Hay what's up fellaz,

Got a question I'd like to ask, need very mature advice. Pls I don't want kids or these dummies who be like "those who give a Bleep went that way", those bullshit fellows irk me.
It's a relationship problem and hence I know everyone undergoes challenges in his / her relationships, understanding someone who's not a family member has been really difficult these days.

Now to the issue. My ex went for some other guy. If I don't talk to her for a month, she comes up,being chatty, hence we get to rapour again she's acting very crazy doesn't show concern again and what not.
Yesterday on my fb page I uploaded the pic of a prospective gf I've been eyeing for sometime. The new girlie is a corper and serving in delta state. Hence I plan on going on a visit to see her and possibly start something out with her. All those girlies who turned down requests of relationship I know started to like my posts, then this ex of mine who's presently with another guy joined the league and liked the picture... like, I been asking her to come and we mend ways, she abruptly turned me down, but as she saw the pic, she liked it. Wonder why she gets to stalk me, and she be like she's getting married, I asked her when, she got cross and be like didn't answer me. When I further inquired, she's like "what's that suppose to mean,what you expect me to answer..."

Question is what yo fellaz think? Um having several thoughts here.

She wants you back but she doesnt know how to say it

What abt juz leave her azz in the corner? If she liked the pishure of ur new prospect,let it be if she's still ur friend on FB..Not really a big deal I must say..


And u too being so nosy.. If she wanna get married, let her be...whether it's true or not, it's not really ur biz.

Go out and have fun .

Bro u are a guy LIKE SERIOUSLY? why is ur post filled with BE LIKE, AM LIKE, SHE'Z LIKE... Abeg jare LIKE too much for ur post, u be guy, only girls or GAYbriels use words like that. I wonder why guys cant just break up with a girl and just let her be

QueenSuccubus:



What abt juz leave her azz in the corner? If she liked the pishure of ur new prospect,let it be if she's still ur friend on FB..Not really a big deal I must say..


And u too being so nosy.. If she wanna get married, let her be...whether it's true or not, it's not really ur biz.

Go out and have fun .

They ban you again?

Save yourself the stress... Click the block button on her..... she seems confused, this is 2017, dont let her drag you into her confused state of mind.

The problem is with u...and not her!INDECISION IS THE BANE of so many relationships around!u av got 2 Man up...and stop her from blackmailing u emotionally.and besides u dont seems stable enuf 4 a relationship yet....it is good 2b flexible in ur decision making....but some amount of RIGIDITY will always be required.go bk 2d drawing board...and let ur yes b a yes...and ur no...a big NO.

optional1:



They ban you again?

Not at all..

Sometimes Its good to use this is one.. I dnt wanna bury this one.

QueenSuccubus:


Not at all..
Sometimes Its good to use this is one.. I dnt wanna bury this one.

ok is cool.
Happy Sunday

QueenSuccubus:



Not at all..

Sometimes Its good to use this is one.. I dnt wanna bury this one.

Are u kashy

Emescot:
Bro u are a guy LIKE SERIOUSLY? why is ur post filled with BE LIKE, AM LIKE, SHE'Z LIKE... Abeg jare LIKE too much for ur post, u be guy, only girls or GAYbriels use words like that. I wonder why guys cant just break up with a girl and just let her be

This shìt you brought, does it seem like an advice to you?

Gentin:


This shìt you brought, does it seem like an advice to you?

Am LIKE i should give u a good advice but you LIKE getting angry and thats LIKE a bad thing... u dont need advice jare deal with it urself

PETRUCE007:


Are u kashy

YES .. She's kashybaby. She can deny it all she wants, kashybaby was my padi on my former acct nd this is how kashy relates

GoldenJAT:
The problem is with u...and not her!INDECISION IS THE BANE of so many relationships around!u av got 2 Man up...and stop her from blackmailing u emotionally.and besides u dont seems stable enuf 4 a relationship yet....it is good 2b flexible in ur decision making....but some amount of RIGIDITY will always be required.go bk 2d drawing board...and let ur yes b a yes...and ur no...a big NO.

It's his problem. You not giving advices, you sounding like u know all. Give him advices, stop sounding like a dead fellow. Mxm

Whytelyon:


It's his problem. You not giving advices, you sounding like u know all. Give him advices, stop sounding like a dead fellow. Mxm

carry ur FRUSTRATION 2d right place.abeg

Dude I think whatever thoughts ur having is ur mind making up stuffs for u to waste the time ur supposed to use thinking of ur prospective Babe n how ur gonna give her the lash or her life to think of someone that has accepted a new cocck n moved on. All my ex'es are my friends on Fb n most of them make it a point duty to like every single Foto I upload, regardless of whose Foto it is. from what I see here, I think ur actually the one praying and hoping she comes back, I mean ur ex. Be a man n move on, let go n focus on the future, love is still out there waiting for u with open arms, be happy now

NevetsIbot:
YES .. She's kashybaby. She can deny it all she wants, kashybaby was my padi on my former acct nd this is how kashy relates

I felt so too...i miss dat lousy babe

PETRUCE007:


Are u kashy

KashyBaby is dead and gone boo... Somebori killed her

That persona doesn't exist anymore. Now, u have to move on.

GoldenJAT:
carry ur FRUSTRATION 2d right place.abeg

slowpoke. Look at my signature and know i am doing fine as a programmer. i earn self employed salaries, not like you who doesnt know what hes doing. The boy said advices , you saying hes gay, shay that one is called for ? when would show how useful you are , acting like a dumb useless fellow all the time. this is a forum, you cannot advise people, go to hell... we dont need you here .there isnt anyone who doesnt have relationship problems or a thing or two worrying them ...a dog like you calling someone gay and saying another person is frustrated... i pity the fool who let you be her boyfriend sha, na this low dog like behaviour u go day show am. like say u never get problem before ode.

