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lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
okay so, in secondary school, i had no idea giving head was sex and is slutty, i didn't know it was called MouthAction and i gave 7 boys in secondary school but never allowed the real sex. but i soon after found out that oral is sex and anyone who does it is slutty. so when i found out at sixteen i promised myself to begin to save myself for my husband and since then i never even kissed a boy. so i am now 23, haven't even kissed a guy since i was sixteen, but i still think guys will think of me as a slut and no one will want to marry me, cause of the things i did in secondary school, even tho i have changed since then, so i need your own opinions, be truthful to me, i want the truth, will a guy be able to look as me as not a slut?

Are you going to be telling every guy that ask you out that you have been sucking diccks since secondary school? If girls tell you what they have done with boys in their life, you will never allow your brother to get married to any other lady except you, but that will be incest. Girl, nothing do you joor, all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
okay so, in secondary school, i had no idea giving head was sex and is slutty, i didn't know it was called MouthAction and i gave 7 boys in secondary school but never allowed the real sex. but i soon after found out that oral is sex and anyone who does it is slutty. so when i found out at sixteen i promised myself to begin to save myself for my husband and since then i never even kissed a boy. so i am now 23, haven't even kissed a guy since i was sixteen, but i still think guys will think of me as a slut and no one will want to marry me, cause of the things i did in secondary school, even tho i have changed since then, so i need your own opinions, be truthful to me, i want the truth, will a guy be able to look as me as not a slut?

Well Guys Differ And The Truth Is You Suppose To Think Twice Before Doing Something But Now That It Has Already Been Done, It Will Be Good To Tell Him As You Already Have In Mind And I Think He Will Love And Respect You For That

They Guy Have His Past And If He Is Mature, He Will Always Respect You For That. They Only Problem Is, It Will Be Difficult For Him To Marry You If He Knows Any Of The Guys And A Problem May Arise If You Meet Any Of The Guys Later After Marriage When Living Together.

Siahnation:
They Guy Have His Past And If He Is Mature, He Will Always Respect You For That. They Only Problem Is, It Will Be Difficult For Him To Marry You If He Knows Any Of The Guys And A Problem May Arise If You Meet Any Of The Guys Later After Marriage When Living Together.

but what if he does not know any of the guys personally?

jahsharon:
Are you going to be telling every guy that ask you out that you have been sucking diccks since secondary school? If girls tell you what they have done with boys in their life, you will never allow your brother to get married to any other lady except you, but that will be incest. Girl, nothing do you joor, all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.

i won't tell him but people always tell me that the truth will eventually come out, what if he finds out on his own?

jamalnation:
how who's gonna tell him?

don't you think he might meet some of them in the future, i mean this is a small world

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
but what if he does not know any of the guys personally?

After Marriage, He Doesnt Have To Know Them For The Problem To Arise As Far As He Knows You Gave This Guy A Mouth Action But Can Be Worst When You Guys Are Having Some Misunderstanding. Your Case Is Better Since They Have Not Been To The Promise Land, Some Guys May Take It As A Normal Thing And Even Request From You And When He Met Them, He Will Like To Know How Bad You Are At That Time, You Sitting On His Laps Romancing Each Other As The Guy Narrates, It Fun To Be With A Love One. I Will Advice You To Tell Him Everything For The Sake Of You, Him, The Love You Are Sharing And The Sake Of The Up Coming Marriage, You May Regret Not Telling Him After Marriage When He Finds Out.

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
but what if he does not know any of the guys personally?

You May Regret The Marriage When He Finds Out But Things Will Go Normal. NB If You Meet Any Of Those Guys With Or Without Him, Your Mood Will Change For The Whole Day And He Will Know, Then Finds Out From You. You Will Confess

You try sha... Who get Electron Microscope? Make we check the mouth we have here for herpes...

Simply give it to him x7 times more on your wedding night. He wont be upset when he finds out it was only 7 in your past.

CplusJason:
Listen up "Headmistress" a popular prostitute got married just last month in Portharcourt.


Remove that ugly mindset and always think positive.

lol @headmistress.
Nlders no go kill me with laugh

The way the human mind works will never cease to amaze me....
You will most likely marry a guy who has received and given tonnes of oral and he will not be thinking the way you are thinking that's the the reality of life. You are worried about actions done as a teenager? And when you meet this husband will you give him a CV of your conquests?

No dear it shouldn't matter as long as you don't go around shouting it out to everyone,no one will even know but you & God and that's a sin that God gives forgiveness for.Continue on with your life,with your head held high,don't allow your past mistakes to swallow you up in guilt or overshadow who you really are.You're Valuable in God's eyes,so know your worth.