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Lol cos most guys are keyboard warriors ...If Naija guy give u loving u format for phone u go be like Oh My Gosh where have u been all my life . ...but seeing him in person he go cold like Eko Iya Ibeji

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

Kai this is a very far left perspective.
Who said everyone is battling with physical & personality flaws that they want to hide

My comment no go make sense again. See as they derailed the thread.


Social Media gives a false sense of intimacy. Your messages are one on one with no external disturbances. And when you factor in late night convos where girls are vulnerable..

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

That's it...

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

Word!!

zaza999:
These days, you may meet a lady you have not seen before face to face but only through social networks, like facebook, 2go, badoo,etc and start charting together only for the chat to end up with sleeping with her either she come or you visit her.

During online chat, every form of romantic and lustful words will be going on to the extent that the lady will now be begging you for them to see and do it.

On seeing each other, no much talk again,the body of the two are already charged waiting for the the already concluded online action to start.

But this is the same ladies you will meet physically (face to face) to toast them only for them to be "forming" and acting funny as if they are not interested.

because ashawo now operates online!

I see most online women as ashawo, so I never bother to know why!

wetin coinsain me....meanwhile,am a mavrodian.ive got a powerful crusade to attend

SANDOSKI:
You chop craze abi....

You don forget say I senior you... No try me ooo

You're awesomely beautiful ... #No homo.

Because ladies love lies. And the best place to lie to them is through the social media.

Chai just negodu as thread turn family affair of i know u,know u. OP i no gree wit u sha!

whether to call her mumu or pig

MM IS BACK

ULSHERLAN:
Because they fall for what they hear....coupled with the kinda fake life some dudes live online.

so do they sleep with them online, if you don't like what you see, you can move on!!!!!!!

Ooh chim !

The mod that bring this to front page is wicked o,imagine since may 2016.

ULSHERLAN:
Because they fall for what they hear....coupled with the kinda fake life some dudes live online.

so on point.

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

Yea, but then it makes no sense when you meet that person in physical. This has affected me many times. Sometimes i plan to meet a lady off social media, twice I have left the Venue without meeting her when i see her from afar. Even when i feel guilty after my actions, I can't just stand that the diff i saw online is too much offline.

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

Most times it's not about looks, though it's part of it. Some guys are good with written words, but bad in speaking. Some are too shy.
When the lady eventually meets the guy, she won't notice the little flaws cos she has fallen in love with the guy.
It's not always about appearance.

Because girls are moved by what they hear while guys are moved by what they see

They fall easily because the love is based on data bundles. It is more or less a digital love.

chat a girl up btwn 11pm and 12am, guy uve won her heart and body. she'll do anytin u say. bt blocking dem on a normal day in public, oyo is ur case.

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

ur dp say u don't give a fvk .

so who is Lyin ur dp or u?

Stopped happening to me.

Can't fall for anyone online anymore.

Quintessential1:
You're awesomely beautiful ... #No homo.

I honestly feel you don't have to put the '#NoHomo' tag. If you feel something is beautiful just say it and leave the rest to whoever cares to think

Curiosity, they say, kills a cat.

Many of us are usually disinterested in what we already have at hand. We place so much value on that which seems distant, foreign and kind of strange, even if it worth lesser in value in comparison with that which is in our clear gaze and familiar.

We love mystery and novelty. Social media adds that sense of foreign clouds to our image. We want to know more about the other person we've not yet known. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

When chatting with someone online, it's like you are in a closed room alone together which is very tempting. And the times of these chatting are usually at delicate hours when nerves are relaxing; then, the cognition to discern is usually compromised. We gradually lose our guards and our natural defense mechanism becomes lowered.

As time goes on we become comfortable with the other person and the desiring to hear daily from him or her increases. At this point the emotions and bodily feeling are engaged. And we become fond of each other. When emotion enters logic disappears. Those who are in a committed relationship should be careful and mentally alert at all times when chatting online, because it only takes a process for cheating to take place and the process is just as simple as this.

Our innately curious trait would want to play along and to see to the where the matter will end. We feel flattered by the attention being showered online. The ease with which messages are passed across is like a pressure which is hard to resist. And where ever attention goes energy flow. We found ourselves thinking about this particular person who has been trying hook our attention online. But then it's too late.

There are rules to everything. If you want to remain faithful to your partner you need to abide strictly by those rules and especially that of the social media. Do not think that you are strong. Learn to know where the devil comes in and avoid them.

Modified....!

Nothing left to say
See massive derailing on a front page topic

damesilver:
Curiosity, they say, kills a cat.

Many of us are usually disinterested in what we already have at hand. We place so much value on that which seems distant, foreign and kind of strange, even if it worth lesser in value in comparison with that which is in our clear gaze and familiar.

We love mystery and novelty. Social media adds that sense of foreign clouds to our image. We want to know more about the other person we've not known.

When chatting with someone online, it's like you are in a closed room alone together which is very tempting. And the times of chatting are usually at hours that nerves are relaxing. The cognition to discern is usually compromised. Then, we lose our guards gradually and our natural defense mechanism becomes lowered.

As time goes on we become comfortable with the other person and the desiring to hear daily from him or her increases. At this point the emotions and bodily feeling are engaged. And we become fond of each other. Those who are in a committed relationship should be mentally alert at all times when chatting online, because it takes a process for cheating to take place and the process is just as simple as this.

Our innately curious trait would want to play along and to see to the where the matter will end. We feel flattered by the attention being showered online. The ease with which messages are passed across is like a pressure which is hard to resist. And where ever attention goes energy flow. We found ourselves thinking about this particular person who has been trying hook our attention online. But then it's too late.

You say it all. Gbam!

This thread was composed in may 2016 but make fp in January 2017.Isorite.

Becomes women are easily moved by words

Honestly, i need a gal 2 love (no sex). Just lovesick and bored. I need a gud female friend/bestie. I won't mind ur race. It's Emenandez; dat ibo boy.