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When it comes to pleasing a man I’d like to believe it’s less complicated than pleasing a woman. Just love him, feed him, and never leave him.. also do the things below

Men are so simple do understand when you as a lady devote your time and interest in him. The reason most women don't understand their man is because their mind is simply divided and selfish interest.


1. HE NEEDS TO VALUE WHAT YOU’RE BRINGING TO THE TABLE:

Generally speaking, men take relationships more seriously than we are given credit. To be happy in a relationship men wish to be acknowledged as an equal partner coming to the relationship with his own set of skills. In most cases, men feel the need to be a protector, but not in a dominating way, rather, in a way which ensures the best for his partner. I have found from my own experience and clinical practice, the happiest men are those who are able to make their partner happy.


2. HE NEEDS TO FEEL LIKE A HERO:

Men need to be respected by their partner — and mutual respect is key to any healthy relationship. Men also need to be accepted and appreciated. Praise him and let him know how you appreciate his love, his effort, and how he makes you feel special. Let him be your hero.”



 3. HE NEEDS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY:


Good men want us to be happy. When you’re happy, they’re happy, They need to know we love them. So stop worrying and live your passion, love and encourage your man, and you’ll have an authentic, happy relationship. Some ladies just put up the frowning face no matter what you do. Ladies learn to smile when you are with your man. Your frowning face might be scaring him.


4. HE NEEDS YOU TO RESPECT HIS INDIVIDUALITY:

For men to be happy in a relationship they need to feel respect and have freedom to be themselves. That doesn’t mean stepping outside of the relationship, but being able to achieve their personal goals, hang with their buddies and have alone time to take care of their own health. If men feel their personal needs and freedom are being jeopardized, then they will think their partner doesn’t respect or trust them. A healthy interdependent relationship includes two partners who mutually rely on each other for support while maintaining their independence. This is where men can find real happiness in a relationship


5. BASICALLY HE NEEDS THE SIMPLE THINGS:

Let’s not make this complicated. Men want two things to be happy in a relationship. Sex and food. Oh, and to be appreciated. So three things. Oops … AND a smile, so really it’s four. Men want their women to be happy and appreciative, and they want sex and a sandwich afterward. It’s really that simple. It's so sad most women can't prepare simple meal or appreciate their men.
I remembered then in school where I used my hard earned money to buy a wrist watch for my babe. She never wore it. When I asked her the reason, she told me her friends will see it as a cheap watch. This is a watch I bought for 5k. I felt so bad and knew we won't go far with such attitude. Please appreciate what ever you are given by your man.


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Lalasticlala what do you think?

falconey:


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What do you have to say?

I don book am

Nice

One or two messages each day to show you care,gifts,throwing a little surprise birthday party for him,If you ain't cool with what he suggested,tell him nicely(No nagging) etc...

Divay22:
One or two messages each day to show you care,gifts,throwing a little surprise birthday party for him,If you ain't cool with what he suggested,tell him nicely(No nagging) etc...

But unfortunately most ladies nag alot.

They just want it their way.

Yea you on point