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Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by mrDvO(m): 3:13pm On Dec 09, 2016
Gladiator1:
I can't spot anything wrong in what OP just typed smiley
nothing at all
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Olu317(m): 3:18pm On Dec 09, 2016
KINGOFJAPAN:

Do you have any medical source to backup your ignorant assumptions?
If yes, post the link here.
you are such a lazy duck. I don't inform the public without having my facts at my disposal. You are too young to provoke me with your derogatory words unlike. I want you to google it. Study to show thyself approved, a workman needed not be ashamed,rightly divide the word of truth. Best of luck on your research. .
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 09, 2016
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Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by larry101(m): 3:22pm On Dec 09, 2016
Brother to me their is no crime in that,if a lady can give u her fone shows she is ready for u and reveals her secret to u.
A lady that Watches porn on fone is better than a lady dat messes arund.u can advise n talk to her about it...
Instead of watching on fone it will be better physically with you..
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by javispj(m): 3:24pm On Dec 09, 2016
Ur girl is a freek...
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Demioso: 3:35pm On Dec 09, 2016
Just because she has porns on her phone does not make her an addict. Also I would not doubt her story that the videos automatically downloaded especially on Whatsapp. From my own experience. I get a lot of stuff from different groups and in most cases don't even check them out for about four days with over 300 messages and I just click on them without even reading them, guess what? any video on that message ended up on my video archives. I found this out when I went to my videos and I see a bunch of videos I have never seen. So it's quite possible. You can try the experiment as well. So don't jump into any conclusion
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by prof04560: 3:44pm On Dec 09, 2016
You can't really tell if she a porn addict or not just by the porn videos you saw on her phone. You have to take a critical study of her behavior especially in secrete places that she might be.

How can you identify porn addicts
(1) they pretend a lot. As a matter of fact, they are good pretenders
(2) they like to stay indoors and they often like to stay alone
(3) they are always on the internet either with the use of their laptops or smart phones
(4) they generally loss interest in almost every other social activities like going to church, hanging out with friends, staying out long and so on...
(5) they don't often fall sick
(6) they are generally slim looking in nature
(7) most are very timid
(cool some are very secretive
(9) browsing the internet is often what they enjoy doing
(10) most of them don't keep their laptop system or smart phone password less. They always lock their device with security keys.
(12) they are very good in bed, and they can have sex for fun
(13) they are often very good looking, cos they keep good hygiene
(14) they fall in love easily
(15) they are generally introverts
(16) they often have issues in keeping relationship
(17) they love to listen to dirty talks or chat dirty on social media
(18) they spend money any how. Most times, they can't account for money spent.
(19) they are easily distracted by the opposite sex
(20) some don't make many friends
(21) they get Hot easily. I.e they are easily turned on for sex
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Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by prof04560: 3:46pm On Dec 09, 2016
You can't really tell if she is a porn addict or not just by the porn videos you saw on her phone. You have to take a critical study of her behaviors especially in secrete places that she might be.

How can you identify porn addicts

(1) they pretend a lot. As a matter of fact, they are good pretenders
(2) they like to stay indoors and they often like to stay alone
(3) they are always on the internet either with the use of their laptops or smart phones
(4) they generally loss interest in almost every other social activities like going to church, hanging out with friends, staying out long and so on...
(5) they don't often fall sick
(6) they are generally slim looking in nature
(7) most are very timid
(cool some are very secretive
(9) browsing the internet is often what they enjoy doing
(10) most of them don't keep their laptop system or smart phone password less. They always lock their device with security keys.
(12) they are very good in bed, and they can have sex for fun
(13) they are often very good looking, cos they keep good hygiene
(14) they fall in love easily
(15) they are generally introverts
(16) they often have issues in keeping relationship
(17) they love to listen to dirty talks or chat dirty on social media
(18) they spend money any how. Most times, they can't account for money spent.
(19) they are easily distracted by the opposite sex
(20) some don't make many friends
(21) they get Hot easily. I.e they are easily turned on for sex
(22) and so much more... Contact me for more details 08112946630
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by KINGOFJAPAN: 3:48pm On Dec 09, 2016
Olu317:
you are such a lazy duck. I don't inform the public without having my facts at my disposal. You are too young to provoke me with your derogatory words unlike. I want you to google it. Study to show thyself approved, a workman needed not be ashamed,rightly divide the word of truth. Best of luck on your research. .
What's facts? Shame me and post it here, no need for meaningless long epistles that mean nothing but show your overwhelming ignorance.
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by holluphemydavid(m): 3:51pm On Dec 09, 2016
beautiful232:



hahaha

but that's the truth

I'm addicted to porn don't make me a bad person
beautiful is indeed ur name,just checked ur dp now grin grin grin grin grin
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by vizkiz: 3:59pm On Dec 09, 2016
Mikylopez:
dnt get me wrong buh going through her phone for what exactly?? den when he finds what hz looking for he gets heart broken.. i learnt d hard way not to go through people's phones..yh i wae heart broken buh i brought it upon myself first week i kept on biting my fingers as to why i did dat cos i missed him... 2nd week i was happy i did dat i felt relieved it didn't feel like i was in a competition so its all up to you to choose

would you rather stay in the dark about it? Let him cheat on you successfully?
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Kaybaba5(m): 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2016
KINGOFJAPAN:
What's so bad about finding porn in your spouses phone?

