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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 1:30am On Dec 24, 2016
mykeljosef:
n we wonder why men treat women like hoes

what sorta crap is this


its girls like this that claim feminist

so a guy should be lonely n single coz he's poor??


you value your self so little that you go after only the rich


why not actually be an independent woman n give the man a standard to try live up to


nonsense
na guy write am biko
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by VickyRotex(f): 1:31am On Dec 24, 2016
Zeus100:
VickyRotex have you seen it??

Seen what?
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by mykeljosef: 1:48am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
na guy write am biko
guy from bobrisky n denrelr species

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by mykeljosef: 1:48am On Dec 24, 2016
sweetjude:
na guy write am biko
guy from bobrisky n denrele species

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Mypeople2(m): 1:49am On Dec 24, 2016
[quote author=sweetjude post=52203131][/quote]Not all guys are looking for sex .Who sex help? By the way, those girls looking for rich guys everywhere will be used as footballs on the field
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by mrjojo: 1:49am On Dec 24, 2016
am not surprise this is been posted in this section, This Section is a pure joke, And Poster, you registered this month and you are already littering everywhere with dead brain threads,smh.. So you mean, A guy should pay a lady for sex cos they are dating yea?you should look up the definition of prostitution. Dumb asses everywhere.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 2:27am On Dec 24, 2016
Amelian:




No mind them op. Possibly one day, she is so broke no money to buy food 2 eat and possibly her parents travelled. She calls her bf, he will say wow that serious? But don't worry babe things will get better. Pls bear with me, I love you OK? grin
Lol she will go hungry for like 3days and really u expect her to still love And respect u?
It's easy for guys to say am I her ATM?
But when they themselves ,the guys are hungry. They forget when they crash in her house and stylishly ask for food. While she quickly prepares a nice. Meal for him.
She won't tell him eeyah pls don't worry dear, all will be well and kiss him, I love you.
Neither will she call. Him. Olosho. But some guys are quick to call. Their Gfs olosho when it comes to fulfilling responsibility from their end.

Who is fooling who? Well babes that wishes to date broke guys. I wish u babes luck. With time when the chips are down una eyes go clear. I have been there before, it was just a pure waste to my time, money and resources but have learnt.

I agree with your point

At the very minimum, a guy has to be able to provide for himself before thinking of going into a serious relationship with a lady and vice versa.
But a guy and girl can pool their money together for dates or renting a place.
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by FvckShiT(m): 2:56am On Dec 24, 2016
undecided tongue
Laveda:


You no fit nau. •Rolls eyes•
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 3:49am On Dec 24, 2016
CFCman:


I agree with your point

At the very minimum, a guy has to be able to provide for himself before thinking of going into a serious relationship with a lady and vice versa.
But a guy and girl can pool their money together for dates or renting a place.



Of course.. Why not?
They can.
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by philybuck(m): 5:42am On Dec 24, 2016
the truth is one needs financial stability before thinking of any relationship. I learnt that as a teenager and there has been no going back. It's a lot more easier to date with some stability in your life.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 7:12am On Dec 24, 2016
OwoLee:


You keep getting it wrong, I really don't know if am chatting with matured mind here, nothing stops the lady from making a living on her own. Fine, once in a while assistance are to be rendered, must it be financial? And if its financial, you both could sort it out. Its requires Understanding one another...
Money is important, but not binding on the man to be the one to always make and give the money. You are in a relationship not only for financial gains, u not running a business!!!
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by LorDBolton(m): 7:40am On Dec 24, 2016
Its this dumb orientation that has quadrupled the number of prostitutes abi na runz girl dem prefer in this country.

It's even this orientation that has quadrupled the number of criminals in this nation.


Idiots
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 8:40am On Dec 24, 2016
mrjojo:
am not surprise this is been posted in this section, This Section is a pure joke, And Poster, you registered this month and you are already littering everywhere with dead brain threads,smh.. So you mean, A guy should pay a lady for sex cos they are dating yea?you should look up the definition of prostitution. Dumb asses everywhere.
i no need to tell you say no be my main be this
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 8:40am On Dec 24, 2016
CFCman:


I agree with your point

At the very minimum, a guy has to be able to provide for himself before thinking of going into a serious relationship with a lady and vice versa.
But a guy and girl can pool their money together for dates or renting a place.
bro expecting a lady to have na why girls dey talk feminism
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 8:48am On Dec 24, 2016
philybuck:
the truth is one needs financial stability before thinking of any relationship. I learnt that as a teenager and there has been no going back. It's a lot more easier to date with some stability in your life.

Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 8:50am On Dec 24, 2016
[quote author=Alondra post=52204577]A poor guy is not him with no material things but he who has no vision... smiley




Date who your heart follows smiley[/quote

Well said and well done .

My people man or woman ,let me tell you something you already know . A wealthy person can become poor and a poor person can become rich . I cannot tell you marry poor or rich . Only thing I can say is whatever decision you make ...time will tell . Pray to God and hustle hard .

lot of people married wealthy partners ,and cannot enjoy the money . Same for poor .

@ OP , don't know your rationale but my brother ...person wet you dey look down on ,could be the one to invest in your business tomorrow . Only God knows ,Only God shows .

Nine times out of 10 ,when we are faced with a choice between love and money ...most will chose fear .

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 24, 2016
lefulefu:
abeg forget d born again sisters.those ones are even more freaky.Many of them sleep around with their pastors and choir masters on a daily basis.There was one in former lodge back then..if this babe dey pray ehn d whole area go shake.na so she sabi speak in tongues like no man business so u can imagine my surprise when i hear say my former landlord who is in his early 70s and married na im dey kpansh d babe steady..if u must get a good babe then search for a level headed one but avoid dose ones wey dey carry born again stuff for head cos they more weird than female pornstarscheesy.

Hehehe, this your story funny o cheesy grin
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 10:01am On Dec 24, 2016
Amelian:

Well babes that wishes to date broke guys. I wish u babes luck. With time when the chips are down una eyes go clear. I have been there before, it was just a pure waste to my time, money and resources but have learnt.

Oshey ! I like the fact that u're honest. Oya na, give us some little gist, what was your experience like ? cheesy

So that u can enlighten small small boiz like us.
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 24, 2016
truthsayer007:


Oshey ! I like the fact that u're honest. Oya na, give us some little gist, what was your experience like ? cheesy

So that u can enlighten small small boiz like us.



I know u wan hear gist cheesy

Well I changed his wardrobe, u know am into unisex fashion. Shirts, jeans, natives.. And I love my man looking good, so we can blend. I bought him 3 designers snapback caps, Kensington backpack, sneakers, I love cooking.. So most times he tends to crash at my place for meals. When he's broke I help out with some money. I was doing all these cos I felt he doesn't have a job and no condition is permanent with time, he will be settled with a good job. But unknown to me, I was been played. I think the last straw was when he wanted my car to run around for jobs. That's when I had to place my foot down and he enraged and he said let's see which man will marry me, if I don't allow him use my car shocked
I was so mad. As in mad at him.. I just told him. To leave and it's over. He left but towards midnight he was pleading he went too far and wants 2 come back. I said no way, guy. Uv said what's in your mind and that's the end. I don't forget easily. I never knew u were such a chameleon. Then I blocked him from my chats.

The second guy I was a bit cautious not to go overboard, so I gave gifts only on his birthday and again this one was so itchy to drive my car. I was like guy, this car is for my work. Am sorry I don't allow my bf drive it. I can't start climbing bus to work when am mobile, it doesn't make sense. Pray that God blesses me enough so I would buy u a car. He said how long will he wait? Can u imagine That am lying jor and he wants this one.. That shebi I love him? I smiled and I said I will think about it.
That was the end. I told him I can't cope and I blocked him. Thank God my compound is secured, no dick and Harry can just stroll in except u have an appointment with whom u are going 2 see. Orelse OYO

Abeg truthsayer
Today na Xmas eve smiley
No need spoiling it, by remembering ungrateful exs.
Am not saying further.. It's annoying g

Simply be yourself , no need playing smart.. And don't become Oliver twist.
That's all I can say. smiley

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Precioussilas10: 2:55pm On Dec 24, 2016
See stupid insecure reasoning...u feel u can't win a girl's love naturally without money..with this ideology,pray hard times don't come near you because she will definitely sleep outside and when u find out,it may lead to something not palatable..if she ain't loyal when u are struggling,then she ain't worth it at all.for it is way better to stay single n not married than to stay in a relationship that partner stays cuz of money.Since she came for the money,she does need the constant supply to stay put

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by donMIG(m): 4:51pm On Dec 24, 2016
because a nigga b broke npw does it mean he'd b broke foreva?
Nigga plsssss
Or b!tch plsssss
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 24, 2016
Amelian:



I know u wan hear gist cheesy

Well I changed his wardrobe, u know am into unisex fashion. Shirts, jeans, natives.. And I love my man looking good, so we can blend. I bought him 3 designers snapback caps, Kensington backpack, sneakers, I love cooking.. So most times he tends to crash at my place for meals. When he's broke I help out with some money. I was doing all these cos I felt he doesn't have a job and no condition is permanent with time, he will be settled with a good job. But unknown to me, I was been played. I think the last straw was when he wanted my car to run around for jobs. That's when I had to place my foot down and he enraged and he said let's see which man will marry me, if I don't allow him use my car shocked
I was so mad. As in mad at him.. I just told him. To leave and it's over. He left but towards midnight he was pleading he went too far and wants 2 come back. I said no way, guy. Uv said what's in your mind and that's the end. I don't forget easily. I never knew u were such a chameleon. Then I blocked him from my chats.