GoldenJAT:
The problem is with u...and not her!INDECISION IS THE BANE of so many relationships around!u av got 2 Man up...and stop her from blackmailing u emotionally.and besides u dont seems stable enuf 4 a relationship yet....it is good 2b flexible in ur decision making....but some amount of RIGIDITY will always be required.go bk 2d drawing board...and let ur yes b a yes...and ur no...a big NO.

Ode buruku, I didn't talk to you before, I just felt I should answer your royal idiocy now. Your rubbish didn't look like an advice, was never an advice and won't even resemble an advice. If you think you don't have problems, even Jesus they killed and hung on the cross for his good - the people claimed they had issues with him,what more of you. Your immaturity stinks high esteem and I remember I told a fool like you not to talk on my thread. Let alone insult people. Go to hell and never come back on my thread. People are giving me advices I think can help, rather you call me gay, and insult me and other people, what's wrong with you? Have you gone mad or something? Stop derailing my thread I'm in a bad mood now and I don't like your kind of people on here. You free to get away and stop insulting people. Mr know all.

@op,

I've been in the same shoes like you before. She even comes back now, my case is, sometime last year she came to indirectly check if I am doing good, if money has started to come in as usual,she even came and passed the night In my place (family house). We still talk,but she behaves like she wants to use iron hand for me, when I give her space she keeps coming back again with a story or two. My case if I upload a picture of myself, she won't say anything, or even click like, if she sees me upload pics of me and a girl, or a new girlie, she'd click like and comment, sometimes she's sending messages to me, that this girl wants to eat my money, blah blah.... I just tire fam.. Means, she is waiting for me to be stable,then she's coming back... maybe or maybe not, but na focus we all need now.

Get yourself together. What you'd do is very simple. Focus, this is a new year, a week gone already,shes going to use her confusion to derail your plans for this year just like what my own ex is doing. But you need to focus.
Don't start this year like this. I know one thing for sure, any girl who dumps you for another guy and sees your success, 2 things either she'd regret it, or she just forgets about u totally, in this case, let her go. Focus. Like I said, a week is gone already. Just be calm,back to drawing board and try to know those things that made her go, then the next girl who comes by, correct everything.

Take care. Jah bless.

Gentin:


Ode buruku, I didn't talk to you before, I just felt I should answer your royal idiocy now. Your rubbish didn't look like an advice, was never an advice and won't even resemble an advice. If you think you don't have problems, even Jesus they killed and hung on the cross for his good - the people claimed they had issues with him,what more of you. Your immaturity stinks high esteem and I remember I told a fool like you not to talk on my thread. Let alone insult people. Go to hell and never come back on my thread. People are giving me advices I think can help, rather you call me gay, and insult me and other people, what's wrong with you? Have you gone mad or something? Stop derailing my thread I'm in a bad mood now and I don't like your kind of people on here. You free to get away and stop insulting people. Mr know all.

And this is Y..u will remain an OBJECT OF MOCKERY by a Girl!CRY BABY... go bk 2d drawing board 2 AVOID wallowing in Self pity!d advice i gave u up there was PRICELESS!but ur little mind cant DISCERN THAT..i neva called u GAY.can u pls direct ur FRUSTRATION 2d right SOURCE NOW

Whytelyon:


slowpoke. Look at my signature and know i am doing fine as a programmer. i earn self employed salaries, not like you who doesnt know what hes doing. The boy said advices , you saying hes gay, shay that one is called for ? when would show how useful you are , acting like a dumb useless fellow all the time. this is a forum, you cannot advise people, go to hell... we dont need you here .there isnt anyone who doesnt have relationship problems or a thing or two worrying them ...a dog like you calling someone gay and saying another person is frustrated... i pity the fool who let you be her boyfriend sha, na this low dog like behaviour u go day show am. like say u never get problem before ode.

BIRDS of same feather flocks together!ops...i read d SHIT of a Comment u called an ADVICE....and could c y u r vexed!!its quite PATHETIC and Hurting when u cant even keep an ordinary Gf as a result of ur Low level of REASONING....i cant describe ur stupidity...as it Stinks 2d High HEAVEN..GOODMORNING.

Emescot:
Am LIKE i should give u a good advice but you LIKE getting angry and thats LIKE a bad thing... u dont need advice jare deal with it urself

the guy situation de Beyond redemption!....no WONDER d babe dE run!so full of himself......and yet a DUMMY.

GoldenJAT - Just free them abeg its such an early year to make enemies on the internet, Whytelyon - I saw your advice for the Op and i thought it was okay so just let it be okay that way
Gentin - Honestly i dont know know why u are angry but for crying out loud u knew some pple including me were going to say something bad which is not even worth being called an advice so just pele.
Emescot - I know u are sorry for trolling the op so apologise.
@Gentin - dont always take things so serious. Am sorry

GoldenJAT:
BIRDS of same feather flocks together!ops...i read d SHIT of a Comment u called an ADVICE....and could c y u r vexed!!its quite PATHETIC and Hurting when u cant even keep an ordinary Gf as a result of ur Low level of REASONING....i cant describe ur stupidity...as it Stinks 2d High HEAVEN..GOODMORNING.

E pain the bastard. Silence is the best answer for idiots like you. Anuofia.