Catalin:
Why are you encouraging cheating?

Because he has some chicks on his hands that wants to hook down a married man by fire by force.
I know his type

Op beware of this guy Oloyede orelse your placing your wife's safety and peace at home in great jeopardy if u listen and contact him.
He's bad news.

Amelian:



Because he has some chicks on his hands that wants to hook down a married man by fire by force.
I know his type

Op beware of this guy Oloyede orelse your placing your wife's safety and peace at home in great jeopardy if u listen and contact him.
He's bad news.

hy girl do you know me? why would you say am bad news.

oloyede252:

hy girl do you know me? why would you say am bad news.

Hmmmm

Fabulocity:
Nawa oh. Sex na food? So you can't go without sex for just one year? I'd have advised you to jerk off but you said its a no... so you'd rather consider cheating than masturbating? Well then if that's the case, you just have to hold your self unless you want to break the sacred bond of your marriage .
some pregnant women actually have sex till they're about to pop. But people are different, your wife may not have the same urges. You could still try and convince her though.

ur type will push ur husband to start cheating on u, A married sexually active man that z high on testosterone brought an issue bothering him in his life, and all u can say z to ask whether sex z food? .
Yes madam sex z food, man like sex and food, both the two re something u shouldn't play with as a wife, else he looks for it out there.

@op, I am not advising u to cheat or commit adultery, but I simply understand ur person, u re the nice guy type =nice husband, otherwise u wouldn't hv brought the issue here.
And most of the women answering/counselling u here re simply putting themselves in ur wives shoes, of a truth no woman wants to share her man with another woman , they will rather expect u to endure, and most of them here in this thread re married n selfish.
Op, go out there and flirt with a young girl that will get u laid, but just do it where u wife will not find out, nice wives do understand, but what they do ask z that u should catch fun where they will not get to see u as a sign of respect and honour to them. they will never openly tell u to go n catch fun in this situation, just like the way ur parent will never tell you to go and hv sex.
U might say I am a young mind, but I hv had much interactions with open women both married and single and I think I hv learnt alot from that. There z no subject in our convectional school that will tell u some of these things, and no religious institutions can tell u, itz only true informal education that u can get to learn it.
Also learn to play with ur wife at times till u turn her on and get her in the mood, at times go naughty[ I don't need to explain this to you ]
#PlaySafe and remember #FamilyFirst

After you'll wonder why you're disliked.

oloyede252:
@ op. cooling off with another lady at this time for you is not cheating. it's like helping your wife cos you don't wanna disturb her with your demands. let her rest well but for the main time enjoy the service of a side chick. am sure your wife will understand. anyway contact me for unilag babes, yabatech babes etc that will give you styles that will make you forget your wife till she is ready.



p.s am not married o.

Fabulocity:
Nawa oh. Sex na food? So you can't go without sex for just one year? I'd have advised you to jerk off but you said its a no... so you'd rather consider cheating than masturbating? Well then if that's the case, you just have to hold your self unless you want to break the sacred bond of your marriage .
some pregnant women actually have sex till they're about to pop. But people are different, your wife may not have the same urges. You could still try and convince her though.

A very wicked woman!

Berbierklaus:
You are a good man OP and this will surely pass as you have opined

You can help yourself by engaging more in your hobbies,caring for your wife,helping her more,Think about the happiness you would experience when your bundle of joy finally arrives.

If your wife permits you can engage in bonding acts like cuddling,massaging her body for her.

A very selfish woman.

cococandy:
After you'll wonder why you're disliked.

I don't get you. you dislike me for advising the op to give his wife the needed rest during and after pregnancy or telling the man to help himself during the period.. it's a win win situation foe both of them. so I don't get the dislike.

in as much as being faithful is not an option, it's a must if you value
marriage n your wife.

but most of y'all ladies must understand DAT it's more difficult for some men, ESP d romantic, sexually active but faithful men.
I personally get high libido so, for me to spend a who!e year without going in would be
so damn difficult. except I can send her somewhere during dis times were I don't get to touch, see or feel her. cos d blood will rise wen ur starved n still feeling d warmth of d woman uve stuck with n always n only had it with.

I don't know what I will do o, but if I can't hold it, I would rather send her to her mother's place from when she's 5months heavy n if I can't enter from d day of conception, she should spend all the year in her parents place. I swear I wunt cheat n illd only goto see her on weekends.

that's if I can't help it o

@jayboi

I generally advise my guy friends to have a serious discussion with prospective wives about their mindset concerning lovemaking in marriage ...too many of us guys shy away from 'doing our homework' on issues such as this that are important to any red blooded , sexually aware man but misguided spirituality & plain ignorance puts many of us into ur current situation.

