We met about two years ago. She is from Kogi state from one of the Yoruba speaking parts but she hates Yorubas so much that it makes me sad. I am a Yoruba and a proud Nigerian but I don't like the way she is carrying on with her tribalism. It is getting worse that she even uses words like mad, fools, thieves to describe Yorubas. There was a day I got angry and told her not to insult my people anymore as I did not think it even shows any respect for me. She accused me of putting my people over her. I can't let her continue to do this. It doesn't show any respect for me at all. I am not tribalistic but I think if there is to be an inter tribal marriage, both party should respect each other's tribes. What do you think my people It is really tiring.

and how come shes you gf?,when she hates you indirectly

UniQuegrACE:
and how come shes you gf?,when she hates you indirectly

Good question. It is just so tiring.

letterman:


Good question. It is just so tiring.

then take the necessary step!

UniQuegrACE:
then take the necessary step!

I will. I really appreciate you.

In any relationship, love is never enough! respect is very important, obviously she doesn't respect you, so...

letterman:


I will. I really appreciate you.

yeah you welcome.what are nairalanders for?

I pity u oooo

Ask her which tribe she loves most then dump her

nonsense

She's from Kogi and tribalistic


when we talk about tribalism

yorubas are number one

if u can't date her leave her
she's expressing her thoughts

Tribalism ? Bleep It. Her Ex Was A Yoruba Guy And When She Got To Know You're Also Yoruba, It Was Too Late.

Hw old is she?

My friend every barking dog has a reason why bark from what I can perceive you are not the first person she is dating am I right?she has dated l me say like two yoruba guys before you and she got heart broken that's the reason she hate yoruba people. Try to find out and I will tell u what to d next if you ryt?

if you get married to this lady, one day she will slice your throat while sleeping so it is better you let go of her and find a lady who will respect you and your people.

For a Yoruba man to say he is not tribalistic is the biggest lie I have heard this year. Don't judge yourself so fairly. Ask others how you are.

Tribalism in this age and especially in Nigeria is more of a big deal than racism throughout the world

Wow, that's new. Ladies are hardly "tribalistic". I don't see your relationship going far, people like this don't change. She should atleast love them for your sake.

You can't marry her....she's just another girl friend......make sure u fvck her very well.......just keep fvcking her till u are tired of her pvssy......Marriage?...forget it.

And i was thinking only the igbos and hausas were the most tribalistic people in nigeria

Thank God she uttered the statement early, u have d golden opportunity to flee fast before she enter ur house and start calling ur family members all sorts of names hoping for u to support her and not ur people

Its just like a guy confidently pouring out his hatred for my tribe and at d same time asking me out...Consideration is far beyond it oo my brother.
I cannot smell what I don't like,

ramaju:
For a Yoruba man to say he is not tribalistic is the biggest lie I have heard this year. Don't judge yourself so fairly. Ask others how you are.

don't mind them. I can never forget what they did during my NYSC, sabotaging our efforts and drawing us back. The principal had to call the idiots and told them he was ashamed of them as a fellow Yoruba person that he is and to think we were from another region serving in their land o.

lazeal:
don't mind them. I can never forget what they did during my NYSC, sabotaging our efforts and drawing us back. The principal had to call the idiots and told them he was ashamed of them as a fellow Yoruba person that he is and to think we were from another region serving in their land o.

I don't know about others, but I am not tribalistic. One reason why it saddens me is the way she says it to my face. It just doesn't show respect.

ShayGirl:
Thank God she uttered the statement early, u have d golden opportunity to flee fast before she enter ur house and start calling ur family members all sorts of names hoping for u to support her and not ur people

Its just like a guy confidently pouring out his hatred for my tribe and at d same time asking me out...Consideration is far beyond it oo my brother.
I cannot smell what I don't like,

Thank you for this. The most annoying thing is that when I tell her not to insult my tribe, she would accuse me of putting my tribe over her.

ButterFrost212:
Wow, that's new. Ladies are hardly "tribalistic". I don't see your relationship going far, people like this don't change. She should atleast love them for your sake.

I am beginning to see that myself. We had quarrels over it that I am now convinced she would never change. I have tried to make her understand that it is not just because it is my tribe but because it shows a lack of respect for me.

Tajbol4splend:
Tribalism in this age and especially in Nigeria is more of a big deal than racism throughout the world

Bro, I swear, her hatred is not ordinary. Even now, I am considering the future. Wouldn't she raise our children to be tribalistic? I don't want children that would be petty.

joycesims:
In any relationship, love is never enough! respect is very important, obviously she doesn't respect you, so...

Exactly what I made her realize. That if she respects me, she won't be saying nasty words about the tribe I come from.

Nonsreal:
Hw old is she?

Bro, she is 25.

letterman:


Bro, I swear, her hatred is not ordinary. Even now, I am considering the future. Wouldn't she raise our children to be tribalistic? I don't want children that would be petty.

I've never shared a belief that one girl is indispensable, a word suffices when it's to the wise

letterman:


Thank you for this. The most annoying thing is that when I tell her not to insult my tribe, she would accuse me of putting my tribe over her.

Exactly...The ball is definitely in ur court now cos its either u teach her the respect she lacks or flee if it is above ur power and control..

letterman:


I am beginning to see that myself. We had quarrels over it that I am now convinced she would never change. I have tried to make her understand that it is not just because it is my tribe but because it shows a lack of respect for me.

Exactly! Anyway give her one last good talk, and see if she changes. If not, save yourself the stress that would def come in the future.