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See oga youre selfish. Why wont she gives more attention to the kid, Mother love is something else.

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jeff1607:
This question has been bothering me for quite a while now, how do men or husbands cope with their wives when they give more attention and care to the kids and you feel all left out. I wouldn't like to generalise here but why is it a common thing in marriages same applies for single moms too when they shield and put more focus on their kids rather than helping the spark glow.

Some women not all are on the defensive when the husband tends to shrug that stuff out.

please would need experienced minds mostly the men to help explain or proffer a solution in getting round this without causing misunderstanding or bad blood

By giving more attention to the kids too. When that is done, she will have no other place to turn to.

There's no issue here... The husband should stop been unnecessarily greedy and focus on better ways of building an all inclusive family. Kids would always be kids hence no real husband except it's baby husband should drag attention with them.

Besides once babies start arriving in a family both partners should adjust their mind.

Are you married or talking about another couple?

If yes, then talk to your wife about how you feel, though she may try to point out few things why you can't get more from her. Try help her out with the kids because such whole attention diversion arises at times , when the man leaves taking care of the kids alone for the wife.

Again, when you start giving your wife the impression, her romance life with you ends after honeymoon and first baby, depending on her temperament, she may resign to her fate and face the kids. It takes communication, understanding and two to work things out in marriage.

Spice it up.

Note: Don't run her down with demands, she is already handling a lot.

To be a wife, a mother, and home keeper demands a lot from a woman.

After habouring d child 4 9months and den it rip outta u wit lots of pain,den d nursing stage.its only natural dat a mother is drawn to her child. Wonderful experience u can't beat so just join so as to feel d sweet vibe. U can't accuse a woman of being too close to her child, u will look insane and immature to her and society will frown at u self.

So you are now in competition with your own biological children. Buhari have change everything, including thinking

Modsenemy:
But ur mum can cook too

I want your snail, it looks sweet from your dp

AkinPhysicist:
Anytime she is giving too much attention to the kids - have sex with her right there in front of the children NEXT time when you say come lets fvck she will run inside the oza room quickly

:Dguy you just made my new year with this post I swear.....the craziest joke ever

Most women fall out of love with their husbands by the time the kids start coming. This "falling out of love" is often due to the man's uncaring, cheating and autocratic nature.

When the child comes, the mom pours all her love on him/her (have you heard the advise women give each other? Ignore him and focus on your kids) which is so easy because the love mummy is getting from the kids is so unconditional and pure. The kids love her when she is soiled with kitchen work. They love her even when she stinks of stale breast milk and her tummy is bulging like that of a pregnant woman. She remains beautiful mummy.

The child grows up and leaves to get married and then poor old mum becomes a monster in law because she lived all her life for the kids and can't bear to lose them to another.

Barney11:
you can cope by giving more attention to the children and stop grumbling!

Doesn't address the main issue.

AkinPhysicist:
Anytime she is giving too much attention to the kids - have sex with her right there in front of the children NEXT time when you say come lets fvck she will run inside the oza room quickly

Pervert!

jeff1607:
This question has been bothering me for quite a while now, how do men or husbands cope with their wives when they give more attention and care to the kids and you feel all left out. I wouldn't like to generalise here but why is it a common thing in marriages same applies for single moms too when they shield and put more focus on their kids rather than helping the spark glow.

Some women not all are on the defensive when the husband tends to shrug that stuff out.

please would need experienced minds mostly the men to help explain or proffer a solution in getting round this without causing misunderstanding or bad blood

this is why side chicks were invented

It could simply be an excuse for I ain't in you no more.
Love on the rocks.

pussypounder:
Next time he will come in her mouth instead of her pusssay

I tell you: my current gf d 1st time I uploaded on her sexy face she cursed with all the gods of her village. Now she literally begs for it.

[quote author=jeff1607 post=52450731][/quote]Men I think are meant to have more than one wife. A polygamous man never complains about attention- he has more than enough wives for that. Major on making paper and being the head of your large family while the women major on caring for their kids. What ever little time they each have for you would be enough as you yourself are worrying about how to provide for them all.

This is not a uncommon feeling and kudos to you for raising a very common but unspoken problem.
Many women and some men overlook that a marriage and having a relationship are not one of the same.

