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Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:24pm On Dec 26, 2016
ayusco85:

guy ur head dey thr i swear
cheesy grin



Lol, Baba na so dem dey always do now cheesy
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 26, 2016
MAINTAINING A CONVO

#2. Avoid asking him short-answer questions. Questions like "Did you see that movie?" is one of them. The answer would be either Yes or No. That's too short. Elaborate and say "That movie looks pretty good. I wanna go see it sometime." It can give both of you a new topic. Do not forget to reply to everything he said.

Do not ask dead-end questions..... Questions that can terminate a chat

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 26, 2016
darkmarky:


grin wack pick up lines like?
The fact remains some guys hold nothing in their heads other than questions and answers like some interrogative sessions.

But then as usual women are to be blamed for your incompetence because instead of us complaining we either cope or ignore your asses.

I'm done with this issue discussed by some myopic minded fellow smiley
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Sandydayziz(f): 1:26pm On Dec 26, 2016
BabaRamota1980:


You are lucky sef you have plenty admirers

Hheheeeheheh... Still doesn't change the fact dat sum guys are boring as well sad
Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:27pm On Dec 26, 2016
Sandydayziz:


I'll still leave dis as the past... It's ur first time sad
cheesy grin



Good for you, Sandy cool

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by darkmarky(m): 1:27pm On Dec 26, 2016
Monalisa185:
I don't know why these guys always think it's only the ladies who do not know how to keep good convos...

That the ladies do not open threads and post screenshots of some boring chats with guys does not mean there are no guys out there who do not know how to keep good conversations undecided undecided
no guy is thinking it's only the ladies, is just that the ladies do worse.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by CentaurXXV: 1:27pm On Dec 26, 2016
makydebbie:
I hate "k" or "kk" undecided


Lol. grin
Like you don't do that to me when we chat. tongue
Re: Chatting Drills!! by bitchcrafts: 1:27pm On Dec 26, 2016
banjicom:
iit is ok now how many topic do u guys wants to create about this same topic.

just learn to focus on other important things and u guys will be fine.
start making enough money and you will start getting their attentions simple!!
Mtsew. You no see this one talk abeg. Money making and keeping wholesome interpersonal relationships are two different skills abeg. Make all the money you want, if u dont know how to keep yo lady on her toes and connect with her in that special kind of way meant for two hearts that beats together in a pattern similitude and sinusoidal, all na still 100 to 0 mah niggah real quick!

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by BrooklynTheBully: 1:28pm On Dec 26, 2016
sweetjude:
k for kaduna
cheesy grin



K for Kamoru cheesy
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 26, 2016
TrapQueen77:
shocked shocked shocked


Men are mostly boring to chat with... All they know is to throw some emojis.



So, if ur boring to chat with... Expect that I will block u soon. cool no time for boring boiz coz that can drained my energy and a huge waste of my time.

Replying with emojis only is bad


But, mixing emojis with words is really cool.... Personally, I'll be interested in reading such message
Re: Chatting Drills!! by darkmarky(m): 1:29pm On Dec 26, 2016
Alondra:
The fact remains some guys holds nothing in their heads other than questions and answers like some interrogative sessions.

But then as usual women are to be blamed for your incompetence because instead of us complaining we either cope or ignore your asses.

I'm done with this issue discussed by some myopic minded fellow smiley
that is disrespectful.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by CentaurXXV: 1:29pm On Dec 26, 2016
sweetjude:
if person give me k na my answer be that


K for kate


Lol, So you just learnt of that counter?
Re: Chatting Drills!! by BabaRamota1980: 1:29pm On Dec 26, 2016
Monalisa185:
I don't know why these guys always think it's only the ladies who do not know how to keep good convos...

That the ladies do not open threads and post screenshots of some boring chats with guys does not mean there are no guys out there who do not know how to keep good conversations undecided undecided

well its all about confidence, the guy's readiness to break rules and social expectations.

For instance if I run into a lady in store and say "oh, i like the floral patterns on your blouse, very fitting". This is a nice and fair opening to start convo. More likely, she will look at me and hiss or give me the eyez.

She appreciates my flatter but she is not expected by social norms to encourage my flirting. What she expects is the chase. We live in the age where guys are seeking quick progress and no bs hunting game. This lack of balance between social expectations and responsive communication is what frustrates onbboth sides.

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:30pm On Dec 26, 2016
darkmarky:

that is disrespectful.
Respect has never been in Romance sectionsmiley

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:30pm On Dec 26, 2016
Shoulda booked space cry
Re: Chatting Drills!! by darkmarky(m): 1:32pm On Dec 26, 2016
Alondra:
Respect has never been in Romance sectionsmiley
no I disagree, maybe you don't respect the guys on this thread but I've seen your recent posts with guys and about guys,you do respect.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by CentaurXXV: 1:32pm On Dec 26, 2016
KissChrix:


Replying with emojis only is bad


But, mixing emojis with words is really cool.... Personally, I'll be interested in reading such message

Maybe for those who don't know how to reply with "Emojis".
Unlike me, I am a master in making cool sense with emojis. tongue
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Monalisa185(f): 1:33pm On Dec 26, 2016
darkmarky:

no guy is thinking it's only the ladies, is just that the ladies do worse.

you think ladies do worse in that aspect because in a day, you run into a thousand and one thread about how ladies fail to keep good conversations...

