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Dear girl,
Forgive him. I know you hate him. I know you despise
him. I know you can't stand the sight of him. I even know
seeing his name makes you angry. Yes, you have every
right to feel that towards him. He hurt you over and over,
even when you've given him chance after chance.

You could
even say you're entitled to feel so much hatred towards him
and nobody would blame you. But just think about it;
what has hating him done for you? Sure, it's kept you
more guarded against people. Sure, it's made you more
aware of peoples' bad intentions with you. Sure, it's caused you to not trust anybody and therefore, not leaving yourself vulnerable for anybody.

But hating him has also
caused you to push people away. Hating him has also
stopped you from being able to see potential in people who
actually want to be with you. Hating him has caused you
to be bitter, which led to you emotionally shutting yourself
down, which led to you not caring if you hurt people in
the process or not, which led to you being unable to love anyone, including yourself.

Do you really want to feel this
way forever? Are you sure you want to carry this with you for the rest of your life? Would you actually be willing to
make the next guy pay for the last guys' mistakes? That
wouldn't be fair to him or for you because how could you
ever find happiness when you're the one preventing yourself
from finding it?

Deep down, I know you miss being loved
and you even miss loving someone. Deep down, I know you're afraid to give as much of yourself to someone as you did to the last guy again. Deep down, I know you're even
having trouble putting the wall you've put up down. But,
you just have to let it go. Not just him, but that part of
your life. I know that relationship with him took a huge
toll on you and it's left you damaged, but it isn't too late
for you to put yourself back together and there's also nothing wrong with having someone help you.

You just
have to start by forgiving him because that is the only way
you'll ever move on to the next chapter of your life. Come back to being happy again because we all miss that girl.
Sincerely,
A guy who cares.

What kinda offensive writing is this- no paragraph

Forgive him...

I do forgive but I don't forget what they do to me. It gives me the strength to do better and bebe a better person than I was when we were together.

Phewww!!