"A woman who wants to fvck you will find a way to fvck you! She will trek to your house, she will climb the tree to enter your second floor window, she will fvck you silly wait for you to come back from work & fvck you silly again and then make you a quick snack of fried Dodo & egg before kissing you goodbye" - Rollo Tomassi

*Quote above has been paraphrased for the benefit of naija thread followers*

The simple truth that the quote above says is that a woman who has a genuine desire for her man will not let even being pregnant stop her sexual connection with him! Some posters before me have already rightly said that PIV (joystick In Vajina) sex should not be the option to a healthy , sexual couple!

MouthAction, Hand Job are options open to a couple that did their "homework" ahead of time but jayboi wasn't sharp and now he is stuck with "cuddling" LMAO

And even that one na fight !!!

Some peeps are on here talking about "ehn... Be patient ...after baby she will be back to normal."

But @jayboi the real question is what is your madams "normal " state?

When was the last time that wifey INITIATED SEX with you? No Jayboi am not talking about her giving you hint. I mean when was the last time she looked you eyeball to eyeball & said "Honey, I'm in the mood , let's make love' and then she followed up her words with ACTION ?

If you are scratching ur head to remember then you have proved my point.

Most likely after the baby is born the excuse will simply change from " I'm pregnant' to 'I'm a mother now! You no fit hold body,Na food?"

Since masturbation is not an option for you then you will have to prepare urself for the scenario above by doing the following

1) if you don't already pursue physical fitness, this is a good time to start. You will increase ur good health and increase ur sexual attractiveness . if ladies outside start flirting with you as a result then good for you

2) if you had any hobbies you love that you abandoned after marriage , this is the time to rediscover them and make ur self happy

3) Hang out with your friends and live your life to the fullest !

P.S

DO NOT HAVE A SECOND CHILD with wifey until she makes it very clear in words and ACTIONS that she wants to fvck you ,frequently & enthusiastically till death do you part & that being pregnant is not an excuse !!!

Shalom.

filani:
@jayboi

I generally advise my guy friends to have a serious discussion with prospective wives about their mindset concerning lovemaking in marriage ...too many of us guys shy away from 'doing our homework' on issues such as this that are important to any red blooded , sexually aware man but misguided spirituality & plain ignorance puts many of us into ur current situation.

"A woman who wants to fvck you will find a way to fvck you! She will trek to your house, she will climb the tree to enter your second floor window, she will fvck you silly wait for you to come back from work & fvck you silly again and then make you a quick snack of fried Dodo & egg before kissing you goodbye" - Rollo Tomassi

*Quote above has been paraphrased for the benefit of naija thread followers*

The simple truth that the quote above says is that a woman who has a genuine desire for her man will not let even being pregnant stop her sexual connection with him! Some posters before me have already rightly said that PIV (joystick In Vajina) sex should not be the option to a healthy , sexual couple!

MouthAction, Hand Job are options open to a couple that did their "homework" ahead of time but jayboi wasn't sharp and now he is stuck with "cuddling" LMAO

And even that one na fight !!!

Some peeps are on here talking about "ehn... Be patient ...after baby she will be back to normal."

But @jayboi the real question is what is your madams "normal " state?

When was the last time that wifey INITIATED SEX with you? No Jayboi am not talking about her giving you hint. I mean when was the last time she looked you eyeball to eyeball & said "Honey, I'm in the mood , let's make love' and then she followed up her words with ACTION ?

If you are scratching ur head to remember then you have proved my point.

Most likely after the baby is born the excuse will simply change from " I'm pregnant' to 'I'm a mother now! You no fit hold body,Na food?"

Since masturbation is not an option for you then you will have to prepare urself for the scenario above by doing the following

1) if you don't already pursue physical fitness, this is a good time to start. You will increase ur good health and increase ur sexual attractiveness . if ladies outside start flirting with you as a result then good for you

2) if you had any hobbies you love that you abandoned after marriage , this is the time to rediscover them and make ur self happy

3) Hang out with your friends and live your life to the fullest !

P.S

DO NOT HAVE A SECOND CHILD with wifey until she makes it very clear in words and ACTIONS that she wants to fvck you ,frequently & enthusiastically till death do you part & that being pregnant is not an excuse !!!

Shalom.

JESUS!!!!.... Never has a Man spoken with more wisdom...... ***Bows at your foot**.... God!!!.. you are WISE!!!!!!!!!

