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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Frankdammy(m): 11:04pm On Dec 23, 2016
Speaking of lagos, dat we knw already,..Mehn, we need 2 put off dz mentality nd b d real u, let her knw ur real state as a man, u get d much needed respect, and quit using money in lurling girls, she go chop ur money clean mouth sef, 2 ...BTW, tables turn bro, d best part is u get 2 knw her real person.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by OwoLee(m): 11:21pm On Dec 23, 2016
dacblogger:
for once I agree with you, dating a poor guy will only earn you many yrs in your fathers house...

Many will cry at the beginning of their life and later enjoy the rest of their life, while some will enjoy life like it won't end in the beginning and later pay cry at the end, in fact end up in their fathers house...such is sometimes the case you just painted...Pray God gives one his/her right partner...No matter the circumstances, happiness is all that matters...

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 11:24pm On Dec 23, 2016
OwoLee:


Many will cry at the beginning of their life and later enjoy the rest of their life, while some will enjoy life like it won't end in the beginning and later pay cry at the end, in fact end up in their fathers house...such is sometimes the case you just painted...Pray God gives one his/her right partner...No matter the circumstances, happiness is all that matters...
work b4 woman
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by OwoLee(m): 11:34pm On Dec 23, 2016
sweetjude:
work b4 woman

You totally wrong, I agree with work before marriage not before relationship. Reason because, of the situation we find ourselves in Nigeria here...
For example, I & my partner could be in relationship starting from sec. school days or university days, work it to we finally get jobs and settle to marry. Its a different thing, No set rules for relationship or marriage...
You have your life to live...Good luck in looking for the rich guy!

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 11:36pm On Dec 23, 2016
OwoLee:


You totally wrong,I agree with work before marriage not before relationship.
For example, I & my partner could be in relationship starting from sec. school days or university days, work it to we finally get jobs and settle to marry. Its a different thing, No set rules for relationship or marriage...
You have your life to live...Good luck in looking for the rich guy!
wen she needs ur assistance you go say i love you

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by OwoLee(m): 11:42pm On Dec 23, 2016
sweetjude:
wen she needs ur assistance you go say i love you

You keep getting it wrong, I really don't know if am chatting with matured mind here, nothing stops the lady from making a living on her own. Fine, once in a while assistance are to be rendered, must it be financial? And if its financial, you both could sort it out. Its requires Understanding one another...
Money is important, but not binding on the man to be the one to always make and give the money. You are in a relationship not only for financial gains, u not running a business!!!

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Yksoul(m): 11:43pm On Dec 23, 2016
GUYS DONT MARRY BROKE GIRLS,GIRLS ALSO DONT MARRY BROKE GUYS.BECAUSE BOTH OF YOU LOOK FOR WHAT TO GAIN WHEN YOU MARRY THAT GUY/GIRL.BOTH GET A JOB AND GET A LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 11:49pm On Dec 23, 2016
OwoLee:


You keep getting it wrong, I really don't know if am chatting with matured mind here, nothing stops the lady from making a living on her own. Fine, once in a while assistance are to be rendered, must it be financial? And if its financial, you both could sort it out. Its requires Understanding one another...
Money is important, but not binding on the man to be the one to always make and give the money. You are in a relationship not only for financial gains, u not running a business!!!
you no understand , you have to have somtin doing b4 you can have a relationship , hoping that she should manage with you and stay when you dont have is why women break guys heart , when una hear money una go talk about the girl working , oboy providing for your woman is a thing of pride , it brings respect , God wanted it that way na why women from time of abraham women looked to their husband for assistance na all this independent talk dey make girls no respect men again , you wan sex and and u no wan spend for her head , woman be like car if you cant maintain it dont buy

