Marriage as we all know, is an important-"a do without" institution for nurturing kids in a stable environment successfully, a sacrifice on the alter of monogamy for the goods of kids.
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i'd come to notice moderntimes mythology about romance is not helpful,in Africa history... marriage is never thought to be about romance or mr perfect partner.
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Marriage is business, for the sustenance and survival of our kids, this on the long run effect the family-society relationship, marriage is not Romantic.If you want to be romantic dont even marry because the honeymoon "highness" will eventually wear off and then you will want to find another alcohol (relationship) .what now remain after "highness" in honeymoon is the raw nature/character of the partner.
people change, fall out of love,things they like change,the music,the food they like.
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People changing is no big deal cos its all about survival even with this our forefathers still had solid and enduring marriage institutions cos they understood marriage is more than love or feelings.they swallow their pride,dump their fantasy quest and stay together to support selflessly
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I think many married couples have always "fallen out of love with each other" and they just got on with the job and stick together cos they had to. Some people say a more "companionship" type of love emerged. But nowadays i dont think it will ever get to that point. In this age of rampant baby mama-ism, opportunism,sollipism and hypergamy.
Most people who get married will fall out of love, get divorced, destroy the kids lifes,then get ready again for their next intravenous/hypergamy hit rush of love.its sad..its bound to fail.
where pleasure-cheating replace commitment-loyalty-endurance.
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So If you marry someone under the belief you will be in love forever, surely, it will always be the wrong person.

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Cc:Wildflame

Haaa haba na curse

i dont understand

The topic alone is a turn off, just thought to tell you. Ain't reading no shii.

Believe me, no one will read this.

I read it and it is nonsense.

There is a serious problem with the topic

There is no need to repeat marriage in the topic. You have already used marry. Tautological.

This is a nice article hope of gets to Front Page

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JuicyLucy:
I read it and it is nonsense.

why ma?
your so called "sensical view" should blank out this view of mine if shared

Tygaah:
The topic alone is a turn off, just thought to tell you. Ain't reading no shii.

ooh..
change that sir.
any intelligent criticism on dis post?

makydebbie:
Believe me, no one will read this.

why sis?

WiLdFLame:
i think ladies have the power to set the mood in and for their relationship. If you are humble,sweet, forgiving, supportive, and caring, your husband will reciprocate those feelings. If you nag, flirt around like our nairaland ladies do, complain and resent, he will find more reasons to stay late at work, more reason to find solace in other women arm.
The closer you are in a marriage determines whether you and your husband will grow and change together or otherwise.

not only for the women alone-love takes work. it's a choice not feeling-feelings will always fluctuate,those tingle rush will wear off. if your marriage sucks, work on it. partners needs to be self critical when things aint working in their marriage..
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you may not be able to control and dictates sometimes what your partner does, but you can control your feelings and actions.people don't work on troubled marriages so much anymore.its sad

IAmOged:

not only for the women alone-love takes work. it's a choice not feeling-feelings will always fluctuate,those tingle rush will wear off. if your marriage sucks, work on it. partners needs to be self critical when things aint working in their marriage..
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you may not be able to control and dictates sometimes what your partner does, but you can control your feelings and actions.people don't work on troubled marriages so much anymore.its sad

It is true that even after careful examination you can never truly know what someone will be like in years ahead. However, the only factor you can control,which is more important is what kind of person will you be years down d road. What sort of influence are you going to wield on your marriage? Are you going to plant seeds of intimacy and harmony or are you going to plant seeds of resentment and discouragement? surely it both sided but with d way its culturally,physiologically and psychologically engineered-women are of more home maker than men

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Summary of the matter is love is not enough.
There are other things that must be present

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