Eh op u said it urself she has been inand out of d hospital! Which means her pregnancy is d delicate type dnt goan use ur prick to spoil wat u put ooo and dnt listen to those sayin u should cheat

well for me my first I was very active. for the second i was lazy and not active.my hubby communicated and i tried even though I was not feeling it.when I gave birth was worse and we still communicated.your wife is wrong. marriage is not all about one person cos she is preggy .sex will not do her any harm but ease the birth that she will understand and wish she had done regularly in labour ward.advice stop giving her attention what soever and stop making sexual advances. u will see nobody will tell her to change

Rosarie:
well for me my first I was very active. for the second i was lazy and not active.my hubby communicated and i tried even though I was not feeling it.when I gave birth was worse and we still communicated.your wife is wrong. marriage is not all about one person cos she is preggy .sex will not do her any harm but ease the birth that she will understand and wish she had done regularly in labour ward.advice stop giving her attention what soever and stop making sexual advances. u will see nobody will tell her to change

Where do you people get this sex eases birth from? Sex eases birth yet women would be screaming that day.
It's just an old wives tale...nothing more. Most women are told that story to make them satisfy their husbands during pregnancy, to avoid stories like this.

OP, it depends on your wife's previous attitude to sex, if she wasn't active before, then she has obviously gotten a perfect excuse.
It would only get worse after child bearing.

filani:
@jayboi

I generally advise my guy friends to have a serious discussion with prospective wives about their mindset concerning lovemaking in marriage ...too many of us guys shy away from 'doing our homework' on issues such as this that are important to any red blooded , sexually aware man but misguided spirituality & plain ignorance puts many of us into ur current situation.

"A woman who wants to fvck you will find a way to fvck you! She will trek to your house, she will climb the tree to enter your second floor window, she will fvck you silly wait for you to come back from work & fvck you silly again and then make you a quick snack of fried Dodo & egg before kissing you goodbye" - Rollo Tomassi

*Quote above has been paraphrased for the benefit of naija thread followers*

The simple truth that the quote above says is that a woman who has a genuine desire for her man will not let even being pregnant stop her sexual connection with him! Some posters before me have already rightly said that PIV (joystick In Vajina) sex should not be the option to a healthy , sexual couple!

MouthAction, Hand Job are options open to a couple that did their "homework" ahead of time but jayboi wasn't sharp and now he is stuck with "cuddling" LMAO

And even that one na fight !!!

Some peeps are on here talking about "ehn... Be patient ...after baby she will be back to normal."

But @jayboi the real question is what is your madams "normal " state?

When was the last time that wifey INITIATED SEX with you? No Jayboi am not talking about her giving you hint. I mean when was the last time she looked you eyeball to eyeball & said "Honey, I'm in the mood , let's make love' and then she followed up her words with ACTION ?

If you are scratching ur head to remember then you have proved my point.

Most likely after the baby is born the excuse will simply change from " I'm pregnant' to 'I'm a mother now! You no fit hold body,Na food?"

Since masturbation is not an option for you then you will have to prepare urself for the scenario above by doing the following

1) if you don't already pursue physical fitness, this is a good time to start. You will increase ur good health and increase ur sexual attractiveness . if ladies outside start flirting with you as a result then good for you

2) if you had any hobbies you love that you abandoned after marriage , this is the time to rediscover them and make ur self happy

3) Hang out with your friends and live your life to the fullest !

P.S

DO NOT HAVE A SECOND CHILD with wifey until she makes it very clear in words and ACTIONS that she wants to fvck you ,frequently & enthusiastically till death do you part & that being pregnant is not an excuse !!!

Shalom.

Well said. we all need to follow your advice.

filani:
@jayboi

I generally advise my guy friends to have a serious discussion with prospective wives about their mindset concerning lovemaking in marriage ...too many of us guys shy away from 'doing our homework' on issues such as this that are important to any red blooded , sexually aware man but misguided spirituality & plain ignorance puts many of us into ur current situation.

"A woman who wants to fvck you will find a way to fvck you! She will trek to your house, she will climb the tree to enter your second floor window, she will fvck you silly wait for you to come back from work & fvck you silly again and then make you a quick snack of fried Dodo & egg before kissing you goodbye" - Rollo Tomassi

*Quote above has been paraphrased for the benefit of naija thread followers*

The simple truth that the quote above says is that a woman who has a genuine desire for her man will not let even being pregnant stop her sexual connection with him! Some posters before me have already rightly said that PIV (joystick In Vajina) sex should not be the option to a healthy , sexual couple!

MouthAction, Hand Job are options open to a couple that did their "homework" ahead of time but jayboi wasn't sharp and now he is stuck with "cuddling" LMAO

And even that one na fight !!!

Some peeps are on here talking about "ehn... Be patient ...after baby she will be back to normal."

But @jayboi the real question is what is your madams "normal " state?

When was the last time that wifey INITIATED SEX with you? No Jayboi am not talking about her giving you hint. I mean when was the last time she looked you eyeball to eyeball & said "Honey, I'm in the mood , let's make love' and then she followed up her words with ACTION ?

If you are scratching ur head to remember then you have proved my point.

