colik:
That's why it's necessary for ladies to be self reliant.

adaksbullet:
These his a supa story's, the live I'm leaving, these his a supa story's, we strike and a strogu

prettythicksme:
Werey de eeeeeee

u dey sang song oo

Gflat:


It is, but not totally. I hope your perspective not from a feminist's point of view

adaksbullet:
mine foma wive turn nl asawo


Are u noun enjoyed live

colik:

Not totally? Care to lay more emphasis on that?

It's not.

AngelSweetLips:
I don't know how to feel about this op... You've placed so much value on financial and material gain at the detriment to men. I advocate that women look after themselves and choose men based on qualities that are not as shallow. If I'm hungry I should be able to feed myself. Women need to meet their needs and not expect a man to meet them. A man can buy you the world and still deny you love, respect, and honour which costs him nothing.

#Feminist

Alondra:
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Not all broke guys will die broke, Not all broke guys turn out ungrateful / faithful. Not all rich guys will die rich and not all rich guys remain faithful / grateful. Whatever happens to diversification, plus making money is not only a man's responsibility. Marry/ Date whom you love and you are compatible with.

Gflat:
Prettythicksme please don't derail

firstking01:
The op is a deluded fellow

Gflat:


Apologies for seeing this thread that way. Please be advised I am Talking about one perspective not all in a relationship. I have seen a lot of ladies suffer with a guy. Let us be real

AngelSweetLips:


They suffer because they love and a woman shouldn't get a 'get out of jail card' because she is a woman. He is suffering too should he leave her because she's broke?

Gflat:


lol, as expected. Not too hard to break down your message.
You should try dating someone who is better and capable dear

Gflat:


Approaching people with your low way of reasoning is embarrassing. Can't you comment without being offensive?

Gflat:


Should she continue loving him until reality sets in? Until it seems too late to leave because they are married and things are not going smoothly?
Miss, are you married?

firstking01:
There was NO need emphasizing on your errorneous and shallow assertions...see, don't let spew what's in my mouth cos i dnt wanna get banned…if your mum had reasoned this way i'm sure you wouldn't be in existence to utter this fallatical gibberish

prettythicksme:
Yes ooo,i am enjoyed live since i leaved you.U no sabi the thing.

AngelSweetLips:


Yes she should continue if she loves him. She should guide, support and encourage him to do better and be better. She should work on herself as well so that 2 heads can be better than one.

I am not married, no... Will that fact invalidate my opinion?

Gflat:


In your first comment you hashtag feminist but your words are betraying that claim. (maybe I am wrong) but spending time with a guy with no prospects of being successful at age 30 while you have better chances of being happy seems like a work of voodoo to me.

Ok, you are not married so you probably don't know how difficult it seems to be responsible for two mouths in a month

DeepFriedPuff:
Screw feminism angel sweetlips

A woman should provide for herself because no1 is reliable save for God.

But also there's no reason u as a functioning adult u shouldn't work and care for yer own needs.

AngelSweetLips:


I don't know you're understanding of feminism ( another thread)
I believe like attracts like. She must be like him in order to attract him. She won't attract what she isn't so until she changes her circumstances she won't meet a man that can meet all her needs.
Like I said in my first comment if this broke man loves, appreciates and respects her and his only downfall is finance then she won't find another man who will give her all the things broke guy gave her plus money.

You're argument is flawed because the only thing you are paying emphasis to is money. Now if you said he cheats abuses and is no good for her then I could agree but you're not. You're saying run because he can't take her to fine places and buy her fine things.

You just want men with money to have all the girls and your broke brothers to go without because there just isn't enough rich men for all these women.

Gflat:




Lol, you are not getting my point of view dear. as at this moment I am talking about women staying in relationships that are not productive