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Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 26, 2016*

Here, I'll be regularly dropping random tips on how to keep a conversation flowing and steady.

Initially, it was targeted at Ladies, but guys can pick a thing or two

Re: Chatting Drills!! by makydebbie(f): 12:44pm On Dec 26, 2016

I hate "k" or "kk" undecided

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 26, 2016

Takes my seat

Re: Chatting Drills!! by cuntguy: 12:47pm On Dec 26, 2016

Bring it on

Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 12:50pm On Dec 26, 2016

Men are mostly boring to chat with... All they know is to throw some emojis.

So, if ur boring to chat with... Expect that I will block u soon. cool

no time for boring boiz coz that can drained my energy and a huge waste of my time.

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 12:55pm On Dec 26, 2016

makydebbie:
I hate "k" or "kk"

Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 12:56pm On Dec 26, 2016

BrooklynTheBully:

K!

k k k k k Katrina

Re: Chatting Drills!! by iWise(m): 12:56pm On Dec 26, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Men are mostly boring to chat with... All they know is to throw some emojis.

So, if ur boring to chat with... Expect that I will block u soon. no time for boring boiz coz that can drained my energy and a huge waste of my time.

You gotta be kidding.

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by xendra: 12:57pm On Dec 26, 2016

Ladies!!
Dont mind them o, be you. If you dont feel like talking dont. no need to try imppressing nobody.
some guys cant even make a decent convo yet they expect the girl to keep it

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Sandydayziz(f): 12:57pm On Dec 26, 2016

Call or chatting?
Which exactly?

Re: Chatting Drills!! by wenebunwo(m): 12:57pm On Dec 26, 2016

Grab front seat

Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 12:58pm On Dec 26, 2016

KissChrix My Nigga, you need to stop chatting with and let go off those "Fuckgirls" before 2017

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 26, 2016

BrooklynTheBully:

KissChrix My Nigga, you need to stop chatting with and let go off those "Fuckgirls" before 2017

and give only one girl value the rest na take away

Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 26, 2016*

Starting a convo

#1.
Be more informal and casual when starting a conversation.

Avoid using certain words.

Don't use "Hi", "Xup". Use "Hey"....... When using "Hi", you unintentionally shift the job of keeping the convo flowing to the guy.

Ask him, "how's it going?", or "what's up?". If he asks you the same thing, don't say "same" because that will give him an impression that you are dull.

Example 1. (Using Hi)

»Lady : Hi
»Guy : Hey.... How are you doing?
»Lady : I'm doing good, you? bla bla bla

The task of keeping the convo flowing has been indirectly shifted unto the guy

Example 2. (Using Hey & What's up)

»Lady : Hey..... What's up?
»Guy : I'm doing good dear, you?
»Lady : I'm just hanging here... How's your day going?

Take the initiative... LEAD!

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:00pm On Dec 26, 2016

xendra:
Ladies!!
Dont mind them o, be you. If you dont feel like talking dont. no need to try imppressing nobody.
[s] some guys cant even make a decent convo yet they expect the girl to keep it[/s]

Mtcheeeew!!!! Same way most of y'all ladies can't make a decent conversation with a guy without taxing him with data bundle subscription

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 26, 2016

xendra:
Ladies!!
Dont mind them o, be you. If you dont feel like talking dont. no need to try imppressing nobody.
Some guys can't even make a decent convo yet expect the girl to keep it.

Lol.
On point.

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Sandydayziz(f): 1:01pm On Dec 26, 2016

xendra:
Ladies!!
Dont mind them o, be you. If you dont feel like talking dont. no need to try imppressing nobody.
some guys cant even make a decent convo yet they expect the girl to keep it

Tanx... I thought I was d only one on dis...
Wen u pick up a call just to ans the ques of ur life
How's ur day? How's ur night? Av u eaten? Watcha eat? Where's mine? Where're u? Watcha doing? Did u dream of me? Y not?

How exactly is one suppose to keep up with such a convo? undecided

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by darkmarky(m): 1:02pm On Dec 26, 2016

Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:03pm On Dec 26, 2016

sweetjude:
and give only one girl value the rest na take away

Exactly!!!

sweetjude:
k k k k k Katrina

Lol, KK for Kanayo Kanayo

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by ayusco85(m): 1:03pm On Dec 26, 2016

makydebbie:
I hate "k" or "kk"

arent u in the kkk club?

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 26, 2016

BrooklynTheBully:

KissChrix My Nigga, you need to stop chatting with and let go off those "Fuckgirls" before 2017

Honestly, I don't hit up a lady first.

I prefer starting a convo with a guy

Re: Chatting Drills!! by dingbang(m): 1:04pm On Dec 26, 2016

Kisschrix abeg no mind these dunderheads, carry on . I dey behind u

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:06pm On Dec 26, 2016

Sandydayziz:
Tanx... I thought I was d only one on dis...
Wen u pick up a call just to ans the ques of ur life
How's ur day? How's ur night? Av u eaten? Watcha eat? Where's mine? Where're u? Watcha doing? Did u dream of me? Y not?

How exactly is one suppose to keep up with such a convo?

Lol, some girls sha... If person no care about you, na so una go dey vex upandan... But seriously, were you expecting us to be asking "Hey SandyBlaBla, what are you wearing right now?? What's the color of your underwear??, etc "

Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:06pm On Dec 26, 2016

dafuq is the op trying to say sad

Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:06pm On Dec 26, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Men are mostly boring to chat with... All they know is to throw some emojis.

So, if ur boring to chat with... Expect that I will block u soon. no time for boring boiz coz that can drained my energy and a huge waste of my time.

na wao

...but wat of if the boring guy happens to be Dangote's or Tinubu's son.u go block am? cheesy

Re: Chatting Drills!! by Sandydayziz(f): 1:07pm On Dec 26, 2016

BrooklynTheBully:

Lol, some girls sha... If person no care about you, na so una go dey vex upandan... But seriously, were you expecting us to be asking "Hey SandyBlaBla, what are you wearing right now?? What's the color of your underwear??, etc "

As if av never been asked dat undecided

Re: Chatting Drills!! by ayusco85(m): 1:08pm On Dec 26, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Men are mostly boring to chat with... All they know is to throw some emojis.

So, if ur boring to chat with... Expect that I will block u soon. no time for boring boiz coz that can drained my energy and a huge waste of my time.

am nothing close to boring. i will say most girls i ve chatted with have been overly boring.

Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:09pm On Dec 26, 2016

KissChrix:
Honestly, I don't hit up a lady first.

I prefer starting a convo with a guy

Lol, Nigga some girls no worth the stress... 2017 remain few days, Bruh... Let's talk about money cos if it ain't making money, it ain't making sense

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