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7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by aboy247: 4:06pm On Dec 22, 2016


Here are 7 ways you can be madly in love with your husband too.

1. Look at him
Slow down and really look at him each day. Let him catch you staring. Drop everything you’re doing to give him a kiss. Watch him spend time with your children. See how hard he works for your family. Notice things he’s doing right. Glance over things he’s doing wrong. Study his features. Pay attention to the blessings he brings into your life. Gaze at him lovingly as he tucks your child into bed. Review your life together and imagine it without him. Peek into your future and see how incredible life is to come.
2. Listen to him
Be engaged when he tells you about his day. Take notice when he’s frustrated. Listen when he tells you he needs space. Be attentive when he says he needs you more. Hear his voice as he reads to your toddler. Eavesdrop when he’s discussing video games with your teenager. Take advice when he’s giving it to you. Hang on his words when he tells you you’re beautiful. Believe him when he expresses his love.

3. Fight with him
Don’t be afraid to argue with your husband. Disagreements can lead to understanding. They can bring couples closer together. An occasional squabble doesn’t mean your marriage is doomed. It’s healthy and important for a strong marriage. Learn how to fight fair. Keep things civil and keep your voices down. Never let your arguments last long or become too intense. Don’t forget, the most important part of fighting is making up.

4. Compliment him
Tell your husband specific things you love about him. Thank him for making the bed or taking out the trash. Praise him for handling an argument with your children. Commend him for working hard around the house. Show him admiration when he goes the extra mile at work or for a neighbor. Compliment his new shirt, haircut or shoes.

5. Confide in him
Your husband must be your ultimate confidant. Confess to him when you’re feeling lonely, sad or distant from him. Admit when you’re not happy or something is bothering you. Tell him your frustrations. Reveal your secrets to him. Let him in on your friends secrets. Opening up to your husband is crucial for happiness in marriage. Never be afraid to unload your innermost feelings on him.

6. Never give up on him
He may say something stupid and do something even stupider, but you must not give up on him. Walking away can’t be an option. When you commit to marriage you commit to your partner 100%. You must be his most loyal companion. Be a staunch advocate for your husband to his face and behind his back.

7. Show him you love him
Hug him, kiss him and be intimate with him often. Learn his love language. Discover how your husband wants to be loved. Give him praise, gifts, touch or time. Make an effort every day to show your husband you still love him.

Source: http://nignews.com.ng/7-ways-you-can-stay-madly-in-love-with-your-husband/

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by GMBuhari: 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2016
Give him food
Welcome him from work with cold water or juice
Don't touch his phone
Buy him beer or wine once a while
Give him toto steady

Nothing will make your home happier

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by wtfCode: 4:16pm On Dec 22, 2016
Mehn,marriage don dey hungry me seriously.
But I'm too broke 4 it undecided

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Silvereze(m): 4:18pm On Dec 22, 2016
Nice article......

But you should have pasted it in family section

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by tfk2000(m): 4:19pm On Dec 22, 2016
GMBuhari:
Give him food
Welcome him from work with cold water or juice
Don't touch his phone
Buy him beer or wine once a while
Give him toto steady

Nothing will make your home happier

Am sure u are single

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Nobody: 4:25pm On Dec 22, 2016
Number 3 point should have been COMMUNICATION.

Arguments in a relationship DOES NOT WORK!

When both parties work on their communication and attitude, arguments/fights will cease or be at it's barest minimum.

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by 9jayes: 4:34pm On Dec 22, 2016
If u try that N0 3 (fight with him) u are as gone as 2016

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by fromnigeria(m): 4:34pm On Dec 22, 2016
There one and only way: LOVE HIM OR HER thats all

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by mosho2good: 4:35pm On Dec 22, 2016
For this recession who want to stay in love except to stay in love with a machine that makes real lot if money since MMM has crashed......

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by 9jayes: 4:35pm On Dec 22, 2016
fromnigeria:
There one and only way: LOVE HIM OR HER thats all
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by nmreports: 4:36pm On Dec 22, 2016
I heard about a research by a professor from Havard who mentioned that there are only two ways to make couples stay in love with each other.

1. Do everything you want to do around the house nakeed. Never put clothes on.
2. Feed him when he is hungry.... Nakeed!

But......

1. What about kids?.
2. What about when it starts dangling?.

However, im imagining the following.

1. Wife bending to look for stuff under the chair.
2. When she has to use her legs to hold the pot when stirring solid.
3. The jiggle of the bum when you are angry at her and she leaves your sight walking through the corridor towards the kitchen.

Does the research hold water?

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by edimahgurl(f): 4:36pm On Dec 22, 2016
in Adekunle's voice 'i want to love ooo' abeg i want to marry jor
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Nobody: 4:37pm On Dec 22, 2016
If there is genuine love, there is no need for 7 ways because love is the only way.

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by emmylaah74(m): 4:38pm On Dec 22, 2016
GMBuhari:
Give him food
Welcome him from work with cold water or juice
Don't touch his phone
Buy him beer or wine once a while
Give him toto steady

Nothing will make your home happier
u got it mbok

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by kelvyn7: 4:39pm On Dec 22, 2016
shocked
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by personal59: 4:39pm On Dec 22, 2016
fromnigeria:
There one and only way: LOVE HIM OR HER thats all


love is not enough to maintain a home

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by misteryman: 4:40pm On Dec 22, 2016
aboy247:


Here are 7 ways you can be madly in love with your husband too.