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 23, 2016
Yksoul:
GUYS DONT MARRY BROKE GIRLS,GIRLS ALSO DONT MARRY BROKE GUYS.BECAUSE BOTH OF YOU LOOK FOR WHAT TO GAIN WHEN YOU MARRY THAT GUY/GIRL.BOTH GET A JOB AND GET A LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE
cool this putting money on women na why dem no dey respect us again
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by celibate: 11:52pm On Dec 23, 2016
What's your source of income sweetjude ?
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 11:55pm On Dec 23, 2016
sweetjude:
wen she needs ur assistance you go say i love you



No mind them op. Possibly one day, she is so broke no money to buy food 2 eat and possibly her parents travelled. She calls her bf, he will say wow that serious? But don't worry babe things will get better. Pls bear with me, I love you OK? grin
Lol she will go hungry for like 3days and really u expect her to still love And respect u?
It's easy for guys to say am I her ATM?
But when they themselves ,the guys are hungry. They forget when they crash in her house and stylishly ask for food. While she quickly prepares a nice. Meal for him.
She won't tell him eeyah pls don't worry dear, all will be well and kiss him, I love you.
Neither will she call. Him. Olosho. But some guys are quick to call. Their Gfs olosho when it comes to fulfilling responsibility from their end.

Who is fooling who? Well babes that wishes to date broke guys. I wish u babes luck. With time when the chips are down una eyes go clear. I have been there before, it was just a pure waste to my time, money and resources but have learnt.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Zeus100(m): 11:56pm On Dec 23, 2016
VickyRotex have you seen it??
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:05am On Dec 24, 2016
Amelian:




No mind them op. Possibly one day, she is so broke no money to buy food 2 eat and possibly her parents travelled. She calls her bf, he will say wow that serious? But don't worry babe things will get better. Pls bear with me, I love you OK? grin
Lol she will go hungry for like 3days and really u expect her to still love And respect u?
It's easy for guys to say am I her ATM?
But when they themselves ,the guys are hungry. They forget when they crash in her house and stylishly ask for food. While she quickly prepares a nice. Meal for him.
She won't tell him eeyah pls don't worry dear, all will be well and kiss him, I love you.
Neither will she call. Him. Olosho. But some guys are quick to call. Their Gfs olosho when it comes to fulfilling responsibility from their end.

Who is fooling who? Well babes that wishes to date broke guys. I wish u babes luck. With time when the chips are down una eyes go clear. I have been there before, it was just a pure waste to my time, money and resources but have learnt.
gbam i dont support that ooo take care of ur woman provide for her and she no go betray u , all the girls wen i provide for loved me they no hurt me na me cheat spoil am , but the ones wen i no spend on leave me , love no be everything

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by OwoLee(m): 12:06am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
you no understand , you have to have somtin doing b4 you can have a relationship , hoping that she should manage with you and stay when you dont have is why women break guys heart , when una hear money una go talk about the girl working , oboy providing for your woman is a thing of pride , it brings respect , God wanted it that way na why women from time of abraham women looked to their husband for assistance na all this independent talk dey make girls no respect men again , you wan sex and and u no wan spend for her head , woman be like car if you cant maintain it dont buy

I don't pray to be the man who will always collect from my wife to feed or to run the house.
you are quick to say we men run away from duties of providing when it comes to the issue of money, well maybe the irresponsible ones. Quite different from when you broke in between is a different thing.
But you ladies are also quick to put in tour feminist idea when its come to your responsibilities at homes. Many of our nowadays ladies will hide under that and not do anything at home claiming, equal rights, yet you are creating a topic only for the guys to be okay before he can go into a relationship
Not fair!
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by OwoLee(m): 12:08am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
you no understand , you have to have somtin doing b4 you can have a relationship , hoping that she should manage with you and stay when you dont have is why women break guys heart , when una hear money una go talk about the girl working , oboy providing for your woman is a thing of pride , it brings respect , God wanted it that way na why women from time of abraham women looked to their husband for assistance na all this independent talk dey make girls no respect men again , you wan sex and and u no wan spend for her head , woman be like car if you cant maintain it dont buy

