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Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Marriedatlast(op): 1:48am On Dec 07, 2016
ElsonMorali:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin

So funny right? When everybody's nose is permanently stuck in your business.

Anyway, Marriedatlast, you're welcome to Nigeria where the hospitality, smile and embrace of the people are as warm as the weather. I'm sure you won't regret it.

Look for a good neighbourhood to settle down in and you'll enjoy it here.

Oh BTW, watch out for those pesky mosquitoes. Malaria is a real phenomenon here. Enjoy your stay.
Yes the mosquitoes, i have never encoutered anything and i pray i dont. i saw real sickness of malaria in Gambia and i pray i never get sick like that.

Yes and i agree on the area as i would like to find a quite off road neighbourhood. Im quite sensitive to constant noise distractions.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Marriedatlast(op): 1:51am On Dec 07, 2016
NoToPile:
grin grin

I couldn't help but laugh at some posts, marriedatlast let's hope he is for real and he is not married to another woman here.
Yes i have thought about all the strange possibilities that could of occured with our seperation but God will intervene as i put my trust. If something isnt right god will intervene
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by armyofone(m): 3:08am On Dec 07, 2016
Lol, going to play house wife in Nigeria to your own God's given "Akeem" of coming to America...while he runs the business huh ? Girl Op, you will trek back to UK grin
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by cococandy(f): 6:12am On Dec 07, 2016
Home is where the heart is.
Good luck to you in all your decisions.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Dyt(f): 6:30am On Dec 07, 2016
sisisioge:
Eeeeeewwweee! Baby girl biko stay where you are o! Whew! Or at least, keep your papers and inform your country's consulate to keep track of you here in naija. God is about to open your eyes to things you refused to see before. Anyways, any head destined to chop knock most chop it , if them hid am inside cooler e go still request for fresh air. It is well with you!



House wife ke? Akata yi ma goo ke?



Dyt! Come and see o

Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 07, 2016
Marriedatlast , even this your name speaks volumes. Let me tell you the plain truth. For a man to have used fake docs to enter or stay in a foreign country, he really really desires to stay in that country and not anywhere else like his home country.
He even went further to marry you probably hoping you will help his course. grin

Now, you turn around n pester him so much that you want to come n build your home in Nigeria. (Nig is not a bad place at all but hubby clearly wants out there)
My dear sis, be very careful. Your husband n in-laws shouldn't let out their frustrations of them not getting regular pounds/dollars, on you cos their plan was never for you or their son to settle here. The man also may do you harm if he gets too frustrated and depressed. He's already quite disappointed, don't you think. Take care n be wise.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by ElsonMorali: 8:26am On Dec 07, 2016
Marriedatlast:
Yes the mosquitoes, i have never encoutered anything and i pray i dont. i saw real sickness of malaria in Gambia and i pray i never get sick like that.

Yes and i agree on the area as i would like to find a quite off road neighbourhood. Im quite sensitive to constant noise distractions.
Well then, welcome to Nigeria. smiley
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 9:19am On Dec 07, 2016
Loisemm:
Marriedatlast , even this your name speaks volumes. Let me tell you the plain truth. For a man to have used fake docs to enter or stay in a foreign country, he really really desires to stay in that country and not anywhere else like his home country.
He even went further to marry you probably hoping you will help his course. grin
Now, you turn around n pester him so much that you want to come n build your home in Nigeria. (Nig is not a bad place at all but hubby clearly wants out there)
My dear sis, be very careful. Your husband n in-laws shouldn't let out their frustrations of them not getting regular pounds/dollars, on you cos their plan was never for you or their son to settle here. The man also may do you harm if he gets too frustrated and depressed. He's already quite disappointed, don't you think. Take care n be wise.
agree
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 07, 2016
op , u want to go to Naija to be a full housewife , to sit home n educate ur kids n husband . na fairytale life u don dey dream of living in Nigeria
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 07, 2016
Op, full time house wife? In Nigeria? And your husband is not amongst the rich of the rich in society? Babes, smell the brewing coffee.. You are on your own oooo.
As soon as your pounds is lavished, and finished? you will realise whom you married.

Odikwa very risky!
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Joy1706(f): 3:17pm On Dec 07, 2016
A nigerian man abroad is different from a nigerian man in nigeria o. Better don't try it o. By the time you've finished sacrificing all and your hubby starts jumping from woman to woman, your body go tell you how far.
My advise? Find another man where you are and marry and build your life with him. Most nigerian men in nigeria esp. are nothing to write home about.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Ngokafor(f): 3:20pm On Dec 07, 2016
..@op something tells me you will regret this decision ...I hope i am wrong though.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by oyetpel(m): 3:24pm On Dec 07, 2016
For a foreigner coming to Nigeria to stay, i must tell you, it will be interesting. Even at our worst you will enjoy it, and people will treat you differently and special kind of. But concerning your man who has gone abroad and have been deported, and even asking you to find a way to get him back to UK is not looking good. Every Nigeria fast, go to mountains and pray to get visa, the rich living in Nigeria are here because they know they can go abroad anytime they like.

So what am saying is, you are coming here to meet a frustrated man. And you know one thing about Nigeria? We suffer and smile. I even pity these young girls doing girlfriend and boyfriend in Nigeria, and some of them complain that their bfs like sex so much, when boy no get job na to dey pork lovey lovey gf na.

So another thing Marriedatlast, you will get to enjoy his deek everyday, guess that's a bonus from your husband.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by ifyalways(f): 3:28pm On Dec 07, 2016
I've never seen a single female expat that is married to a "regular" Nigerian and living in Nigeria. Dunno how OP thinks she can be the one.

@OP, nice of you to have those fairytale dreams nicely planned in your head but sweetheart, it Won't work here. If you really and desperately want this man of yours, do everything in your power to bring him to YOUR country or relocate with him to any other country in the western world where YOU atleast have the right to work.

Money means a lot to the average Nigerian family and to a large extent can determine the success or failure of a marriage.

If your hubby is serious about the restaurant business, he should have started it long time ago, no matter how small small opposed to waiting for you to come contribute or help.

Again, don't throw away all you have, gather your life savings ad run down to Nigeria with your box of money and fairytale!!!

Contact your country's embassy/consulate in Nigeria and seek their advisory too.
Re: Coming To Live With My Nigerian Husband In Nigeria by Acidosis(m): 3:34pm On Dec 07, 2016
Joy1706:
A nigerian man abroad is different from a nigerian man in nigeria o. Better don't try it o. By the time you've finished sacrificing all and your hubby starts jumping from woman to woman, your body go tell you how far.
My advise? Find another man where you are and marry and build your life with him. Most nigerian men I've dated in nigeria esp. are nothing to write home about
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