zezebabyxoxo:
Hi guys,

I need some advice. So I recently met a guy and I'm trying to watch him to see if I should 'proceed'. He came recently came to my town (2 hours drive) so we could hang out. I noticed a few things, I'm wondering if they indicate anything.
1. During breakfast we were both sitting down. They served bread as a buffet and he asked me to go and bring bread for us.
2. He wanted to get some groceries from a store. He sent me again to get a basket. While he was picking stuff I held the basket all the while(it was quite heavy by the way) and he didn't offer to help. Which I found weird. Then when it was time to check out, he gave me the heavier nylon and carried the much lighter one. I now joked that your such a gentleman lol. It was later on he eventually collected the nylon from me.
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What do you guys think, am I overreacting? He's 6 years older.

sweery ignore the poster above me, he hardly understands anything.

IMO...those are red flags but not enough reason to end a relationship. Give him time, watch if he is doing it on purpose or just don't know how to be a gentleman. with attitude like that there is usually more to look out for

MrCork:




we dont under stand your thread.....ok..so you are eatin break fast wit 6year old man durin break fast eating bread an breakfast wit nylon....sweeeery are you ok? (No ofeense)

sinaj:
He isn't sensitive which is so bad.

U are evn nice enof to tell him jokingly

I would av bluntly told him I don't have the strength to carry it

sinaj:
He isn't sensitive which is so bad.

U are evn nice enof to tell him jokingly

I would av bluntly told him I don't have the strength to carry it

zezebabyxoxo:
Hi guys,

I need some advice. So I recently met a guy and I'm trying to watch him to see if I should 'proceed'. He came recently came to my town (2 hours drive) so we could hang out. I noticed a few things, I'm wondering if they indicate anything.
1. During breakfast we were both sitting down. They served bread as a buffet and he asked me to go and bring bread for us.
2. He wanted to get some groceries from a store. He sent me again to get a basket. While he was picking stuff I held the basket all the while(it was quite heavy by the way) and he didn't offer to help. Which I found weird. Then when it was time to check out, he gave me the heavier nylon and carried the much lighter one. I now joked that your such a gentleman lol. It was later on he eventually collected the nylon from me.

What do you guys think, am I overreacting? He's 6 years older.

Nope, you're not overreacting. The thing is, the nigga isn't a gentleman. I mean, he doesn't seems to understand the courtesy of carrying the loads as a man.

Anyways, he may not even think of it as anything that's weird to you. So, just hang on for a while, he may change when next you guys go shopping. Or you simply tell him bluntly that you don't like it... Lazy girls...

Emescot:
You will tell that to the guy u love Girls like you dont last in a relationship. No offence

Splinz:


I've always known you to be a very lazy girl...

zezebabyxoxo:
Hi guys,

I need some advice. So I recently met a guy and I'm trying to watch him to see if I should 'proceed'. He came recently came to my town (2 hours drive) so we could hang out. I noticed a few things, I'm wondering if they indicate anything.
1. During breakfast we were both sitting down. They served bread as a buffet and he asked me to go and bring bread for us.
2. He wanted to get some groceries from a store. He sent me again to get a basket. While he was picking stuff I held the basket all the while(it was quite heavy by the way) and he didn't offer to help. Which I found weird. Then when it was time to check out, he gave me the heavier nylon and carried the much lighter one. I now joked that your such a gentleman lol. It was later on he eventually collected the nylon from me.

What do you guys think, am I overreacting? He's 6 years older.

omega25red:

so my question is you were having breakfast which means he spent the night?

sinaj:
m not lazy jore *rolls eyes*

Who knows if the next one is to tell me to carry a bag of rice for him when we go to shop for rice

If I were him, I'd give you that bag of rice to carry as a proof of your love for me...

zezebabyxoxo:


Nope not necessarily. I didn't spend the night. I just met up with him in the morning.

I didn't want to say anything yet so I can observe his true behaviour well. Plus I'm a bit reserved. But I'll bring it up. Thanks

sinaj:
I see you Oshe relationship expert!

If you the type that pretend a lot to please someone, sorry am not.

Whenever am not comfortable with anybody's behaviour I tell the person right away and if it's a guy I love, will mock him stylishly or tease him.

And yes girls like us last in relationships coz we don't keep pent up feelings.

Splinz:


If I were him, I'd give you that bag of rice to carry as a proof of your love for me...

Emescot:
Understand me sinaj dear, 1st u said you would have BLUNTLY told him you dont have the strenght to carry it, but now u have made perfect sense by saying if its a guy u love, you will MOCK HIM STYLISHLY or TEASE him, you see the difference? One is a bad way of expressing your self and the other is a loving way to do it, and the lateris the best... Say K if you get my point

sinaj:
read her post again, u will understand she barely knows this guy.

Dunno of other girls but what the guy did is a big turn off to me nd doesn't portray him as a gentleman.

Remember they are still getting to know their selves.

Emescot:
I read it again tho, i thought the guy went to her hometown to introduce himself as the fiance... So to prove ur own point instead of ending the debate with me u refused to write K, You go like wahala gan o

sinaj:
Worefa *rolls eyes*

zezebabyxoxo:


The groceries were his.

zezebabyxoxo:


The groceries were his.

zezebabyxoxo:
Hi guys,

I need some advice. So I recently met a guy and I'm trying to watch him to see if I should 'proceed'. He came recently came to my town (2 hours drive) so we could hang out. I noticed a few things, I'm wondering if they indicate anything.
1. During breakfast we were both sitting down. They served bread as a buffet and he asked me to go and bring bread for us.
2. He wanted to get some groceries from a store. He sent me again to get a basket. While he was picking stuff I held the basket all the while(it was quite heavy by the way) and he didn't offer to help. Which I found weird. Then when it was time to check out, he gave me the heavier nylon and carried the much lighter one. I now joked that your such a gentleman lol. It was later on he eventually collected the nylon from me.

What do you guys think, am I overreacting? He's 6 years older.