A quick question: How many of such threads have you seen from the ladies?

I for one have male friends who are extremely boring at keeping conversations but it'll be useless running to this place to complain when you can't tell whoever it is to step up...

Abeg, make person rest for una biko...kilode sf??
Re: Chatting Drills!! by bitchcrafts: 1:33pm On Dec 26, 2016
firstking01:
No be my fault na, i 've got the magic fingers, lolgrin...
Ahem! Continue
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 26, 2016
lefulefu:
na waocheesy...but wat of if the boring guy happens to be Dangote's or Tinubu's son.u go block am?cheesy




grin a lot of rich ppol are sooo stingy sha.. And I don't care even he's the son of Donald Trump tongue

I don't give shii to boring men.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by BabaRamota1980: 1:34pm On Dec 26, 2016
Sandydayziz:


Hheheeeheheh... Still doesn't change the fact dat sum guys are boring as well sad

grin. You know what, you gave me an idea.
I think I will come in one day a week and give free astrological reading to those interested in pairing and compatibility.

There is a heat index in pairing and when its hot, the fireburns and things are ok. When its warm or cold it dulls and is boring. People need to know and understand their birth chart. It is a great tool to have when thinking of relationship and pairing.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by darkmarky(m): 1:34pm On Dec 26, 2016
[quote author=KissChrix post=52271019][font=serif][b][color=#550000]Shoulda booked space cry open another thread and do it right.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by firstking01(m): 1:35pm On Dec 26, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Ahem! Continue
See this one, i thought you wanna tap from the anointingundecided
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 26, 2016
KissChrix:


Replying with emojis only is bad


But, mixing emojis with words is really cool.... Personally, I'll be interested in reading such message

Hahhaha... Not only that.. Some men are too aggressive as well. angry this the shii I don't like too..
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 26, 2016
darkmarky:

no I disagree, maybe you don't respect the guys on this thread but I've seen your recent posts with guys and about guys,you do respect.
My bad.... Maybe I got tired of reading the same allegations, critics, hypocritism since yesterday. There was a thread about this same issue yesterday and ladies were at the receiving endsmiley
Re: Chatting Drills!! by darkmarky(m): 1:36pm On Dec 26, 2016
Monalisa185:


you think ladies do worse in that aspect because in a day, you run into a thousand and one thread about how ladies fail to keep good conversations...

A quick question: How many of such threads have you seen from the ladies?

I for one have male friends who are extremely boring at keeping conversations but it'll be useless running to this place to complain when you can't tell whoever it is to step up...

Abeg, make person rest for una biko...kilode sf??
we'd approach you, care for you, love you,marry you, Carter for you. we have the right to complain if we aren't getting quality services.
Re: Chatting Drills!! by bitchcrafts: 1:37pm On Dec 26, 2016
BabaRamota1980:


well its all about confidence, the guy's readiness to break rules and social expectations.

For instance if I run into a lady in store and say "oh, i like the floral patterns on your blouse, very fitting". This is a nice and fair opening to start convo. More likely, she will look at me and hiss or give me the eyez.

She appreciates my flatter but she is not expected by social norms to encourage my flirting. What she expects is the chase. We live in the age where guys are seeking quick progress and no bs hunting game. This lack of balance between social expectations and responsive communication is what frustrates onbboth sides.
Fukc that sheet bro. The world has so moved on from that standpoint. Girls as I know em these days are far from timid. Eh! No bring that one. If she aint reciprocating that nice gesture kindly, just know she aint into you. Peeeriod!
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Sandydayziz(f): 1:37pm On Dec 26, 2016
BabaRamota1980:


grin. You know what, you gave me an idea.
I think I will come in one day a week and give free astrological reading to those interested in pairing and compatibility.

There is a heat index in pairing and when its hot, the fireburns and things are ok. When its warm or cold it dulls and is boring. People need to know and understand their birth chart. It is a great tool to have when thinking of relationship and pairing.

Sounds good... I'll be waiting on dat cheesy
Re: Chatting Drills!! by BabaRamota1980: 1:37pm On Dec 26, 2016
TrapQueen77:





grin a lot of rich ppol are sooo stingy sha.. And I don't care even he's the son of Donald Trump tongue

I don't give shii to boring men.

Donald trump son sure ainglt gonna be boring because the Limo is constantly on the roll with you in it. Right? gringrin
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 26, 2016
SEEK COMMON INTERESTS

#3. Ask questions
To keep the conversation going, figure out what you want to know about him, and ask. If it makes you more comfortable, brainstorm beforehand and keep a list of conversation starters or a list of questions next to the computer to pull from if you run out of ideas. Try asking about his favorite book, music or food. Ask his opinion on current events, if he prefers quiet events to big parties, and if you're ambitious, whether he likes quantum physics, yoga or reality television. This will keep things moving along for even the least adept conversation starter.

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Re: Chatting Drills!! by CentaurXXV: 1:37pm On Dec 26, 2016
firstking01:
See this one, i thought you wanna tap from the anointingundecided

Which Anointing? grin
Re: Chatting Drills!! by Sandydayziz(f): 1:39pm On Dec 26, 2016
KissChrix:
Shoulda booked space cry

Hehehe... grin

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