be in serious finance ish but won't share with my gf cos she may not understand.
I'd prefer she gives cues than just bounce at me directly.

Relationship dynamics are not always the same for guys nd girls.
When it pertains money, much emphasis on a mode of approach is just overkill. You either see her as deserving of her request or you don't. You come off as being a tad afraid to tell a lady NO.
You as a guy; would you need to use cues on ur gf just to let her know you need her on ur dīck? Its makes no sense. She's either down to fūck or she's not.