1. Look at him
Slow down and really look at him each day. Let him catch you staring. Drop everything you’re doing to give him a kiss. Watch him spend time with your children. See how hard he works for your family. Notice things he’s doing right. Glance over things he’s doing wrong. Study his features. Pay attention to the blessings he brings into your life. Gaze at him lovingly as he tucks your child into bed. Review your life together and imagine it without him. Peek into your future and see how incredible life is to come.
2. Listen to him
Be engaged when he tells you about his day. Take notice when he’s frustrated. Listen when he tells you he needs space. Be attentive when he says he needs you more. Hear his voice as he reads to your toddler. Eavesdrop when he’s discussing video games with your teenager. Take advice when he’s giving it to you. Hang on his words when he tells you you’re beautiful. Believe him when he expresses his love.

3. Fight with him
Don’t be afraid to argue with your husband. Disagreements can lead to understanding. They can bring couples closer together. An occasional squabble doesn’t mean your marriage is doomed. It’s healthy and important for a strong marriage. Learn how to fight fair. Keep things civil and keep your voices down. Never let your arguments last long or become too intense. Don’t forget, the most important part of fighting is making up.


4. Compliment him
Tell your husband specific things you love about him. Thank him for making the bed or taking out the trash. Praise him for handling an argument with your children. Commend him for working hard around the house. Show him admiration when he goes the extra mile at work or for a neighbor. Compliment his new shirt, haircut or shoes.

5. Confide in him
Your husband must be your ultimate confidant. Confess to him when you’re feeling lonely, sad or distant from him. Admit when you’re not happy or something is bothering you. Tell him your frustrations. Reveal your secrets to him. Let him in on your friends secrets. Opening up to your husband is crucial for happiness in marriage. Never be afraid to unload your innermost feelings on him.

6. Never give up on him
He may say something stupid and do something even stupider, but you must not give up on him. Walking away can’t be an option. When you commit to marriage you commit to your partner 100%. You must be his most loyal companion. Be a staunch advocate for your husband to his face and behind his back.

7. Show him you love him
Hug him, kiss him and be intimate with him often. Learn his love language. Discover how your husband wants to be loved. Give him praise, gifts, touch or time. Make an effort every day to show your husband you still love him.

Source: http://nignews.com.ng/7-ways-you-can-stay-madly-in-love-with-your-husband/



Oya Kwom To The Other Room grin grin grin
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by SexyNairalander: 4:40pm On Dec 22, 2016
booked
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by fromnigeria(m): 4:40pm On Dec 22, 2016
personal59:


love is not enough to maintain a home
Because you dont know the meaning of Love
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by DaBullIT(m): 4:41pm On Dec 22, 2016
Give him food

Give him sex


That's all a man wants
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Mintayo(m): 4:41pm On Dec 22, 2016
Just being in love is okay. Ewo tun ni madly in love! undecided

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by NotNairalandi(m): 4:41pm On Dec 22, 2016
if the man no get shi shi ....op forget all this Abu-oma you posted here.no woman go get apitite to do all these things you posted undecidedhere

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 22, 2016
Nice one OP

Lemme add mine

Celebrate a personal goal he has achieved. Take him
out to dinner or celebrate his favorite way at home.

Notice and thank him for the little things he does for
you...even when you're not in the mood,just do it for him smiley

Dress up for him, even if you're not going out......awww this is always romantic,can't wait to start doing it for my hubby

Initiate love-making........every man likes sex,you can never find a man who doesn't like sex,some are just considerate,give him whenever he demands for it,you married him knowing too well that he's a sex freak,and nothing should stop you from giving it to him


Make him his favourite meal----If you can't cook proper meals,go and learn how to do it angry....just do it if you wanna enjoy your marriage

Love his family-----respect them,give them what they deserve,without the consent of his family,you wouldn't have married him smiley

Forgive him when he makes a mistake. Then, never
bring it up again.....don't be a nagging wife,everyone makes mistake,but when it is repeated,it is called decision....once you correct him,he'll change and make sure you don't bring it up again......and never allow your kids to separate you from your husband,love him with all your heart...with all these I've typed,I see no reason why you will not enjoy your marriage

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 22, 2016
Give him hope that MMM is coming back grin

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by ShitHead(m): 4:42pm On Dec 22, 2016
Don't ask him for money...

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Uzor644: 4:43pm On Dec 22, 2016
God pls pick my call.in 2017 i want stop buying recharge card for all these oloshi,iwant to shine congo legitimately

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by VickyRotex(f): 4:43pm On Dec 22, 2016
"Madly" kwa?

Issorite! angry Nice one though!

Mintayo:
Just being in love is okay. Ewo tun ni madly in love! undecided

Oyami le nu o!

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by Divay22(f): 4:44pm On Dec 22, 2016
I need to bookmark....
I learnt something today...Thanks OP kiss
Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by ednut1(m): 4:45pm On Dec 22, 2016
yawns. wont stop him going after small kpekus outside grin. come to think of it, every babe has one married man chasing her undecided bt y

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by chiefojiji(m): 4:45pm On Dec 22, 2016
wtfCode:
Mehn,marriage don dey hungry me seriously. But I'm too broke 4 it undecided
God will surprise you next year if you believe anyway!

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by richidinho(m): 4:46pm On Dec 22, 2016
grin
Op is it also applicable to yoruba husband

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Stay Madly In Love With Your Husband by BarakOkenny(m): 4:46pm On Dec 22, 2016
This does it better.

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