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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by apatheticme(f):
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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by squad03: 7:13pm On Dec 21, 2016
EgusiSoup:
you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.
Ahn ahn brother,7 months is long enough nau
.some can't even hold out till 7 weeks post-baby.
Op, did your man watch the baby pop out?
If he did,you may have traumatized him.
Take on role plays or whatever you have to ASAP before he forgets you're his partner o
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by squad03: 7:17pm On Dec 21, 2016
BlackDBagba:
Has he approached you for sex? And was the invite rejected or accepted? He may not want to 'bother' you again and is possibly getting it elsewhere.

Be aware that he now sees you as a 'mother' no longer his babe...sorry but you have work to do to get his sexual apetite back on you.
Goodluck
Dear God (sob).you'll probably drive this new mum crazy with this thought.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by owoblow77: 10:07am On Dec 23, 2016
@ airminem, you just had a baby, so don't try to lose any weight yet. i expect your boobs to be bigger from suckling the baby, so i advise you get bras that push up the big boobs aggressively (for now, don't take them off during sex). give him more blowjobs say like 4 times a day(in sexy attires or not), but always stop before he cums, and just walk away and go do other chores, this will start getting to him, and he'll start wanting to Bleep your brains out. Before giving him the Mouth Gig, buy him a relaxant he likes like beer or cigar, and suck him while he drinks or smokes, it'll boost his ego, and remind him of the great sex you've had together. He'll get desperate, and when he wants to Bleep, make him take you from behind while you're standing. Soon he'll be taking you from behind in the kitchen, bathroom, while you're dressing, etc (the behind position also prevents breast milk spraying on his body, if he doesn't like milk). Bottom line, he'll start to see you as a Hot, sexy mom. Also let him take you from behind in front of a mirror (trust me, you want that image etched in his brain). All in all, it takes two to tango, he should man up as well, sexual satisfaction to his wife is his job as well.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 10:30am On Dec 23, 2016
owoblow77:
@ airminem, you just had a baby, so don't try to lose any weight yet. i expect your boobs to be bigger from suckling the baby, so i advise you get bras that push up the big boobs aggressively (for now, don't take them off during sex). give him more blowjobs say like 4 times a day(in sexy attires or not), but always stop before he cums, and just walk away and go do other chores, this will start getting to him, and he'll start wanting to Bleep your brains out. Before giving him the Mouth Gig, buy him a relaxant he likes like beer or cigar, and suck him while he drinks or smokes, it'll boost his ego, and remind him of the great sex you've had together. He'll get desperate, and when he wants to Bleep, make him take you from behind while you're standing. Soon he'll be taking you from behind in the kitchen, bathroom, while you're dressing, etc (the behind position also prevents breast milk spraying on his body, if he doesn't like milk). Bottom line, he'll start to see you as a Hot, sexy mom. Also let him take you from behind in front of a mirror (trust me, you want that image etched in his brain). All in all, it takes two to tango, he should man up as well, sexual satisfaction to his wife is his job as well.
smiley
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by JuneOctober(f): 11:34am On Dec 24, 2016
Goldenheart:
madam, fear God
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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Dec 24, 2016
[color=#000099][/color]op y guy no be ur horseband? if na baby papa 4get dat tin he don go find fresh punna
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 3:22pm On Dec 24, 2016
Preetiex:
[color=#000099][/color]op y guy no be ur horseband? if na baby papa 4get dat tin he don go find fresh punna
Topic please
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by apatheticme(f):
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by apatheticme(f):
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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by apatheticme(f):
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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:09am On Dec 27, 2016
airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.
Another reason why he might not want to have sex with you might be the "Madonna/LovePeddler complex", he no longer sees you as a sexual being but as a mother.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by NevetsIbot(m): 11:46am On Dec 27, 2016
apatheticme:
Why not call ur stupid phallus disgustingly beautiful since it's not an insulthuh Mr English major, oversabi, abeg Park well, carry ur wahala go one syde, be forming wetin I nor know, mtcheeeeewwwwwww
lol. Yeah. I'd call my dick the same it it undergoes sumtin like that,. Anyway... Yu said you were gon troll me eh? Lol.

I'm sorry if that settles all.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by apatheticme(f):
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by NevetsIbot(m): 1:10pm On Dec 27, 2016
apatheticme:
Wow! I'm impressed! U actually said sorry. Totally unexpected. Yeah definitely settles everything, sorry for the name calling too, totally uncalled for. Like ur sense of humor tho'
lol. I always knew I was awesomly humorous.

Thanks uhn. Kisses
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by fabianiweka: 6:49pm On Dec 28, 2016
my wife has given birth to three children and she is still looking beautiful as ever she is even more beautiful when she is nursing
with all this dont ve sex for 4 month when i do is out off duty not fun. yet i dont have mistress
he love you still dont let worry cloud ur mind
a little talk may help
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Chrisbet1981: 9:22am On Dec 29, 2016
Your guy as in boyfriend or husband?
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 1:19pm On Dec 30, 2016
pcguru1:
Another reason why he might not want to have sex with you might be the "Madonna/LovePeddler complex", he no longer sees you as a sexual being but as a mother.
I hope my guy and all the other guys get over whatever is holding them back. It's a shame that so many relationships are being strained or broken at what should be (in my opinion) the happiest time of a person's life.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 1:24pm On Dec 30, 2016
mayour16:
Whoelse can imagine how she's going to respond when the man finally turn up for sex
We've gradually been having sex more and more-with him often initiating now, and things are pretty much getting back to normal after 8months. There is hope!
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 1:26pm On Dec 30, 2016
Rhea:
For now, focus on baby and yourself. Trim those pregnancy fat off (no offense, but we all get them after birth). Tighten up the V with Kegel exercises. Nothing radical...simple pushups and ab crunches everyday. Eat whatever you like as long as you work out 3X a week. In 3 months, he will be drooling over you. Men notice things like that. Then you can start your own shakara aloje.

Men can be ironic some times. When you want to give up on child bearing and focus on regaining your prenupt body physique, they get all Hot and booom....you're laid again and counting down to 9 months.
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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 1:30pm On Dec 30, 2016
ogastone:
Remember those times you used to deny him sex before the pregnancy and during the pregnancy saying that you are not in the mood until you kill his emotions towards you.
Now you want it and the mood is gone. I blame you.
I speak out of experience.
I am so sorry that you're feeling this way. Unfortunately this things happen.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Dec 30, 2016
airminem:
I hope my guy and all the other guys get over whatever is holding them back. It's a shame that so many relationships are being strained or broken at what should be (in my opinion) the happiest time of a person's life.
Wait i didn't explain fully, some guys won't mind doing nasty things to their GF but when it comes to when she's a wife or a mother, they tend to feel different though those couples who explore their sexual lives fully don't have this issues. however alot of couple even believe when married or getting older as a married couple that you should reduce the amount of sex. Alot of people have weird orientation they were brought up with.
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 1:49pm On Dec 30, 2016
NobleG1:
He's cheating on you.
I don't think that he's cheating since he comes home straight from work and usually calls me on his lunch hour
Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 8:17am On Dec 31, 2016
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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by airminem(op): 9:45am On Jan 27, 2017
phintohlar:
but like seriously,could dis really be the case? If yes then i better have a re think oo cos i use 2 say my hubby must be present durin my labour...
Trust Me,
You Dont Want To.
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