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ammyluv2002:
That kind lie she lie can dey pain sha! Something that is very clear


But having such videos on her phone doesn't make her an addict! Okay, what if the vids automatically downloaded without her notice? On a brighter note, maybe she wants to be perfect for you,but she's shy of letting you know about it?

I think, it has to do with her attitude too! Does she behave like someone who's an addict? And, even if she's an addict, is she willing to stop?

You can't just put your plans on hold without trying to make her stop at least you should give it a try, if you truly want to marry her.

I wouldn't want to marry someone who's addicted to such videos, but at least try to make her stop & see how it goes.

Henrolla:
this wisdom isn't ordinary. such a wise and smart response..thumbs up!

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this lady for a while now, and everything seem to be going well . i even planned on getting married to her.

Yesterday, i asked her for her phone so i can transfer some pictures to my phone . After transferring the pictures , i innocently decided to go into her video clips to see what she got there.... to my greatest surprise i was welcomed by assorted porn videos . i never thought a lady would keep such on her phone.

when i asked what she is doing with the porn videos; she denied that she never knew the videos were there thoughtless of ever watching them. she claim she is in some whatsapp group , and she thinks some members must have posted the videos on the group and they automatically downloaded into her phone without her notice .....

this had got me really thinking....

can you go ahead and marry a girl if you get to found out that she is a porn addict ?

ItsQuinn:
I'm not a porn addict, I just like watching porn sometimes

ammyluv2002:
Awww! Thank you for your kind words. I'm flattered

truthsayer007:
Dem dey deceive you, your head dey swell

wisdomguy4u:
how can i help her when she is denying the obvious... i still dont understand how someone would have bunch of videos on her phone without even knowing they are there.

KINGOFJAPAN:
What's so bad about finding porn in your spouses phone?

Rosarie:
re u for real?was so wrong in your spouse seeing other people ve sex.hmmm.d day u can not give what they are giving that day pls ask this question again

Anusiemgood:
Everything is bad.

makydebbie:
Really?

I can't date a porn addict!

truthsayer007:
Hmmm, if i may ask...do u let your BF know that u do watch it sometimes?

ItsQuinn:
Yes and he's okay with it

beautiful232:
hahaha

but that's the truth

I'm addicted to porn don't make me a bad person

truthsayer007:
Ah ! Na wah o, End time BF.

ItsQuinn:


Freedom is the key to a successful long lasting relationship
Hope you will learn from this and apply it to your own relationship

vizkiz:
women

truthsayer007:
apply ko, appliances ni ! If i catch my babe with Porn on her phone, Thats the day it would be Over & Done !

PoisonedOne:
What's your business with what she keeps in her phone? She is mature enough to know what she wants. She keeps them on her phone in order to save her mb; you watch yours online and delete the Brower histories. Now tell me between the both of you who is more economical considering the economic situation we're in?

I find it hard to believe your story though. How can you be dating someone for some few months and only discovered now that she hoards por.n on her phone? And how many guys would make such fuss out of such?

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this lady for a while now, and everything seem to be going well . i even planned on getting married to her.

Yesterday, i asked her for her phone so i can transfer some pictures to my phone . After transferring the pictures , i innocently decided to go into her video clips to see what she got there.... to my greatest surprise i was welcomed by assorted porn videos . i never thought a lady would keep such on her phone.

when i asked what she is doing with the porn videos; she denied that she never knew the videos were there thoughtless of ever watching them. she claim she is in some whatsapp group , and she thinks some members must have posted the videos on the group and they automatically downloaded into her phone without her notice .....

this had got me really thinking....

can you go ahead and marry a girl if you get to found out that she is a porn addict ?

Gladiator1:
Really?? Bt we can date. I'm not a porn addict

afroditte:
OP noone without sin.... if pórn is on her phone nko? Does it make her a pórn star?

Just tell her you don't like such and that should be the end of it. You are over thinking this.

As for all the hypocrites that are saying they can't marry such a girl but they know in their hearts that they do worse.....are girls supposed to be saints? Or you think the sexual feelings that affects men doesn't affect women also? SMH.

A friend was recently telling me how his married friends would rather express their fetish desires with strippers and call girls instead of their wives, and till tomorrow I'm still struggling to understand why?

Why are most men such hypocrites? Even from the biblical times, they have always been hypocrites. Case in point, mary Magdalene.

wisdomguy4u:
how can i help her when she is denying the obvious... i still dont understand how someone would have bunch of videos on her phone without even knowing they are there.

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this lady for a while now, and everything seem to be going well . i even planned on getting married to her.

Yesterday, i asked her for her phone so i can transfer some pictures to my phone . After transferring the pictures , i innocently decided to go into her video clips to see what she got there.... to my greatest surprise i was welcomed by assorted porn videos . i never thought a lady would keep such on her phone.

when i asked what she is doing with the porn videos; she denied that she never knew the videos were there thoughtless of ever watching them. she claim she is in some whatsapp group , and she thinks some members must have posted the videos on the group and they automatically downloaded into her phone without her notice .....

this had got me really thinking....

can you go ahead and marry a girl if you get to found out that she is a porn addict ?

truthsayer007:
I really fear the embolden, I know i won't cheat when i'm married BUT with the look of things i wouldn't i want to expose my future wife to such fetish desires, becuz only call girls & strippers do those things. I'm still yet to meet a decent girl who would give me a BJ, 69 or fetish desires except a Runs girl.

Most decent ladies i have dated or seen don't want to do these fetish things except the really wild ones.

I don't see any need pressurizing your Girlfriend / Wife to do all those when she doesn't really want to do them, She has her rights..doesn't she?

Blessograo:
Besides everyone watches porn one way or the other and ladies don't talk about it or anything sex about us cos we embarrassed about it but to guys it's fun, if you not happy with her watching it tell her you don't like it and forget the incidence ever happened. You also watching porn[b] if she sends her nude picture to you, she's acting and you watching [/b].

ammyluv2002:
Awww! Thank you for your kind words. I'm flattered

wisdomguy4u:
how can i help her when she is denying the obvious... i still dont understand how someone would have bunch of videos on her phone without even knowing they are there.

TITOBIGZ:
Shoro niyen.