Anyway its not bad but for you to know that she sabi the thing
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by freedomchichi(m): 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2016
yes u can go ahead and marry her if u really luv her
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Seunpaul01(m): 4:19pm On Dec 09, 2016
wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this lady for a while now, and everything seem to be going well . i even planned on getting married to her.

Yesterday, i asked her for her phone so i can transfer some pictures to my phone . After transferring the pictures , i innocently decided to go into her video clips to see what she got there.... to my greatest surprise i was welcomed by assorted porn videos . i never thought a lady would keep such on her phone.

when i asked what she is doing with the porn videos; she denied that she never knew the videos were there thoughtless of ever watching them. she claim she is in some whatsapp group , and she thinks some members must have posted the videos on the group and they automatically downloaded into her phone without her notice .....

this had got me really thinking....

can you go ahead and marry a girl if you get to found out that she is a porn addict ?



And so, what the heck is wrong with that. Abeg, grow up.
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Perfectionist11: 4:21pm On Dec 09, 2016
Not an issue @ all..on a brighter note she might be trying to polish her skills 4 ya.
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by beautiful232(f): 4:23pm On Dec 09, 2016
holluphemydavid:
beautiful is indeed ur name,just checked ur dp now grin grin grin grin grin



Thanks much
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by benjibabs(m): 4:26pm On Dec 09, 2016
wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this lady for a while now, and everything seem to be going well . i even planned on getting married to her.

Yesterday, i asked her for her phone so i can transfer some pictures to my phone . After transferring the pictures , i innocently decided to go into her video clips to see what she got there.... to my greatest surprise i was welcomed by assorted porn videos . i never thought a lady would keep such on her phone.

when i asked what she is doing with the porn videos; she denied that she never knew the videos were there thoughtless of ever watching them. she claim she is in some whatsapp group , and she thinks some members must have posted the videos on the group and they automatically downloaded into her phone without her notice .....

this had got me really thinking....

can you go ahead and marry a girl if you get to found out that she is a porn addict ?



To start with, how did you come the conclusion that she is a porn addict? Simply because she has porn on her phone does not make her an addict. That aside, do you believe her story? She is right about Whatsapp downloading posted media automatically by default if you did not change the original configuration after installation. The question still remains, do you believe her? If you do, then let the issue rest and continue. If you don't, then dig further. Talk to her and let her know that you are not going to judge her if she is "indulging" in the indecency. If she opens up to you, offer your support and help her to kick the "habit" before it becomes an addiction. You should understand that everyone will come across porn at some point in one's life; some people are able to resist the pull and do away with it while others get hooked. Both of you could search the web and read about the damaging effect of porn on relationships and on one's life in general.

Complete trust is very important if you want peace of mind in your relationship. It is one thing watching porn and another lying about it. Liars don't just tell one lie because they have to lie to cover up another lie. Talk to her about lying as well. Being open and vulnerable without judgment is the beauty of vibrant relationships. Lying will end up destroying trust and eventually destroy a relationship.

Remain blessed bro. cool
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by StoneColdBiceps(m): 4:36pm On Dec 09, 2016
CorGier:


Wisdom,


The reasons why she had to lie to you were;

1- You approached her from a judgemental stance, and,
2- She didn't trust you enough to handle the truth about her sexuality
.

Besides, I see nothing wrong with grown lady keeping porn on her mobile, neither does it make her a porn addict. Mind you I'm not in support of her lying to you, but I understand her reasons behind it.

If you really want to enjoy the very best qualities of that lady as a wife, then you really need to get off your high horse.


This is not a thing of being judgemental or not. Lets call a spade a spade. No sugar coating. She got caught!

What i see here is that:

1. She is in a bad company - Wassap group as She claimed. maybe a particular guy or guys are on her matter.

2. Is She trying to be sexual active for the guy? no, i dont think so, courtesy of the "wassap group"

3. She must be hooked on masturbation. Self service.

3. Its understandable for a guy to keep mojo on his phone, but for a girl? that one serious o

This is not a advise, this is a view.
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Mikylopez(f): 4:46pm On Dec 09, 2016
vizkiz:


would you rather stay in the dark about it? Let him cheat on you successfully?
dahs why i said you have to choose.. I'm still gonna choose to snoop around while doing so i have to get prepared for the worst
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by francisduru: 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2016
I love that, because of the experience she will have.......
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Rockyrascal(m): 5:07pm On Dec 09, 2016
It will make the marriage To be more fun now.
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by tottinova: 5:27pm On Dec 09, 2016
ammyluv2002:
That kind lie she lie can dey pain sha! Something that is very clear angry


But having such videos on her phone doesn't make her an addict! Okay, what if the vids automatically downloaded without her notice? On a brighter note, maybe she wants to be perfect for you,but she's shy of letting you know about it?

