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Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Warrior07(op): 12:24am On Dec 27, 2016*

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by 2SWT(f): 12:30am On Dec 27, 2016

Your case isn't an easy one.
I truly feel for you.

Don't give up too soon I've seen sicklers live a good and normal life.

First of all you have to decide if you want to continue to live or you want to give up.

I understand how bae feels about this, it's quite crazy though, after spending time with someone you realize he's not going to stay a long time with you.

Just give her sometime to think and decide on what she wants.

Don't give up

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by ojun50(m): 12:55am On Dec 27, 2016

Men ur case is strong bt why giving up @dis stage, why killing yr self little by little, why hurting d one who love u nd ready to wait for u. U can make it nd u will make it, i knw some1 who ss who is about 87 years of age. Go back nd met her settle with her nd u will see d wonder of God

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Divay22(f): 12:58am On Dec 27, 2016

Hmmmm...if she wants to,then keep up with her..but if you die Like you've predicted,(as if you are the one who created yourself and also know the day you will die) then she'll continue with life...

OP why don't you speak life into yourself,you said you are a fighter,don't you believe you can still have victory over death.......i don't know how it is,i might not understand all you have gone through and still going through right now....life is a spirit so is death, they hear us, they know when we crave for them and they come just as we have requested,why not choose life,why not boldly tell yourself you'll live and not die, you've survived up till this time,why give up now WHY ?....
Remember life and death are in the power of the tongue................

Peace.

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by ikp120(m): 12:58am On Dec 27, 2016

Do you really wanna die by then? If not, shut up or watch your system shut down.

Google Stephen Hawking. See if your case is worse than his. Diagonised with a deadly and incurable disease since age 22, yet he is over 71 now and is acclaimed to be the most intelligent man alive and worth over $20 million. Currently, the disease has so paralyzed him that he cannot talk again. He uses specially developed technology to communicate. That's a real fighter.

You're just 26 and you're already dead inside your head. And you think you're a fighter? huh

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Lovelynature(m): 1:38am On Dec 27, 2016*

Op you don't have to loose hope. You have been winning for 26 years now. So why giving up? You are not the Creator of your life. God does wonders.
You shouldn't have mentioned death while proposing to her. It scared her away.

However, I have heard testimonies of SS turned AA. I you are a Christian (even if you are not, just believe), locate Dunamis International Gospel Centre nearest to you ( The Headquarters is in Abuja). Attend their services especially the Tuesday Deliverance Service. Or you can watch it Live via TV channels or Online. Just be connected by faith and don't allow anything give you a single reason for doubt. God does wonders. He has been doing it and He will keep doing it. Op don't loose hope. With God all things are possible.

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Mr2kay2: 2:19am On Dec 27, 2016

Op why are you taking like this na cry

This kind talk scares me

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Nobody: 2:25am On Dec 27, 2016

[color=deepskyblue]u will live and not die!!!

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by princessayesha(f): 2:29am On Dec 27, 2016

U will live long Op....Inshaallah. As for your gf she is just scared...

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by marshalcarter: 2:50am On Dec 27, 2016

ikp120:
Do you really wanna die by then? If not, shut up or watch your system shut down.

Google Stephen Hawking. See if your case is worse than his. Diagonised with a deadly and incurable disease since age 22, yet he is over 71 now and is acclaimed to be the most intelligent man alive and worth over $20 million. Currently, the disease has so paralyzed him that he cannot talk again. He uses specially developed technology to communicate. That's a real fighter.

You're just 26 and you're already dead inside your head. And you think you're a fighter?

later..you cum my aus for new year...Maybe you can stay till 3rd b4 goin.......chikena

Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by ikp120(m): 2:52am On Dec 27, 2016

marshalcarter:
later..you cum my aus for new year...Maybe you can stay till 3rd b4 goin.......chikena

Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by raziboi(m): 6:00am On Dec 27, 2016

Warrior07:
Being a sickle cell patient has been one of my greatest challenges in life, I have battled this ailment for 26 years now, I consider myself a Warrior. I have a girlfriend who I believe has been very good and kind to me. She always talks about getting married and all but deep inside me I know I may not live till 28. I'm a fighter, yes, but I can't cheat nature, somethings are just meant to be.
I really love her too.
Tonight, I decided to play a prank on her and told her we will be getting married by March 2017 cos I may be dead before I know it and want to spend the little time I have with her.
She blatantly told me she couldn't risk it, its better to have a dead bf than a dead husband (funny). She said she's too young to be a widow n all and She deserves to be happy, I understand her but I'm confused.
N.B: She's crazy ( unpredictable n strong minded), too independent and hates hospitals!
Should I give her reasons to continue the relationship or should I just let go? She's all I have, the reason behind my smiles. Pls advise.

who told u dat u gonna die before march huh

Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Barney11: 6:06am On Dec 27, 2016

whether you like it or not, you will live to very old age.

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Warrior07(op): 7:27am On Dec 27, 2016

Thanks man.

Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by firstking01(m): 7:36am On Dec 27, 2016

Warrior07:
Being a sickle cell patient has been one of my greatest challenges in life, I have battled this ailment for 26 years now, I consider myself a Warrior. I have a girlfriend who I believe has been very good and kind to me. She always talks about getting married and all but deep inside me I know I may not live till 28. I'm a fighter, yes, but I can't cheat nature, somethings are just meant to be.
I really love her too.
Tonight, I decided to play a prank on her and told her we will be getting married by March 2017 cos I may be dead before I know it and want to spend the little time I have with her.
She blatantly told me she couldn't risk it, its better to have a dead bf than a dead husband (funny). She said she's too young to be a widow n all and She deserves to be happy, I understand her but I'm confused.
N.B: She's crazy ( unpredictable n strong minded), too independent and hates hospitals!
Should I give her reasons to continue the relationship or should I just let go? She's all I have, the reason behind my smiles. Pls advise.

I rebuke that spirit of death in jesus mighty name undecided

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You see why some people die pre-maturely undecided

The power of life and death it's in the tonque.
What you wish yourself is what you get in life.
I 've seen people in worst cases than yours and they came out victoriously.
I 've seen people with HIV+ bouncing back with HIV- undecided

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Kai, where are you resident let me introduce my motivator to you, HIS name is jesus, the great physician and healer...me, i don't fall sick o, it's a taboo for me to even feeL headache or stomach upset...

Today is dec 27th 2016, since jan this year i 've not tasted anything drugs...even last year, can't even remember the last time drugs or medicine (whatever you people call it) came closed to my mouth undecided

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Bro, believe jesus, there's healing in His name...like magic the nonsense thing called sickler abi sickle cell anemia will just vanish, and he go dey you like say na dream...

And that's why in every hospital, doctors will always be careful to tell you, "we care but GOD heals", cos they understand that HE's the supreme being...HE was the one who manufactured you, so, he has the complete spare parts to your body system....

Bro, reverse that your statement of "i'm going to die before i'm 28" undecided

Everything in this world are spiritual and they have ears even the wind, moon, trees, sun and death...whatever you command them is what they will do...joshua commanded the sun to stand still and the sun stood still for a whole day and did not hasten to go down untill the israelites slaughter the philistines, that's in the book of joshua 10 vs 12..

In another another setting, jesus commanded the storm and wind to be calm and it obeyed HIM...you too can speak life into your situation, death too it's a spirit and can hear, speak life to that death situation and you will see the miracle of GOD in your life

Most times in life it's only your prayers that can save you cos you are the best prophet of yourself...don't always wait for your pst cos you too got what it takes, everything boils down to your faith...

You are healed in jesus name...amen cool

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Warrior07(op): 7:41am On Dec 27, 2016

2SWT:
I had once thought I can influence living/dying, I can deal with any kind of pain, I smile during crises and make plans for the future but then just within a year I experienced what I can refer to as "last days symptoms of SS ( blindness in one eye,hypocalcemia which led to paralysis, ulcer very low BP, angina (heartache) etc. I'm back to my feet now. So its not a matter of giving up, its just reading the writings on the wall.
***Thanks.

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Warrior07(op): 7:46am On Dec 27, 2016

ojun50:
***Thanks. not giving up yet, just being careful.
I understands her but I just feel she hasn't come to terms with who I really am

Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Warrior07(op): 7:51am On Dec 27, 2016

Divay22:
***Thanks. I'm just a Realist as much as I'm a Christian.
N.B: Read my quote to 2SWT

Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by torqque7(m): 9:03am On Dec 27, 2016

You don't deserve to think of yourself as a warrior or survivor cos you already have given up on yourself which is pathetic if you ask me..you better quit the putty party and get off your pathetic ass and live like a normal human..it's people like you who give the world the wrong impression about sickle cell..I know sickles who are in their 60s so what are you talking about?life is in God's hands,there are healthy people who sleep and don't wake up,others get killed in accidents so what's the fuzz about?mtcheeeeww dude grow up joor you are not the first stickler and won't be the last,love your girlfriend and try to survive because of her sef if you truly love her.Goodluck.

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by BlueScholar(m): 3:38pm On Dec 27, 2016

Stop playing prank with your weakness/illness, may to God for long live and strive to stay healthy; eat good food, exercise and keep up with medication.

If you keep robbing your sickness on her face it will lead her to having a second thought about the hold thing, no male especially female want to be a widow at an early age. Stop talking about it period. May God grant you good health.

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 27, 2016

@OP

Your victory isnt In whether you live or die but in your faith in the power of God and trust in the name of Jesus. Realism cannot do you any good apart from helping you deal with the pain you feel now.

Decide to keep trusting in Jesus to heal you or if he doesn't heal you, trust him to save you from eternal death

Whatever you do, don't stop trusting God for something

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Re: Help! My Life Is Becoming A Dream. by Warrior07(op): 5:06pm On Dec 27, 2016

Thank You all
You just make me a better person in less than 24 hours.

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