Most likely after the baby is born the excuse will simply change from " I'm pregnant' to 'I'm a mother now! You no fit hold body,Na food?"

Since masturbation is not an option for you then you will have to prepare urself for the scenario above by doing the following

1) if you don't already pursue physical fitness, this is a good time to start. You will increase ur good health and increase ur sexual attractiveness . if ladies outside start flirting with you as a result then good for you

2) if you had any hobbies you love that you abandoned after marriage , this is the time to rediscover them and make ur self happy

3) Hang out with your friends and live your life to the fullest !

P.S

DO NOT HAVE A SECOND CHILD with wifey until she makes it very clear in words and ACTIONS that she wants to fvck you ,frequently & enthusiastically till death do you part & that being pregnant is not an excuse !!!

Shalom.

my man. you spoke my mind o. The fact is my wife detests mouth action and exploring. even the normal vaginal sex na pain sometimes. it took her time before she started enjoying sex and when she took in it been just twice since o. I av made up my mind that there ll be no sex till she makes an agreement that there ll be enuf sex before anoda baby. cos like u said she ll soon graduate to dont u see im now a mother excuse.

Rosarie:
well for me my first I was very active. for the second i was lazy and not active.my hubby communicated and i tried even though I was not feeling it.when I gave birth was worse and we still communicated.your wife is wrong. marriage is not all about one person cos she is preggy .sex will not do her any harm but ease the birth that she will understand and wish she had done regularly in labour ward.advice stop giving her attention what soever and stop making sexual advances. u will see nobody will tell her to change

I guess there are more sincere women nowadays than men. Your way surely works. Sex is overrated. women knows this and it is what most use on men.

filani:
@jayboi

I generally advise my guy friends to have a serious discussion with prospective wives about their mindset concerning lovemaking in marriage ...too many of us guys shy away from 'doing our homework' on issues such as this that are important to any red blooded , sexually aware man but misguided spirituality & plain ignorance puts many of us into ur current situation.

"A woman who wants to fvck you will find a way to fvck you! She will trek to your house, she will climb the tree to enter your second floor window, she will fvck you silly wait for you to come back from work & fvck you silly again and then make you a quick snack of fried Dodo & egg before kissing you goodbye" - Rollo Tomassi

*Quote above has been paraphrased for the benefit of naija thread followers*

The simple truth that the quote above says is that a woman who has a genuine desire for her man will not let even being pregnant stop her sexual connection with him! Some posters before me have already rightly said that PIV (joystick In Vajina) sex should not be the option to a healthy , sexual couple!

MouthAction, Hand Job are options open to a couple that did their "homework" ahead of time but jayboi wasn't sharp and now he is stuck with "cuddling" LMAO

And even that one na fight !!!

Some peeps are on here talking about "ehn... Be patient ...after baby she will be back to normal."

But @jayboi the real question is what is your madams "normal " state?

When was the last time that wifey INITIATED SEX with you? No Jayboi am not talking about her giving you hint. I mean when was the last time she looked you eyeball to eyeball & said "Honey, I'm in the mood , let's make love' and then she followed up her words with ACTION ?

If you are scratching ur head to remember then you have proved my point.

Most likely after the baby is born the excuse will simply change from " I'm pregnant' to 'I'm a mother now! You no fit hold body,Na food?"

Since masturbation is not an option for you then you will have to prepare urself for the scenario above by doing the following

1) if you don't already pursue physical fitness, this is a good time to start. You will increase ur good health and increase ur sexual attractiveness . if ladies outside start flirting with you as a result then good for you

2) if you had any hobbies you love that you abandoned after marriage , this is the time to rediscover them and make ur self happy

3) Hang out with your friends and live your life to the fullest !

P.S

DO NOT HAVE A SECOND CHILD with wifey until she makes it very clear in words and ACTIONS that she wants to fvck you ,frequently & enthusiastically till death do you part & that being pregnant is not an excuse !!!

Shalom.

Thanks for taking out time to tell us what the realities are. many have indeed learn. I will implore you to create a thread with this content so that others suffering husbands can learn. the agony of a man is buried with him!!

lytech1:
I think medically sex is good during pregnancy.it aid easy delivery...

Yes.. During Pregnancy is when woman need the sex most

Nawa oh. Sex na food? So you can't go without sex for just one year? I'd have advised you to jerk off but you said its a no... so you'd rather consider cheating than masturbating? Well then if that's the case, you just have to hold your self unless you want to break the sacred bond of your marriage .
some pregnant women actually have sex till they're about to pop. But people are different, your wife may not have the same urges. You could still try and convince her though.

you wicked ooo...
why the one year? wetin you want make my blokos they do till one yr?

What your husband suddenly looses the urge not to have sex with you or even the urge to erect.and decides to try it with his student saying he wanted to be sure he is okay.

What is your advice