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ebonflexy:
Im a guy like you.
Only difference is you're a caveman who sprouts self-righteous/judgemental drivel, but I actually have some sense

So you are judging ALL women who spend a week visiting their fiance as gold diggers.
You are a small boy...

obiezed:
Quick question, what makes you think the guy is not Yoruba?,do you think every Yoruba person likes ewedu??

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

IamLEGEND1:
let me see if i can condense everything I saw up there into 5 sentences.
>Your brother is a pussyy who got pussy-whipped by a girl with an even larger pussyy.at this point,she can poison him and he'll die with a smile.
>Your sister has got bigger balls than both of you put together.
>Your brother is an abusive fool whose mumu button is being used to kill mosquitoes by one random ashawò
>You are one broke mofo.common phone screen.HaBa!
> You're a pussy......or have I mentioned that already?

Bukybabe:
Since you can't pack out of the house and he is your elder brother I will suggest you live with the present situation..adjust some things...like if you don't like her food,don't eat...if you feel na charm...mind your business till your bro learns the hard way..Leave them ooo.Before your brother will push you out when his girl reports you...

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

Lawlahdey:
Rotfl.. You are wicked, uncle

Aunty mi ..... so apparently the O.P is a girl....

Bluezy13:
Schedule a family meeting...for the three of you and iron things out.
Be mature as regards the matters you table and the matters you swallow.
If possible invite an Elder in the family...but that should come after you must have tried the first meeting.

That girl is a golddigger, love should go to hell! They ain't married yet. Family comes first before girlfriend

delishpot:
So because she visit your home, she should wake up when you guys wake up? She cooked but you don't like her food, so she is a bad person? Your brother fought with your bad mannered sister means the girl used juju?
Why did your sister or brother not tell her you guys don't eat ewedu? So non of you thought it wise to see what she was cooking until food was dished and you found out it was Ewedu? To me, you guys are too pushy and expect her to lick your asses because she is your Bros babe. Many naija sibblings and mothers expect a new wife/babe to serve them and treat them like gods becaise their son/brother wants to marty the girl. Let her be and mind your business. you are just pissed because she did not sweep your room and wipe your butt every morning. If you have worthy concerns, talk to your brother instead of being rude to his guest, I am sure he would consider things from your point of view.
If that girl was smart, she would leave your I'll mannered family and look for a better home to marry into. Your brother can turn violent and you the siblings are petty and destructive. You love to destroy relationships if you feel the person hasn't worshiped you well. Look well sef, she senior una well well.

cococandy:
Your brother should not have punched your sister no matter what.
That's unacceptable and she should report him to maybe your uncle or elders in your family so that they will sanction him.

As the rest of the matter, you guys mind your business and let him love his girlfriend the way he likes. I can't even see what she did wrong in your post. She cooked with a seasoning you didn't like? She woke up at 7:00am? Your brother ate something he doesn't normally eat because she made it? He gave her a phone? Where's the offense in any of that?

People please. Stop complicating simple matters because of your bias. That girl has done nothing to you guys. You just don't like her because you feel your brother won't be spending as much on you as he used to.
So maybe you people are the gold diggers here. Not her.

angelTI:
Lol. This story is funny to me. Don't ask me why because I don't know

IamLEGEND1:
Aunty mi ..... so apparently the O.P is a girl....

tit:
Is she edo or kogi girl?

Chuksteric:
You won't understand

ephi123:
They built the house together, why should he move out? It's as much his house as his brother's.

cococandy:
The OP is a 17 year old girl.

@bold summarizes the problem with most Nigerian families and why marital issues are rampant.

SmartyPants:
You built a house together but you need your brother to help out with your touchpad...

Okay I see