I don't pray to be the man who will always collect from my wife to feed or to run the house.
you are quick to say we men run away from duties of providing when it comes to the issue of money, well maybe the irresponsible ones. Quite different from when you broke in between is a different thing.
But you ladies are also quick to put in your feminist idea when its come to responsibilities at homes. Many of our nowadays ladies will hide under that and not do anything at home claiming, equal rights, yet you are creating a topic only for the guys to be okay before he can go into a relationship
Not fair!
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:08am On Dec 24, 2016
OwoLee:


I don't pray to be the man who will always collect from my wife to feed or to run the house.
you are quick to say we men run away from duties of providing when it comes to the issue of money, well maybe the irresponsible ones. Quite different from when you broke in between is a different thing.
But you ladies are also quick to put in tour feminist idea when its come to your responsibilities at homes. Many of our nowadays ladies will hide under that and not do anything at home claiming, equal rights, yet you are creating a topic only for the guys to be okay before he can go into a relationship
Not fair!
i be guy ooo
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Frankdammy(m): 12:08am On Dec 24, 2016
Ok am begining 2 grasp ur view, fine, get a quality life at least, including good plans 4 ur future, financialy stable evn if nt necessarily ''Rich''..but com 2 think of it, wht if a man tarries long in his quest 4 al dz stuffs, mayb clocking 45yrs in age (of cuz al fingers ain't equal)..so u think dats d best time to start a relationship or wateva u cal it?. .., so u see, money neva dictates life..

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 24, 2016
Frankdammy:
Ok am begining 2 grasp ur view, fine, get a quality life at least, including good plans 4 ur future, financialy stable evn if nt necessarily ''Rich''..but com 2 think of it, wht if a man tarries long in his quest 4 al dz stuffs, mayb clocking 45yrs in age (of cuz al fingers ain't equal)..so u think dats d best time to start a relationship or wateva u cal it?. ..,
gbam you no need to be billionaire , with God all things are possible
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Laveda(f): 12:16am On Dec 24, 2016
Coming from a guy..

Oh well
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by OwoLee(m): 12:16am On Dec 24, 2016
[quote author=sweetjude post=52207524] i be guy ooo[/quote

But all this you saying is not a true representation of love you know. love is Nigeria is like someone searching for greener pasture.
I mean in the developed world, its not like this, because both are literally OK and don't need one to be rich before they fall in love, in fact what connect them is the affection.
What you painting here is because the guy is not OK financially, and girl loves him deep down, she should accept the other rich guy who can fend for her right
Is that true love? Will it last? If money seizes, what becomes of their faith? Are both telling each other the truth knowing fully well what brought them together?
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:18am On Dec 24, 2016
Laveda:
Coming from a guy..

Oh well
if i slap you cheesy
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Frankdammy(m): 12:18am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
gbam you no need to be billionaire , with God all things are possible
na now u confess... Yes, wit God al things ar possible, evn wen job neva com... Pls make a move. God sees d ladies heart nt u.
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Laveda(f): 12:20am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
if i slap you cheesy

You no fit nau. •Rolls eyes•
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:21am On Dec 24, 2016
[quote author=OwoLee post=52207642][/quote] na wetin dey happen be that , all the heartbreak no be because of lack of care , take care of u woman and she go love you more , if you no get live woman because dem go leave u for who get
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:22am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
gbam i dont support that ooo take care of ur woman provide for her and she no go betray u , all the girls wen i provide for loved me they no hurt me na me cheat spoil am , but the ones wen i no spend on leave me , love no be everything


Yes o

One of my worker a cute tall dashing guy loves seducing wealthy single ladies for money. So there is this client I had recently, she is a single mum with two teenage kids and she is doing well for herself. My employee saw her, he became fixated on her. I didn't know he had started making calls and speaking to her on phone. Until one day she came to meet me and she said she needs some answers from me.. I said OK go ahead. She said that cute guy working with u? Is he really nice but is he financially OK? I simply told her, all u will gain from this guy is sexx and flattery.. Hes dead broke. Only God knows how he spends his money. But if u love him? U can go ahead but please I don't want issues here. U can even Marry him. If u want to.
She said God forbid cheesy cheesy grin Date ? Marry ke!
I even thought he has money with the way he was talking to me phone. So he's even broke! Abeg he should go with his sexxx. I don't need it. Sexxx is not my problem. I can't date a guy who will leech on my property and things I Av. Abeg he should carry go.. My dear thanks o. Thank God I came 2 u.
I was just laughing..


