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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by khiaa(f): 6:28am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
Yes. To me, sex is a thing of body and soul. Making love to a woman I don't love will satisfy only about 10% of my sexual urge.

Correction...sex is a thing of the body
Making love is of soul and mind. I doubt if you truly would choose the once over the tenth tho
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by talk2alabama: 6:29am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:


And getting married will stop him from his business trips??

Get some sense bae
benita27 chei na u dem finish so
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 6:30am On Jan 16, 2017
Hmmmn I just read this, it's interesting.

9 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship

http://www.healthimi.tk/2015/07/9-things-you-should-never-do-in.html?m=1
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by talk2alabama: 6:31am On Jan 16, 2017
Please who do I talk to abt sex issues... Cuz its killing me inside.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 6:44am On Jan 16, 2017
khiaa:


Correction...sex is a thing of the body
Making love is of soul and mind. I doubt if you truly would choose the once over the tenth tho
This is exactly where you ladies get it all wrong. You guys believe everything revolves around sex. I'm about to go to bed if not, I would've enlightened you on certain things.

Sex is not about beauty of a woman, curves or b00bs. It's a time to synchronize and doing that with a wrong lady is a big turn off for men like me. Middle Eastern ladies are about the most beautiful and curvy ladies in the world yet it didn't make me cheat on my then girlfriend for almost 36months that I was there.

Responsible and focused men don't engage in random sex dear.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by khiaa(f): 8:04am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
This is exactly where you ladies get it all wrong. You guys believe everything revolves around sex. I'm about to go to bed if not, I would've enlightened you on certain things.

Sex is not about beauty of a woman, curves or b00bs. It's a time to synchronize and doing that with a wrong lady is a big turn off for men like me. Middle Eastern ladies are about the most beautiful and curvy ladies in the world yet it didn't make me cheat on my then girlfriend for almost 36months that I was there.

Responsible and focused men don't engage in random sex dear.

Lol grin You think that Middle Eastern women are the most beautiful and curvy women in the world? If you didn't cheat on your girlfriend for 36 months it's not because you are so faithful to her it's probably because they wouldn't get involved with you.

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by joey150(m): 8:12am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
That's why I said "to me"

Setting principles and following them depend largely on one's discipline and choice besides if you have the kind of training i have, you may end up not having sexual feelings at all in your lifetime.

alright "to me" 1+1=4.


if you dont still get my drift then lets allow sleeping dogs lie.

cheers!
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by NiRfreak(m): 8:37am On Jan 16, 2017
Ogbeni go and fvck another dick if u so wish..stop posting thrash here... besides, if u fvck a new dick at one corner, u won't come to announce to us.mttchww..
Meanwhile, this is not ur first relationship and won't be your first time of cheating in relationship..So why is this now different ......Go and fvck all I care
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 9:10am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:



I know you like dem deceivers and pretenders. I don't employ cucumber when i have loads of meaty flesh i can make use of. But that isn't an option.. Stay loyal and faithful is!!
Madam Loyal and faithful, I hear...Na so.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 9:14am On Jan 16, 2017
khiaa:


Lol grin You think that Middle Eastern women are the most beautiful and curvy women in the world? If you didn't cheat on your girlfriend for 36 months it's not because you are so faithful to her it's probably because they wouldn't get involved with you.
*shots fired* I repeat shots fired, and erm stop adding lol to ease the tension, you and I both know you meant to shade this guy.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 16, 2017
khiaa:


Lol grin You think that Middle Eastern women are the most beautiful and curvy women in the world? If you didn't cheat on your girlfriend for 36 months it's not because you are so faithful to her it's probably because they wouldn't get involved with you.

His sentiment of the beauty of M.E. women is his opinion and he reserves the liberty to hold it irrespective of your prejudice. How him not cheating on his girl in the Middle East transforms to the women not wanting him reveals your bias and is a fallacy of false attribution.

There is a fine line between Black pride and Black extremism.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 10:11am On Jan 16, 2017
ebonyeyes88:
He cheating sorry girl. I've heard to many stories similar to this one. Maybe you should investigate but don't cheat on him. Just investigate.

Ain't that some shiit tho? Your conclusion based on stereotype. Then you feel some way if the stereotype is on the other cheek. Ever wondered why if you throw a fair coin 99 times and it shows "head", the odds for the 100th throw is still 0.5?

You confirm to her he cheating, then you end your comment with "just investigate". On what basis then was your conclusion? Statements like yours are the psychic fuel that generates negativity.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 10:16am On Jan 16, 2017
boostdom:


Ain't that some shiit tho? Your conclusion based on stereotype. Then you feel some way if the stereotype is on the other cheek. Ever wondered why if you throw a fair coin 99 times and it shows "head", the odds for the 100th throw is still 0.5?

You confirm to her he cheating, then you end your comment with "just investigate". On what basis then was your conclusion? Statements like yours are the psychic fuel that generates negativity.
No sir I'm just stating an valid opinion. Sterotype? So what if I did? But I'm not basing it off negativity so gtfo my ass. You must have been guilty with this similar situation. You rather be safe than sorry and humiliated.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ConcNiggress56(f): 10:29am On Jan 16, 2017
Lalasticlala and seun sef.. Password:,Snake tonto dike

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 10:51am On Jan 16, 2017
ebonyeyes88:
No sir I'm just stating an valid opinion. Sterotype? So what if I did? But I'm not basing it off negativity so gtfo my ass. You must have been guilty with this similar situation. You rather be safe than sorry and humiliated.