The second guy I was a bit cautious not to go overboard, so I gave gifts only on his birthday and again this one was so itchy to drive my car. I was like guy, this car is for my work. Am sorry I don't allow my bf drive it. I can't start climbing bus to work when am mobile, it doesn't make sense. Pray that God blesses me enough so I would buy u a car. He said how long will he wait? Can u imagine That am lying jor and he wants this one.. That shebi I love him? I smiled and I said I will think about it.
That was the end. I told him I can't cope and I blocked him. Thank God my compound is secured, no dick and Harry can just stroll in except u have an appointment with whom u are going 2 see. Orelse OYO

Abeg truthsayer
Today na Xmas eve smiley
No need spoiling it, by remembering ungrateful exs.
Am not saying further.. It's annoying g

Simply be yourself , no need playing smart.. And don't become Oliver twist.
That's all I can say. smiley

I see, You are a free giver smiley

Buh you sef, why u dating someone without a Job, You try oh ! Abi was his D**k so good ?

Cuz I can't even date a girl without a Job, She'll be a liability nau.

Lastly, abeg send me some of those snapback caps, Kensington backpack and sneakers. As you said, Xmas dom reach grin grin
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 7:26pm On Dec 24, 2016
truthsayer007:


I see, You are a free giver smiley

Buh you sef, why u dating someone without a Job, You try oh ! Abi was his D**k so good ?

Cuz I can't even date a girl without a Job, She'll be a liability nau.

Lastly, abeg send me some of those snapback caps, Kensington backpack and sneakers. As you said, Xmas dom reach grin grin



Lol u no serious, come collect nah tongue I be mother Christmas.
Wat did I know then
sexx is no big deal jare.
A time comes in one's life, sexx is not so important anymore.. But achievement , companionship, Godliness and comfort becomes highly sort after.

I thought I should Av faith that he will Av a job soon. But I was only deceiving myself.
Jobless guys are leeches sorry 2 say.
After those episodes, me and jobless guys no get story anymore !
I rather be a single mum than marry a jobless guy.. It's that's real!

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by popefuse(m): 9:05pm On Dec 24, 2016
Agree with u buh lemme ad dis bin broke is not a barrier there are lot of rich guyz with dirty money out there which ladies have to be carefull with. it wat av seen. What d essence of dating a rich guy and end up in sepearatin av seen big boyz treating girlz like animals all in d name of money and not every lady will date rich guyz da one is 4 sure buh lemme tell u will still av some middle class guyz hustling nd getting there cash. u dont need millions of naira in the d account or range rover b4 u get a babe.most i be rich b4 i get a babe definely NO.i av a babe 4 sure and we ar happy . If am a girl i will tather remain single dan dating a rich guy who wont take me to d alsle
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Frankdammy(m): 9:15pm On Dec 24, 2016
Yawns... Una stil dey ontop dz matter ni.?
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 11:06pm On Dec 24, 2016
truthsayer007:


Hehehe, this your story funny o cheesy grin
grin grin crazy tins dey happen grin
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Frankdammy(m): 12:04am On Dec 25, 2016
lefulefu:
grin grin crazy tins dey happen grin
yeah extremely crazy, i must confess.

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Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by DamiAbandry: 4:26pm On Feb 28, 2017
don't ever (un)date a writer, I see people write about how you should avoid dating a writer, learn more: http://happenings.com.ng/never-undate-writer/
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Princedapace(m): 5:41pm On Feb 28, 2017
U just insulted the dignity in naija women..

Why?

In as much as men should be ready to take care of themselves and the bae, pls, a lady is good to make her own money and assist her bf if she has..

It is not a crime.. A rich babe can date a broke boy.. But wait, why do we av this mentality that ladies are broke?

We too dey insult naija babes o... This one is a total insult..
Re: Girls DONT Date Or Befriend A Poor Guy (dont Waste Your Youth) by Nobody: 5:58pm On Feb 28, 2017
Op your story too Long
With this recession. They no dey tell deaf and dumb say war dey come.
Everybody is feeling the heat of the situation.
How to balance up financially and be strong buisnesswise and career is the main deal now. Not dating a broke or rich guy !

Do people still date sef? grin

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