This employee whether dem do am for his village o.. I don't even know.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Kdiva(f): 12:23am On Dec 24, 2016
True talk
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:29am On Dec 24, 2016
Amelian:



Yes o

One of my worker a cute tall dashing guy loves seducing wealthy single ladies for money. So there is this client I had recently, she is a single mum with two teenage kids and she is doing well for herself. My employee saw her, he became fixated on her. I didn't know he had started making calls and speaking to her on phone. Until one day she came to meet me and she said she needs some answers from me.. I said OK go ahead. She said that cute guy working with u? Is he really nice but is he financially OK? I simply told her, all u will gain from this guy is sexx and flattery.. Hes dead broke. Only God knows how he spends his money. But if u love him? U can go ahead but please I don't want issues here. U can even Marry him. If u want to.
She said God forbid cheesy cheesy grin Date ? Marry ke!
I even thought he has money with the way he was talking to me phone. So he's even broke! Abeg he should go with his sexxx. I don't need it. Sexxx is not my problem. I can't date a guy who will leech on my property and things I Av. Abeg he should carry go.. My dear thanks o. Thank God I came 2 u.
I was just laughing..


This employee whether dem do am for his village o.. I don't even know .
them full ph , men no wan work but want sex , wen girl open eye leave them dem go call her bad person


I no dey play with my woman ooo she no dey carry my mata pls too na so love be , anyday i get her back like powerbank

Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:30am On Dec 24, 2016
Frankdammy:
na now u confess... Yes, wit God al things ar possible, evn wen job neva com... Pls make a move. God sees d ladies heart nt u.
wen she need ur assistance na story u go tell am cheesy

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:34am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
them full ph , men no wan work but want sex , wen girl open eye leave them dem go call her bad person


I no dey play with my woman ooo she no dey carry my mata pls too na so love be , anyday i get her back like powerbank



That's it o.
If u have her back when she's down.. She will stick with you and have your back too.

Make I go sleep jare

Have lovely night everyone and merry Xmas kiss

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 12:53am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
i dey lagos oooo , na here i go do new year , ph too hot , make i do some lagos girls cheesy , my brother i just dey think am if i no provide for my girl person go provide collect am , there is more to relationship than love
see bros, a girl wey get the mindset to cheat even though na billions u dey give her everyday she go still dey sleep around.olosho na olosho u can't change anything on that.You don't have to have millions before u date but i agree its advisable u have sumtin doing if u want to get into a serious relationship.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by mykeljosef: 1:04am On Dec 24, 2016
n we wonder why men treat women like hoes

what sorta crap is this


its girls like this that claim feminist

so a guy should be lonely n single coz he's poor??


you value your self so little that you go after only the rich


why not actually be an independent woman n give the man a standard to try live up to


nonsense

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 1:27am On Dec 24, 2016
truthsayer007:


How many girls? 90% of Girls.

If you don't think like what i posted, you are obviously in the minority & i'm happy for u. You are in the remaining 10%. Simple & short !

Even the spirit koko girls in church, this is how they think.


abeg forget d born again sisters.those ones are even more freaky.Many of them sleep around with their pastors and choir masters on a daily basis.There was one in former lodge back then..if this babe dey pray ehn d whole area go shake.na so she sabi speak in tongues like no man business so u can imagine my surprise when i hear say my former landlord who is in his early 70s and married na im dey kpansh d babe steady..if u must get a good babe then search for a level headed one but avoid dose ones wey dey carry born again stuff for head cos they more weird than female pornstarscheesy.

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