Boringly predictable.

You are not misunderstood, you just lack any sort of critical thought.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 10:59am On Jan 16, 2017
boostdom:


Boringly predictable.

You are not misunderstood, you just lack any sort of critical thought.
stfu go eat a diick leave me alone. I was actually being nice to you but yea eat a diick.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 16, 2017
ebonyeyes88:
stfu go eat a diick leave me alone. I was actually being nice to you but yea eat a diick.

You don't have to be nice to me, I'm not a stray cat. Logical reasoning is prerequisite and you clearly failed at that.

And yeah, you should know a lot about eating dicks- that's the only thing you good at.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 11:09am On Jan 16, 2017
boostdom:


You don't have to be nice to me, I'm not a stray cat. Logical reasoning is prerequisite and you clearly failed at that.

And yeah, you should know a lot about eating dicks- that's the only thing you good at.
I know a stray cat when I see one. You're really starting a war hunny. I'm not the one sweetie. I told you to leave me alone so once again I'm going to do this the right way by telling you kindly sir that you've stated your opinion. Well noted . Could you kindly leave me alone? Let's not ruin this thread over senseless words of negativity because you're reinforcing stereotype and negative feedbacks. Leave me ALONE.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Ajewealth123(m): 11:21am On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
Sex isn't food na, they should get married if she can't close her legs.
i wanted to say when will you take away that dry yansh away from ur dp? But since it's not my business,I decided not to say it so I shut my mouth.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 11:26am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:


And getting married will stop him from his business trips??

Get some sense bae
Develop self control love.
Common one month you can't stay without sex, dem do you?.
Mitcheew!.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 11:32am On Jan 16, 2017
talk2alabama:
benita27 chei na u dem finish so
You call that one finishing?. grin
On a serious note, these are the types that would cheat when sex starved, if for a month someone would be complaining of sex, not even four or six months, one month.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 11:35am On Jan 16, 2017
ebonyeyes88:
I know a stray cat when I see one. You're really starting a war hunny. I'm not the one sweetie. I told you to leave me alone so once again I'm going to do this the right way by telling you kindly sir that you've stated your opinion. Well noted . Could you kindly leave me alone? Let's not ruin this thread over senseless words of negativity because you're reinforcing stereotype and negative feedbacks. Leave me ALONE.

Your naivety while endearing in a child is dangerous in someone of voting age. Read up on the ethos of a public forum.

You are so used to being captive that being enlightened fills you with negativity. Let it not confuse you why it continually feels like the world is against you. It is because you have allowed yourself to literally have your mind tied up by uncontrollable patriarch bitterness which does its best to continually make you a victim. You have mentally digested this to the point that you embody it down to your very soul.

That is the psychic fuel that generates your anger.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 16, 2017
ButterFrost212:

What has getting married got to do with anything? undecided
He might prioritize her over his job as a wife than as a gf since she's a sex addict.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by AdeOluwaTomiwa(m): 12:26pm On Jan 16, 2017
I think you should get a job and keep yourself busy with something, it will take your mind away from sex at least..goodluck bae.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by AdeOluwaTomiwa(m): 12:27pm On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
He might prioritize her over his job as a wife than as a gf since she's a sex addict.
haba,did she say she's a sex addict?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 12:37pm On Jan 16, 2017
boostdom:


Your naivety while endearing in a child is dangerous in someone of voting age. Read up on the ethos of a public forum.

You are so used to being captive that being enlightened fills you with negativity. Let it not confuse you why it continually feels like the world is against you. It is because you have allowed yourself to literally have your mind tied up by uncontrollable patriarch bitterness which does its best to continually make you a victim. You have mentally digested this to the point that you embody it down to your very soul.

That is the psychic fuel that generates your anger.
huh?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 12:39pm On Jan 16, 2017
boostdom:


Your naivety while endearing in a child is dangerous in someone of voting age. Read up on the ethos of a public forum.

You are so used to being captive that being enlightened fills you with negativity. Let it not confuse you why it continually feels like the world is against you. It is because you have allowed yourself to literally have your mind tied up by uncontrollable patriarch bitterness which does its best to continually make you a victim. You have mentally digested this to the point that you embody it down to your very soul.

That is the psychic fuel that generates your anger.
u need to catch some sleep seriously
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 12:43pm On Jan 16, 2017
boostdom:


Your naivety while endearing in a child is dangerous in someone of voting age. Read up on the ethos of a public forum.

You are so used to being captive that being enlightened fills you with negativity. Let it not confuse you why it continually feels like the world is against you. It is because you have allowed yourself to literally have your mind tied up by uncontrollable patriarch bitterness which does its best to continually make you a victim. You have mentally digested this to the point that you embody it down to your very soul.

That is the psychic fuel that generates your anger.
Thank God I have an extraordinary life outside this niaraland shiithole smh..
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jan 16, 2017
AdeOluwaTomiwa:
haba,did she say she's a sex addict?
If she can't stay without sex for a month then she's addicted.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by talk2alabama: 1:21pm On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
You call that one finishing?. grin
On a serious note, these are the types that would cheat when sex starved, if for a month someone would be complaining of sex, not even four or six months, one month.
some ladies are nymphomaniacs na... U won't blame them...
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jan 16, 2017
talk2alabama:
some ladies are nymphomaniacs na... U won't blame them...
Then she should allow the young guy rest, man must hustle: sex doesn't put food on the table.

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