Some men forget that motherhood is another layer to the many roles a woman takes up in a marriage. Some women neglect one and focus on the ohther. They are two things but they must co-exist to achieve an equilibrium. A man will feel left out especially in our culture where child rearing is seen as purely the domain of women. Why do we make fun of the man who feeds, washes and even carries his own children on his back. I recall an article on this forum where many had issue with this man who had his child on his back while his wife sat an exam.

We practice child rearing that puts the man as a disciplinarian and not that of a nurturing parent. I am not talking about men being neutered of their roles in a family or society .Some of the comments here shed light regarding prevailing mindset intresting how politics seep into things or is used as responses irrelevant of course but that is the society we live in.

I understand your question and concerns and it is up to you to start having a relationship again. To be part of your children's lives so you do not feel excluded. Time alone with your your wife, then time alone wth the family. The answer lies in how you refocus your priorities. When did you last have a date night?

kaluchuks:
:Dguy you just made my new year with this post I swear.....the craziest joke ever

my guy you welcome but its da truth though - you gat 2 handle dis women with guile.

Ok this case sounds familiar. Husband getting jealous of children. Anyways the husband should focus on showering the wife and children with extra love, care and attention. That way he won't feel left out.

He shouldn't bother...

BUSH MEATS full everywhere

He should grow up and stop stressing the young lady.

It is enough stress taking care of those kids how much more adding an adult kid.

When the kids are old enough to go stay with grand ma or some one looking after them.

Take your wife out and let her know how wonderful she has been.

Be involved and stay there as chairman that she will scare them with when they are acting stubborn.

Maybe you should step up as a father and be more actively involved in raising your children.

Its not enough to buy Pampers and baby food on your way from work.

Do you bother to go pick them up from school? How do they sort out their home work or that's not your business?
Who makes their food, and feeds them? Or they are expected to go to the kitchen, boil water, cook, serve and feed themselves?
Please, when they have an accident i.e wee or poo on themselves, do you expect them to change their nappies by themselves or clean their bombom by themselves?
Sorry to ask, when they start running a temperature or cough, are they expected to dose their own amount of paracetamol and cough medicine, and give themselves?

Please, when its time for that haircut or to plait their hair do you bother taking them to the salon to do so or you expect them to do that by themselves?

When they pour rubbish on their clothes, do you bother to change them into clean clothing and wash the dirty clothes or you expect your two year old to change herself, and then throw the dirty clothes into the dustbin (they can do this very well with all joy, but I'm sure you don't throw dirty clothes into dustbins, but rather launder them).
Oga at the top, if you don't do any of these and more for them regularly, who do you expect to do it? The child himself?

If you have refused to do any of these, then those children have only their mothers to look out for them when it matters. Do not deprive them of that.

Better still, join your wife in raising them and be actively/physically involved.
That will save you both time, and create more time for you to spend together.

understand something about Majority of women, (i said majority) Their goal in life is to get married and have children ever since they were kids playing with dolls and doll houses. Once your wife has children you are no2 on her priority list and always will be. Once your wife has children, your only purpose is to provide the finances, if you think I'm lying just lose your job and you will see how your wife will treat you.


The greatest con perpetrated on the African man is the concept of one man, one wife. Ironically, it's the women who lose out because it creates so many 2nd class women...the "side chicks", who are effectively hidden second wives and nobody will marry.

You wife starts to ignore you, just start shopping for a side chick because your wife won't have your time until those kids leave home and the house is empty again then she will remember you.

dominique:
Is he a baby?

I wonder ooo this is a joke of the century, or may be the big baby was left out from breastfeeding abi waris all this in New Year?

Oga are you not supposed to be happy to have a wife who is giving your children all the attention.? Na you she wan give attention before? Abi all the attention you gave each before and after marriage never do..

You better thank God you have a wife who is giving 100% to your children...e no go pass Phuck wey dey make you complain...

willibounce1:
Oga are you not supposed to be happy to have a wife who is giving your children all the attention.? Na you she wan give attention before? Abi all the attention you gave each before and after marriage never do..

You better thank God you have a wife who is giving 100% to your children...e no go pass Phuck wey dey make you complain...

Don't mind him

ajuwarhodes:
U are jealousing ur children... Lol

..Op what is your problem

Lemme ask u, whose kids?