I think, it has to do with her attitude too! Does she behave like someone who's an addict? And, even if she's an addict, is she willing to stop?

You can't just put your plans on hold without trying to make her stop at least you should give it a try, if you truly want to marry her.

I wouldn't want to marry someone who's addicted to such videos, but at least try to make her stop & see how it goes.

I'm an addict too, any tips on how to stop
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by bezimo(m): 5:38pm On Dec 09, 2016
wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this lady for a while now, and everything seem to be going well . i even planned on getting married to her.

Yesterday, i asked her for her phone so i can transfer some pictures to my phone . After transferring the pictures , i innocently decided to go into her video clips to see what she got there.... to my greatest surprise i was welcomed by assorted porn videos . i never thought a lady would keep such on her phone.

when i asked what she is doing with the porn videos; she denied that she never knew the videos were there thoughtless of ever watching them. she claim she is in some whatsapp group , and she thinks some members must have posted the videos on the group and they automatically downloaded into her phone without her notice .....

this had got me really thinking....

can you go ahead and marry a girl if you get to found out that she is a porn addict ?


She could be lieing to you to cover up her shame of been found out of been a porn addict, but it's also possible the videos downloaded into her phone from the alledge WhatsApp group without her knowledge.
I've experienced such stuff before where nonsense videos and pix are shared by group members which automatically downloads into my phone even without my knowledge and permission,but you've got to delete them after finding them. So try to prove her claim by checking if such WhatsApp group exist like she claimed.
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Olu317(m): 5:38pm On Dec 09, 2016
KINGOFJAPAN:

What's facts? Shame me and post it here, no need for meaningless long epistles that mean nothing but show your overwhelming ignorance.
....I don't need to shame you but to proof a point of difference in classes of human beings on life. For a start google; www.addict.com
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by vizkiz: 5:39pm On Dec 09, 2016
Mikylopez:
dahs why i said you have to choose.. I'm still gonna choose to snoop around while doing so i have to get prepared for the worst
check your IG
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Mikylopez(f): 5:43pm On Dec 09, 2016
vizkiz:

check your IG
aii i will
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Olu317(m): 5:45pm On Dec 09, 2016
KINGOFJAPAN:

What's facts? Shame me and post it here, no need for meaningless long epistles that mean nothing but show your overwhelming ignorance.
....I don't need to shame you but to proof a point of difference in classes of human beings in life. Study before coming up with series write up to misinform the readers. For a start google; www.addiction.com .
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 5:46pm On Dec 09, 2016
MizTyna:
I am not understanding. Does the fact that she has porn make her an addict? You have sex, are you a sex addict? What's the big deal in watching porn or having on my phone.
Yes I watch porn
Personally I adore ladies that watch porn. Of course I also dream of dating a bisexual chick, so maybe I'm just freaky. That girl on girl action....ohh la la grin
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by ammyluv2002(f): 5:54pm On Dec 09, 2016
tottinova:


I'm an addict too, any tips on how to stop
Give your life to Christ grin
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by bigcp(m): 6:19pm On Dec 09, 2016
you wnt to find out if she's telling the truth or not....it's simple...collect d phone frm her n glance tru the group 2 see if u can find such videos posted there...or go tru the chats...

you'll knw if she's really telling d truth or not...
Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 09, 2016
prof04560:
You can't really tell if she is a porn addict or not just by the porn videos you saw on her phone. You have to take a critical study of her behaviors especially in secrete places that she might be.

How can you identify porn addicts

(1) they pretend a lot. As a matter of fact, they are good pretenders
(2) they like to stay indoors and they often like to stay alone



(3) they are always on the internet either with the use of their laptops or smart phones
(4) they generally loss interest in almost every other social activities like going to church, hanging out with friends, staying out long and so on...
(5) they don't often fall sick
(6) they are generally slim looking in nature
(7) most are very timid
(cool some are very secretive
(9) browsing the internet is often what they enjoy doing
(10) most of them don't keep their laptop system or smart phone password less. They always lock their device with security keys.
(12) they are very good in bed, and they can have sex for fun
(13) they are often very good looking, cos they keep good hygiene
(14) they fall in love easily
(15) they are generally introverts
(16) they often have issues in keeping relationship
(17) they love to listen to dirty talks or chat dirty on social media
(18) they spend money any how. Most times, they can't account for money spent.
(19) they are easily distracted by the opposite sex
(20) some don't make many friends
(21) they get Hot easily. I.e they are easily turned on for sex
(22) and so much more... Contact me for more details 08112946630


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Re: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by bowman000(m): 7:01pm On Dec 09, 2016
Wetin concern me

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